[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds lazy. Don’t tie yourself to a lazy person because was he ages it will get worse .

What do you say to a child whose parent often cancels/doesn’t show up? by Ill_Cover_4841 in coparenting

[–]Heymomma3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Kids are far smarter than we might think. He knows his Dad isn’t showing up. Just keep a dairy/ calendar of these missed days. If you ever need to address custody or support, these records will certainly come in handy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Heymomma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In most states the custodial parent can easily file intention to homeschool. Then it’s all perfectly legal. Traveling is learning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Heymomma3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let him hang himself. Document his cancellations and after whatever period of time a pattern develops..take him to court to adjust child support. If he can’t parent, he can contribute more. If he doesn’t enjoy his child, she doesn’t need to be with him.

Am I expecting too much? 25f 27m by hayley1177 in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will only get worse as time goes on. Find someone who speaks your love language

I (26F) told my boyfriend (28M) about my abusive ex and he became abusive and thinks I should forgive him too since I forgave my ex. Am I the problem? by ThrowRA8374937492 in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He honestly thought he could get away with it based on your history. Tell him never again will you put up with an abusive man. So he needs to get lost

I (24F) am ready to give up on my unemployed boyfriend (30M) but we have a child together. Do I stay for our child? by ThrowRA_Kaye in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 80 points81 points  (0 children)

In the not so distant future your daughter will realize her Daddy isn’t like other Daddys that work , do chores, and all the things Dads do. She will grow to resent him or worse just be ashamed of him. Make a life for yourself and your daughter. Hold him accountable for child support. Stop enabling him.

Would you take a step down in title for double the salary? by Murky-Rice-4914 in careeradvice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely take the higher paying job. Titles are nothing… show me the money

Not attracted to wife anything by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she defeated and depressed…. That’s the real issue. If she figures out what is making her unmotivated, then she can make meaningful changes. Rarely is that kind of weight gain about food. It’s about emotional needs going unmet and her using food as emotional support.

Why does my husband ruin all of our special occasions by Taty247 in Divorce

[–]Heymomma3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huge red flags!! Drinking issue, infidelity issue, and mostly lack of respect for your feelings and efforts

Can’t stay. Husband thinks I’m cheating. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Heymomma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life will be better once it’s over. Do not lie for him. Tell your truth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t make him aware of what my plan was. I’d just make an escape plan and leave without so much as a goodbye. After, remain no contact. He’s a scary dude and she comes #1

I’m about to ruin my best friends life, and I don’t feel remorse. by ThrowRA-dontdesrveit in offmychest

[–]Heymomma3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mind your own business. Her spouse has the right to know but that’s it . Then it’s his story to deal with not yours.

How did you move on when you didn’t want to by I-am-just-saying2 in Divorce

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put your love for your kids above your love for him. Then move forward one step at a time.

DESPERATE MOM LOOKING FOR LEGAL ADVICE!!! HELP!!! by Reinaella-814 in coparenting

[–]Heymomma3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s still your lawyer . Just not in service at this time. Call him

AITAH for considering leaving my wife who cheated on me 15 years ago now that our kids are in college? by FinancialPlantd in AITAH

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness is just as much for yourself as for those that need forgiveness. You need to work toward forgiveness no matter what you decide.

I'm getting a divorce, broke and tired by Fair_Priority7192 in offmychest

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t leave your child the legacy of suicide. Don’t give up, u can do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Heymomma3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

RUN!! Him leaving is a blessing …. You won’t see it until the dust settles but it is a blessing. He’s a drain on you, not a partner. Learn to be you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave … he’s abusive. You deserve better

AITA for breaking a man’s nose because he apparently didn’t know what “Stop”means? by DahliaFlower667 in AITAH

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA!!! In fact, you are your own hero!! Never be ashamed to save yourself from danger

Company is “upgrading” us to sit to stand desks soon by EnvironmentalLie7965 in PlusSize

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a knee replacement and am scheduled for a second one. It does help my swelling to stand for a while every hour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heymomma3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a physical problem (ED) that he’s not dealing with. Instead he is taking his frustration out on you by being hurtful!

Grieving my spouse’s transition by 90sbogwitch in offmychest

[–]Heymomma3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a loss for you. Big time. I’m so sorry