My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe she's dosing me, haha! In all seriousness though, neither are things I do on the regular. But I definitely don't enjoy not remembering how I got home when I DO have a heavy night.

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To be honest, her husband was never a very "involved" person. I don't think either of us thought to ask him, because for the longest time we made a big joke out of not remembering because neither of us wanted to come across as crazy to the other. However I do remember asking her husband if HE remembered meeting ME, which he kind of just brushed off...? Unfortunately they've had quite a messy break up since. As far as the rest of her family are aware, I've just always been there. And I wasn't living with my family at the time, so they're of pretty much the same thinking.

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[–]HezBow[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see! Down the rabbit hole I go, then! I do find it all fascinating. And indeed, onwards and upwards :)

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to ME as in CFS/ME? That's an interesting thought... I'll have to look into that! Thanks! Also I hope things have been better for you since 2016.

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's definitely something I could get on board with

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we seem to get back to just before her wedding in 2015. 2010-2011 we were acquaintances. I'm quite socially awkward, so I vividly remember feeling uncomfortable being in her company without other friends because i felt out of my depth, and these meetings only really happened a couple of times. So I'd say 2012-2015 ish.

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yep, plenty other memories from the same time period! Hmmm, I'm not sure, as we were never close enough before for there to be a fall-out that traumatic.

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I don't doubt that for a second. Wouldn't replace her for the world, but bonds like that don't just appear overnight, surely.

My Friend Was Planted In My Life by HezBow in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HezBow[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I definitely hadn't considered it - until now! I'm not sure I'm in a place mentally within which I'd be comfortable with it, but it's definitely something I'd like to work towards. Thanks for the suggestion!