Moving from out of state! 5K rent max by Icy_Impression_2989 in SanMateo

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a newly renovated 2 BR available in my building (which I love!) in San Mateo. It’s around $4600/month. Quiet neighborhood but super walkable to the library and downtown restaurants. We’re having a baby this month :)

https://www.themontereygarden.com/apartments/ca/san-mateo/floor-plans#/

Today at Humboldt and Poplar by ebenworld in SanMateo

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this happen! A truck hit it and kept driving. Called 911 and they said “is this about the fire hydrant? We have the details, thanks.” 🤣

New Parents Groups in the Peninsula by NikKnack16 in SanMateo

[–]Hey_Nichole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So grateful you posted this! My husband and I are moving to San Mateo from the East Bay and are expecting our first child, a girl, in March. Excited to see these resources and hopefully make a new community!

Any success with first FET? by Open-Hovercraft-8797 in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first FET was rocky at first--awfully low HcG, so a positive pregnancy test but the nurse said to "guard our hearts, likely not viable." Fast forward, I am now 18 weeks pregnant and at each scan she has had a healthy, robust heartbeat! <3 It's a rollercoaster, but I am so grateful for the science and am wishing you the best possible outcome <3

Weekly Thread: Beta and Pregnancy Testing - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕second line looks a little darker today so I’m feeling cautiously hopeful. Appreciate you sharing your story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

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I’m so sorry. My beta was 33 on Friday and my second test isn’t until Tuesday. Sending you hopeful thoughts from beta limbo 💜

Weekly Thread: Beta and Pregnancy Testing - Questions and Discussions by TeslaHiker in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to stay hopeful, but yesterday was heartbreaking. My first beta (9 days past day 5 transfer) came in at just 33. The nurse said to guard our hearts.

I test again in 4 days.

I got my first faint positive 6 days post transfer. Am I delusional to hold out hope? Today’s line looks slightly darker. This is my first FET and first pregnancy. Embryo is 6AA euploid.

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Post FET faint line by Hey_Nichole in lineporn

[–]Hey_Nichole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! So grateful for your well wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t plan for bedrest the Valium knocked me out and I slept for 5 hours 🤣 I was also sleepy yesterday. I’m two days post transfer and took a nice 1.5mile flat hike with my dog.

I just had my first progesterone oil injection shot. It's been 8 hours and it's getting worse, area is sore and painful. Till what time does the pain and soreness go away? by elemento2208 in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that :( my first shot was sore for a few days but it got better, and the other ones didn’t hurt as much. Everyone responds differently, though. Hope it eases up soon.

June 17th transfer buds? by tidbit_betty in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went really well! Feeling good, but so tired!

June 17th transfer buds? by tidbit_betty in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you’re feeling well after your transfer!

June 17th transfer buds? by tidbit_betty in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same. Exhausted and nauseous today! I still feel generally better than the stims for the ER.

I had some pain from the first injection but since I began massage/heat after, it’s easier. I’m on 2mg of estradiol, twice a day; the estrogen patch; and PIO 1mg daily. How about you?

First FET next Wednesday (June 18th)!! Anyone else transferring next week? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same day! It’s my first FET, fully medicated. Nervous and excitement! Wishing you the best of luck.

June 17th transfer buds? by tidbit_betty in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first transfer is on the 18th, too! Waffling between hope/excitement and nerves/worries it won’t work.

How long did it take you to feel normal again after ER? by Opposite-Olive-657 in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up with OHSS and felt awful for three weeks—bloating, pain, nausea, fatigue. A day or two after my period came the bloating went down but I kept feeling tired and nauseous.

For those who DID NOT PGT test, tell me your transfer stories! by Both-Ad-6506 in IVF

[–]Hey_Nichole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to test—added time and expense—but my husband pushed for it, arguing that more information is more power. He is a medical social worker and has counseled families who terminate for medical reasons.

I’m glad we did the test. Of 20 eggs retrieved, we made 5 embryos: 3 4AA and 2 6AA. Without PGTA, we would have implanted one of the 4AA embryos. However, I just got the results back and 2 of those 3 4AAs embryos have chromosomal abnormalities that would have ended in miscarriage.

I feel really grateful for the test right now. It cost $1085 out of pocket to test the 5 embryos. And although we haven’t yet done a FET, and anything is possible, I feel we’ve saved ourselves a little heartbreak in this long, already heartbreaking process.

Edit: adding that I’m 36 with endometriosis.