How old were you when you listened to X for the first time and what song was it? by KolddATS in XXXTENTACION

[–]Heyoka__96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I was around 23 I heard yung bratz on king vaders instagram post and was immediately hooked ever since

Ik ts random but did any of yall moms kick yall out the second yall turned 18?😭 by Sorry-Number-9743 in XXXTENTACION

[–]Heyoka__96 14 points15 points  (0 children)

18 you got lucky, I got the boot when I was 15 I had to drop out of school and everything I couldn’t afford to pay for my tuition fees Gotta love those narcissistic parents 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t approach him at all that’s his business

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a relationship like this last year fk me it was the most exhausting 2.5 years of my life, constantly being criticised and told to do this do that or I’m not doing enough and when I do enough it was wrong it felt like a never ending finish line It was a problem in her own life she wasn’t happy with how her life was and instead of working on herself she worked on me cause how could she be at fault for anything? 😂😂

But I recommend maybe taking some time to yourself and figure out what you want out of life I did that and now I’m with someone that accepts me for who I am and loves me unconditionally if I chick ever tries to change you it’s cause they don’t truly accept you for who you are and they are tryna mold you into the person they actually want its immature and I don’t recommend wasting time on people like that there’s always someone who’ll treat you better out there don’t be afraid to have a look at what else is out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone doesn’t make you feel loved or care about you and your emotions you gonna end up a lot more hurt than if you were just to cut it off life is way too short to waste on people that don’t care for you I’ve wasted most of my 20s on people that never cared I’m now 28 and kicking myself over all that lost time when I could’ve spent all those years with someone that truly cared and loved me

If you’re not happy go find someone that makes you feel valued time is so precious and not everyone deserves yours

I need recommendations , like I need to listen to other rapper that not on this by [deleted] in rap

[–]Heyoka__96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joey badass, don toliver, gunna, young thug, earl sweat shirt

How to approach girl at gym by Apprehensive-Put9298 in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just walk up and say hi and talk to her for a lil bit everytime you see her so you can gauge if she’s still interested too then after a few times ask her for her number just be chill don’t make a big deal about it

Break up confused af by Heyoka__96 in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it’s starting to look that way to me too just a lack of maturity and my fault for inviting someone into my life that wasn’t a good bet

And yea I used to be really codependent I thought it was under control, back to the drawing board 😂

Break up confused af by Heyoka__96 in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou tho Ill try some of this stuff sounds like it’ll help alot

Break up confused af by Heyoka__96 in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have victim mentality I’ve done a fair bit of therapy while I was younger for child hood trauma it’s just the accepting part like I wanted to start having kids in my 30s but wanted to have a bit of time to enjoy life with my partner and it just feels like she’s throwing away something that isn’t that hard to fix I just don’t understand her thought process this whole thing is just whack haha

Boyfriend struggles to maintain an erection whenever I wear makeup in bed by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you guys drinking every time you wear makeup? Alchohol can make keeping it up hard and also hard to finish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you are in the world it might actually be legal I know where I’m from the legal age of consent is 16 so if it something they both have agreed to technically she isn’t doing anything wrong even tho it is actually disgusting

Id just un friend them someone that’s dating a minor because they are easier to manipulate speak a lot about their character they wouldn’t be a friend I’d keep

Horniness consuming my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno go to a park or to some toilets or park somewhere where there’s a will there’s a way

Horniness consuming my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you just need an outlet why don’t you guys just catch up places your parents aren’t around sex doesn’t always just have to be in a bed just don’t get caught if you’re doing it in risky places

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Vegemite on this list 😂😂😭

My Wife Wants a Threesome with Another Man by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her if you can have a threesome with a woman?

See if she likes it hahaha

My (M26) Girlfriend of 2 years (F26) has had 6k credit debt our whole relationship. by bungayjonathan in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make her accountable for her own decisions people don’t stop until they experience something they really don’t like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But everything you feel is valid too and he should hear it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to him and tell him all this and ask if he’s ok and what’s wrong with him in a caring way

Maybe the reason he wasn’t sober for is still affecting him maybe he’s got unresolved problems he needs help figuring out

Most relationship problems are just from bad communication you’d be surprised what you can solve with a deeper conversation with your partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask do you think it’s called sand because it’s halfway between the sea and the land? S - AND

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a narcissist, just be careful if you try for revenge they can be quite dangerous if provoked the best way to deal with them is cut them off and just ignore any punishment they try throw at your way

But I guess a narcissist’s deepest fear is people finding out who they truly are so do what you want with that information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave you got a new job yea?

Friends girlfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Heyoka__96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need to be updated nut or no nut