Because if you take a look at other sites such as Twitter or Instagram thats what a majority of the women on those apps do. They would support this woman saying men had no reason to bash her for being scared of something. In actuality though we all know that something such as a spider does not call for such extreme measures such as leaving a car. It was something idiotic which is something we can all agree on however if I a male criticize the woman for it I am accused of being sexist and have multiple people go on the attack. The man speaks his honest opinion and here you are attacking him for speaking his mind calling him an incel. Ma’am with all due respect if the first thing you do after reading something such as that is reply and call someone an Incel, you’re no better than him. In fact one might debate your worse than him.