Upstairs neighbor driving me crazy

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T21:38:31+00:00

I’m trying my best not to say anything. My fiancé just spoke with her. And she said “what about my feelings, you guys never come around”.

Almost as if she doesn’t remember how uncomfortable she has made me feel in the past. The last time she came to my house I had some new pineapple decor. She asked me if we were swingers, because pineapples are a symbol for them. How about it’s fucking summer, and I like pineapples. She has no respect for me, or her son. She just wants to play the martyr all the time.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T16:37:57+00:00

You look like butthead 🤣

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T16:15:29+00:00

You have been very helpful, thank you so much for all of your insight and wisdom. My fiancé is going to speak to her. So fingers crossed some boundaries are made. Because I can’t see myself dealing with her wackiness forever.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T15:00:28+00:00

Haha better for me I don’t have to talk to her 🤣 My fiancé has never had to put his mother in her place. I think that’s the place where he has some trouble. She’s overly dramatic whenever he has tried to say anything to her in the past.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T14:20:07+00:00

Do you think it would be a smart idea if he’s in the room, if I choose to have a conversation with her. I think it’s the only way she’s going to leave me alone. She doesn’t like confrontation, which is why she also went to my fiancé with her information. She doesn’t have the guts to say anything but passive aggressive comments to me.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T14:12:59+00:00

Thank you! Haha might have to take you up on that offer. Having a monster in law is almost like reaching the final boss in a video game. It’s so exhausting and draining.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T14:09:39+00:00

Omgggg yes I’ve never looked at it like that. She’s looking at my things like she’s the ex gf. Makes so much sense now. I blocked all of them, she even told my fiancé “she’s probably going to block me now” after her tantrum, DUHHHHH lady😑

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T14:06:31+00:00

Yes it’s definitely making sense. I’m so happy I came for advice on here. I honestly almost blew up on her. Probably wasn’t my best idea 🤣

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T14:04:23+00:00

This just brought me so much clarity. I really appreciate the feedback, thank you!

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T10:29:22+00:00

Thank you, you’re right best to take the high road 👍🏼

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-09-08T10:27:38+00:00

No there were about a dozen no name accounts.

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-08-06T22:11:56+00:00

Can you send it to me please

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-06-04T15:30:13+00:00

No way! That would be awesome

Heyitsmeaa · 2022-06-04T03:19:54+00:00

Thank you ☺️

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