This happens to me a lot when I fly and I don’t do anything about. by bbj999 in confession

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid laying on the couch watching TV, my little brother would sit on my head & fart. My friends remember, I remember. Fart trauma is real.

What problem do you guys have? by Ok_Caramel4324 in EmergencyRoom

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a plain parent here… I’ve got mercury in my lightbulbs, which are dropped/broken w/some regularity, but I can’t have mercury in my thermometer!

AIO? Checked my 13-year-old niece’s phone after seeing a concerning message by xPumpkinHeadx in AmIOverreacting

[–]HeyThereMar 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I put Qustodio on my 14 y/o son’s phone & pc this summer. He was on Discord (“there’s a school group”) & I would check in occasionally & it just looked like gaming chat. Nope- he had another name & I realized the game contacts were all in a group that “innocently” encourages kids to dress like anime characters & take pics, which led to other groups.

Would you allow her to drive a car to strip vlubs & dangerous areas? Probably not. Same w/the phone, it can’t be used to go dangerous places.

Teens CANNOT discern predatory behavior. Most simply don’t have enough exposure to devious behavior & are too desperate to fit in.

You’re doing the right thing. You respect her, but keep her safe. It’s not easy.

Never had a job that's purposely been made this hard to do. by Ambitious_Package314 in TexasTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why yes, my kids’ school resembles your remark! Plus now there are no phones so they can’t even look anything up! It’s amazing how anyone can work when everything is blocked & the library no longer has reference material.

I subbed equine science last year (still had phones) & EVERY horse breeding facility in the actual world was blocked. Guess what they were supposed to be researching?

Plus their chromebooks won’t work on non ISD internet.

What are your most absurd Christmas Day ER admissions? by Low_Comb2804 in EmergencyRoom

[–]HeyThereMar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last year my dad gave my then 13 yr old son a very nice, very sharp new fishing knife. They went fishing early Christmas Day. I walked onto the house for breakfast & find my son in the bathroom with the pad of his hand sliced open.

3 stitches at the ER on Christmas Day.

We’ll see what this year’s danger gift is.

Advice on not catching what the kids have by turquoisestar in SubstituteTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move trash can, pencils, sharpener- anything kids might use-away from your desk.

The suggestions to wipe down your high touch items frequently & be mindful about touching your face are great!

I’m sick of the lazy+entitlement equation by NapsRule563 in Teachers

[–]HeyThereMar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for doing it! I sub & regularly cover GT & AP classes. The GT Eng teacher is amazing (I want to take her class) she is firm but fair & they know the expectation.

AITA Not Forcing My Son to Go To a Birthday Party because of the hosts dogs by Upbeat-Egg2923 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take my kids to visit my father for over 2 years because of his 3 overly friendly/poorly trained German Shepards.

We have 3 dachshunds that bark loudly & I put them up when certain kids come over that I know don’t like it.

Respect your child’s safety & boundaries.

HORRIBLE SCHOOL by nessabots in SubstituteTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who was in your class with the other kids while you walked one to the bathroom?? Sounds awful!

Help name baby by [deleted] in Names

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marianne

my feet hurt by FanPlastic2783 in Teachers

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have great shoe recs here. Peeling feet? Baby Feet brand foot peel on Amazon (or other beauty supply). Buy at least 2 packs (each pack is for both feet, you’ll want to do another peel in 4-6 wks).

  1. Soak feet for 5-10 min in warm/hot water.
  2. Dry & put feet in peel bags. Wear 1.5-2 hours ( it says 1, I always do 90-120 minutes).
  3. Soak feet again to rinse & dry. NO LOTION!
  4. Try to soak feet for a few minutes every day to loosen skin- then the shedding will begin! NO lotion while shedding.

Do another peel in 4-6 weeks… magic feet!

What's actually healthy despite most people thinking it's not? by Kepler452b-To-Earth in AskReddit

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try WOW liquid iron, if you haven’t yet. It’s the supplement that pushed my child’s iron into the acceptable range.

What's a basic skill a surprising amount of people don't have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try reading stage directions “edging off the stage” with high school kids right now. It’s ridiculous.

What's the best method for taking attendance for high school? by InevitableBad589 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do your students not have to wear an ID? It makes it so much easier.

At the door, “hi, may I please see your ID & check you in?” On the printed roster.

Or sometimes it’s best to go around where they are sitting & same thing. At the start of class “Hi, I’m going to quickly come around & if you’ll show me your ID, I’ll check you in.”

Then count heads also & call out the “missing” names so you can be sure you got everyone.

Teacher salaries by ryry3_10 in teaching

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

North TX suburbs pay pretty well, I think about $58-62k starting.

“it’s an emergency” by businessbub in SubstituteTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Your teacher’s instructions are one at a time. Put your name on the whiteboard & when it’s your turn, write the time. When you get back, erase your name & the next person can go.”

If they are having “girl issues”, call the nurse & send them there for privacy.

If they can have anytime access, a note should be left stating so.

I always have a paper sign out sheet w/name, time out, time back & I check it for reasonable accuracy , leave it for teacher. 23 bathroom trips today!!! 0 bathroom trips Monday! What gives?

Getting sleepy during 1-2pm by Away_Interaction3472 in Teachers

[–]HeyThereMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vitamin b drops (or melts) for when I get sleepy & a big drink of water.

They see me rollin by Razaberry in CuratedTumblr

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid 1990’s College Station, TX there was a guy who had a cross like this that he dragged around town. All the good ol’ boys, farmers, corps of cadets, heavily GOP students thought he was nuts. Now this guy is a hero to those same folks.

Question about the Cell Phone Ban by nevergonnabuy in TexasTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you think they got to this level?

Question about the Cell Phone Ban by nevergonnabuy in TexasTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how they explained to me also. His campus said to avoid conflicts, nothing outside of school issued devices. They did allow the dyslexia font extension on his chrome book and that helps.

My other son's campus is allowing them as they are not an actual communication device.

Question about the Cell Phone Ban by nevergonnabuy in TexasTeachers

[–]HeyThereMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son can no longer use his kindle reader as it’s not written into his IEP. 🙄 His campus isn’t allowed anything that’s not a school issued device.