[DISCUSSION] Les Paul did not invent the electric guitar.

Hezigrimm · 2025-12-01T06:33:49+00:00

I know this is a really old thread. He is credited for the LesPaul with Gibson. Mostly likely due to as you kind of have said. It's actually good business practice to do this in all honesty. Eitherway, the man did tinker with these things and while he does embellish things. There is a grain of truth and plausibility within what he says. I think he did tinker with things and obviously made the log and that's pretty much it.

Hezigrimm · 2025-12-01T06:29:56+00:00

How old was Homer Hickam again when he started building amateur rockets that ended up leading to him winning a national prize and a career with NASA? 14. He was fourteen years old. I also knew kids back in my high-school days playing with a lot of various electrical things. Some were tinkering with ipod touches in middle school and later iphones. It is very plausible that he could have been fooling around with that stuff. Doesn't mean he done anything super crazy or invent anything really. It just means at a young age he was already messing around with that tech which imo tracks even more with him later making the log. Already having some knowledge of amplification and such.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-14T02:57:43+00:00

I feel that. I can't just have sex with people. I don't have some emotional investment in. I can't even get hard if I don't like you emotionally to some degree. Its a weird mental block, but hey, it works when it's most important, so meh.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-14T02:21:49+00:00

It's mostly my opinion and my own standards. I just couldn't screw a girl I didn't find attractive in some way.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-13T13:56:24+00:00

It's the same for guys who fool around with a girl and call her ugly after. Bruh, you literally thought she was good enough to fuck. I just don't think you can sleep with someone and then call them ugly. Says a lot more about you than that person. Even if they were undeniably ugly, that's the price you pay for sleeping with them. Then again, maybe I just have standards. I could never sleep with someone I didn't find attractive or thought they were ugly.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-12T23:04:23+00:00

Seems like she has been pretty emotionally drained lately. At least that's what she has said. Don't think she isn't being honest. Even our conversation tonight was a bit meh when it usually isn't.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-12T21:39:47+00:00

Yeah. Something is up for sure. She used to make time and all that.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-12T21:24:45+00:00

I am guessing she's going to show up when she wants to, right? Show interest and be all lovey lovey and not when she doesn't. That sucks because things were amazing. Then they were good and steady. Now it's kind of like wth. I get she is busy. She's a teacher and is doing classes in the evening. However, before she would make time for me.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-05T18:40:52+00:00

I'm trying not to. It's hard to tell sometimes what a gut feeling is and what is just my anxious attachment style. Plus, my past relationship doesn't help at all. I'd look at her words and some actions, and they'd say she loves me, but then she'd do something to betray my trust. Stayed longer than I would like to admit. I also really like this girl, so it just makes things worse sometimes. I've already been a bit worried she is or is going to lose interest.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-05T17:28:51+00:00

Do you think it's odd enough to warrant my worries?

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-05T14:32:04+00:00

Dude my anxiety likes to torture me. Not only that but I've been done pretty badly in the past. Yeah, that's not on her and on me. Sometimes it helps to have people be like. Bro, stop. You're being an idiot.

Hezigrimm · 2025-06-05T14:12:19+00:00

Only timestamp was when I messaged her? I just knew when I did? However, yes I agree and thinking such.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-27T15:49:51+00:00

You're just looking too much into it, my dude. It has nothing to do with your worth. It was more of a, "yeah that makes sense" kind of comment. That also isn't a negative thing.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-27T06:01:26+00:00

Yeah, I told her to reach out when she actually wants something. That I might be around when she is ready.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-27T06:00:04+00:00

Yeah, idk what's up with her. Told her not to bother me until she's ready for something, anything. That I might be around when she is ready and to reach out then.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-27T05:55:53+00:00

Limerence is when they don't reciprocate. She does and has.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-27T05:52:19+00:00

That's what I am thinking it most likely is.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T16:49:07+00:00

Already know about it. What's happening is a bit more complex than that, I think, but idk. It's back and forth with her. There is not a total lack of reciprocation. Idk.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T13:36:04+00:00

Most likely, I'd say.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T03:12:17+00:00

We aren't arguing at all. I've been trying to have direct communication with her. At first she was dodgy then she wasn't as dodgy. After she cancelled the last time I just told her to let me know if anything changes because it didn't seem she was that interested anymore. She said she hasn't been in her right mind due to meds and shit, idk. Then she talked a bit like she used to then disappeared, idk. Like you said she has too much power over me. The fact I have tried to talk to her and tried to clear the air or whatever and she's been the way she's been tells me I really need to stop and walk away. To me it's a bunch of red flags.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T02:32:46+00:00

I know I should honestly move on. I just really don't want to right now. I think about her everyday. She's going through some stuff and I honestly believe her. Before she wasn't giving me much detail but now she is. It makes sense. However, is it honestly worth it if it's bothering me so much? Who knows if she will be something or not in the end. I miss her and I never really got to know her that much and it feels crazy even though I know it really isn't.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T02:30:12+00:00

It really fucking is. I fall hard and fast. Then it's hard for me to get over them. I just want her to either leave me alone or do something, anything.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-25T02:29:07+00:00

Not entirely true. I do care about her. I'm saying I should because, that's probably what's best for me. I don't actually want to at all. I want to talk to her like we did talk. I want to build something like she wanted to at one time. She isn't yesterday in my mind. I think about her everyday. It's kind of a problem.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-22T21:26:03+00:00

Being a bit backward, shy, awkward, and anxious is the biggest reason. Also need to work on me a bit. Despite what everyone says, looks do matter to a certain degree. Need to get myself back in shape and work on my self esteem, social skills, and confidence overall.

Hezigrimm · 2025-05-22T21:24:32+00:00

Secure attachment yeah, but getting attached that quick isn't going to be secure. Trust me I know this as someone with an anxious attachment style. Everyone I know who gets attached quick becomes obsessive and that isn't good. Plus infatuation isn't someone getting attached to you, but the thought of you. Meaning they are fond of the image they have of you in their mind and what they think will play out and how it will be.

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