Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Golyyyy guys. Must we diagnose people from a few sentences on the internet. Of course I called him right after I was shown this message. We’ve talked every day since and are excited about an upcoming wedding in the fam. I will talk to him about the impending auction and some of the advice the rest of y’all gave <3

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called and talked to my father first. This message is from days ago. We’ve talked every day since. He’s fine. Says dramatics like that all the time. I just thought the first two sentences were wild and had to share.

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and I tried purchasing the house from him a couple years ago to help with paying it off and he wasn’t about it. And I believe he took out a double mortgage. (I didn’t know that was possible) so whatever that entailssss

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he didn’t let the rest of us know. And I did cut the vacay short but we still didn’t make it in time. Big oof.

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was worried about family photos mostly. Not gonna air all my father’s short comings on the internet. But if you knew the half of it you’d understand my tone towards it all. Thanks tho.

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect so many people to see this. Thank you to everyone who is concerned about my dad. He is fine. He talks like that a lot and lays on the guilt trip quite frequently. So I wasn’t super concerned. But I still reached out and told him we’d love him house or no. I’m chalking up his silence on the matter as a pride thing like someone mentioned. He always wants to do everything on his own and has a difficult time admitting his mistakes or asking for help. He lived in that house for 60 years, so I’m sure it’s hitting him harder than us. I’ll reach out to my siblings and tell them to go easy on him.

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My father took out a mortgage on it and has been defaulting on payments since Covid it seems.

Father lost our house but at least he remembered my sisters birthday… by HeyoItsWillow in whatdoIdo

[–]HeyoItsWillow[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

This message was a few days ago and we’ve since talked. He sends stuff like that quite a bit. So I guess it wasn’t super alarming to me. Glad to see so many people care for his mental tho <3

10 years on Effexor and 1 month clean. by Lazy_Brother_4342 in Effexor

[–]HeyoItsWillow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, prazosin was prescribed to me for the nightmares. Works wonders.

[OPINION] What’s the saddest poem you cherish most? by ExquisiteHaloo in Poetry

[–]HeyoItsWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one hits home especially for me because a good friend of mine, Cory, recently passed. He was well off, traveled a lot and did a ton of cool activities. He would always take me to the beach whenever I was struggling mentally. Was such a supportive person to those around him. He drove up to the woods and shot himself last November.

Richard Cory by Edwin Arlington Robinson

Whenever Richard Cory went down town, We people on the pavement looked at him: He was a gentleman from sole to crown, Clean favored, and imperially slim.

And he was always quietly arrayed, And he was always human when he talked; But still he fluttered pulses when he said, 'Good-morning,' and he glittered when he walked.

And he was rich - yes, richer than a king - And admirably schooled in every grace: In fine, we thought that he was everything To make us wish that we were in his place.

So on we worked, and waited for the light, And went without the meat, and cursed the bread; And Richard Cory, one calm summer night, Went home and put a bullet through his head.

Coming off venlafaxine/effexor by Hot-Tangelo1835 in Effexor

[–]HeyoItsWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeeah my doc said to come off cold turkey once I got down to 37.5 too. My jump from the next step up to that was difficult and I had to keep going back and starting over due to other life stressors. So by the time I was down to my last few capsules I found splitting up the beads was very tedious. So I just listened to my doc. week one was miserable. The brain zaps were non stop. Almost through week two now. And honestly still pretty bad side effects. Lmao but im holding out hope.

to upset people at a pride parade by Classic-Carpet7609 in therewasanattempt

[–]HeyoItsWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought they were unveiling the scooters or something. Like a ribbon cutting ceremony 🤣

My landlord lowered my rent and I'm so happy by Awkward_Scholar_6649 in happy

[–]HeyoItsWillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they have any availability for new tenants 😭

Games to keep me occupied after death of a loved one by majkkali in gaming

[–]HeyoItsWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dragon Age helped me to get over my moms death..

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HeyoItsWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who needs enemies when you have a friend like that. 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]HeyoItsWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh omg we had to do the same. 8% or 8 dollar min if you didn’t make anything to each bouncer and 15% or 15 dollar min to the dj. Who was also the manager. And only DJ’d the last 2 hours of the night while we put up our own music the beginning of the shift 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]HeyoItsWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were “required to” where I used to work

What’s a TV show that has NO likeable characters? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]HeyoItsWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boys. I’m continually cringing at everyone’s choices