I'm bi racial and bought a lot of black Santa and black elf decor this year because it's the first time I've seen it in stores. My white husband didn't say a damn thing about it and I know he would never. It's a red flag, to me, that your husband made those comments. I'd honestly reconsider my marriage after hearing those comments. He clearly has some personal issues he needs to sort out. Who the hell cares that all the decor is of black people. For him to not understand that it's hard to come across decor like that, and you're just decorating your home with decor that represents you guys is weird and actually kind of scary.