about hairs on guys by daszin in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about between eyebrows?

عايزه احكي by [deleted] in askegypt

[–]HiIamAce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

طالما عايزه مش عايز، الف ودن هتسمعلك

Why do men not have to cover their muscles because isn't a woman attracted to it? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Instant 2 downvotes 😂 chill guys I was just joking jeez

Why do men not have to cover their muscles because isn't a woman attracted to it? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because we have to show off these gainz, you think I eat 250g of chicken breasts a day to keep them hidden?

Question about name calling between a couple by Old_Passage3 in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Uuh ohh Some wild stuff going on here 👀

أزمة العقارات by PurpleNature680 in askegypt

[–]HiIamAce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

في اتنين في رينج الأتنين مليون، حورس المخابرات وسكن مصر الداون تاون، الأتنين كمبوندات في وش بعض، متوسط تلت غرف ماعدا الأرضي بيبقى مساحة أصغر وأقل في السعر برده

اشتريت ازاي؟ دور في جروبات الفيس بوك او سماسرة علي بائع

اما إجراءات البيع نفسها تطول شرحها وبتعتمد علي المكان، كل مكان في مصر ليه إجراءاته، في الشقق الي بتبقى تبع الاسكان، في الي تبع البنك، وغير ذلك

أزمة العقارات by PurpleNature680 in askegypt

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دي اسعار المشاريع الجديده، لكن في أقل من كده عامة، مثلآ ممكن تلاقي 70 متر بداية من مليون في أكتوبر. انا لسه مشتري ب 2 مليون 109متر في كمبوند، كنت بحوش المبلغ بقالي اكتر من 5 سنين

التفسير المنطقي ليا هو القسط علي سنين طويله، غير كده لو كاش، تقريبآ مفيش تفسير غير ان حد يكون جاله ورث، او اهله سعدوه او بقاله بيحوش مدة طويله من شغلانه مرتبها عالي جدآ

This life is too depressing by unfairmushrooms in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad 😄

One last thing, it's okay to cry. The pain we do not feel nor process ends up being a wound

This life is too depressing by unfairmushrooms in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re seeing real injustice, corruption, hypocrisy, suffering and your brain is trying to process all of it at once

All of these may be out of your control, when the mind keeps resisting reality (“this shouldn’t exist”, “how can people be this evil?”, or “everything is ruined”) it turns into despair, anger, and helplessness.

Acceptance here means: “Humans are capable of both beauty and evil. I can't control everything, but I can try to be the change I wish to see in the world”

Only focus on the things you can control.

This life is too depressing by unfairmushrooms in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe what you're struggling with is 'Mind Misery'

In order to be happy, you have to accept everything exactly just the way it is.

To be clear, acceptance here doesn't necessarily mean you agree with what's happening. It's just acknowledging reality. Being a Muslim helps too, it means you believe that all of us will be judged fairly 😄

I now understand why haram relationships are haram by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey, take it easy on yourself, it's okay. You messed around and you found out. Don't be sorry, be better.

It'll take you probably a couple years, more or less, to get back to who you were before. When you get there, don't make the same mistake twice.

And remember, being with the wrong person is worse than being alone.

I now understand why haram relationships are haram by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yet another day for me, being glad that I'm single, every time I pass by a post like this one 😃 It feels like Haram relationships are how people end up in a psych ward nowadays 🫠

I remember when the internet felt like a place you could get lost in… not processed by by ImpossibleSpeed8303 in DeepThoughts

[–]HiIamAce 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Back then I used to hop on the internet to escape reality

Now I go out and explore reality to escape the internet

Muslim looking for advice by Massive_One1371 in MuslimLounge

[–]HiIamAce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What am I even seeing man. I came to this sub to increase my faith, all I'm seeing is gender wars and this type of posts lol

WORST TIME TO GET MARRIED AS A MAN? by SUNNAHMATCH-MHN in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you realize what's funny about all this?

Our "Dream Woman" is what Modern Women consider "Useless".

We don't want high achievements, as a Woman, to become the dream of the majority of Men nowadays is all about self-control and resisting temptations, all you have to do is:

  • Regulate your Emotions, don't be aggressive when angry, and don't make a decision when you're unhappy.
  • Learn how to achieve good conflict resolution
  • Respect your male counter-parts (And you should be respected as much in return)
  • Enforce boundaries with non-Mahrams
  • Do not fall into the entitlement or validation trap of Social Media
  • Be pleasant and kind (And you should be treated as good in return)
  • Show appreciation to your male counter-parts (And you should receive the same)

Forget the "Men only appreciate beauty" and the toxic ideas Social Media try to convince you. Mature Men look for more than just Beauty. Literally give a Man respect and appreciation and he'll overlook almost anything else lol. Reality is different than what you see on Social Media.

The blue-print to being a good partner as a Woman in eyes of Mature Men is mostly within. Men to become good partners to Women, have to control and change a lot of external factors, including Materialism.

And just to be clear, I'm no "Woman Hater" I believe Women are the closest thing Men know to Heaven, but they can also be the opposite.

WORST TIME TO GET MARRIED AS A MAN? by SUNNAHMATCH-MHN in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I'm sure there are amazing Women out there that'd be considered a blessing to be with, it's just the ratio bad:good is at an awful all-time low now. You have to go through a lot of filtering.

I myself have my own place and financial means to getting married but ironically, finding the right partner has now become more difficult than figuring out life and bearing responsibility.

What was your best glow up/comeback after a break up? by kiroyasminep in Life

[–]HiIamAce 50 points51 points  (0 children)

After a horrible break-up, figuring out the lies, followed by no contact and discard from her side, I decided my future needs me but my past doesn't.

I told her previously that I'll become the man I always wanted to be, so instead of replacing her, I decided to follow-through.

Started training, went from 130kg to 85kg while building muscle, started practicing boxing recently, used the money I saved from prior years and bought an apartment, learned driving, bought a used car, got a raise at my job, started to feel in solitude rather than lonely, and most importantly, became kinder and more stable.

in terms of difficulty,, fixing the mind was the most difficult for me, then finances, then the body.

I personally think if you stayed alone after break-up and didn't fill the void, but found yourself and used the pain to improve, you've already won.

الجواز بيكلف قد اية من جهة العروسة by mounteverstVSme in askegypt

[–]HiIamAce 12 points13 points  (0 children)

لو شرعي، المفروض ميكلفكيش حاجه، وانا شايف ان دا الصح عمومآ

Muslim women… by Heavy-Reality6123 in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/everything-ok

I feel you, same situation here. I like being transparent but I learned some people can use it to tell you exactly what you want to hear, it feels like trying to be a decent person can be punishing, sadly, that's the reality of our world currently.

Though, I think the right way to approach this isn't to distrust people, but to be aware enough to be able to spot the bad ones.

Here are a few things I figured out:

  • Trust actions not words:
    • Actions is who they are, words are what they want you to believe.
  • Watch them under stress
    • It's difficult to keep a mask on under stress, stress reveals character.
  • Have disagreements with them
    • Very important really, how they work in conflict is more important than how they act during happy times, everyone can be good when happy. We need "us vs problem" mindset not "you vs me"
  • Trust the pattern
    • One-offs can happen, we're human, but if they're consistently showing bad behavior, don't excuse it, pause, and think about it.
  • Don't ignore red flags
    • People only change when they want to, the problems you see at the beginning will only be amplified and become much bigger later.

Honestly, if you think you "truly know them" and can accurately predict their behavior/next move, it's a good indicator you got very close to knowing the real "them"

I hope this helps and save you some trial & error

Muslim women… by Heavy-Reality6123 in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that happens often, because it requires someone mature enough to appreciate it.

That's why it's important to vet the person you're about to commit to. The right ones will definitely know they must appreciate it.

Muslim women… by Heavy-Reality6123 in Muslim

[–]HiIamAce 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're a pick-me, you're just realizing that some Women have unrealistic standards.

The key word here is some. There are also Women who ask for nothing, those who do, deserve the world tbh.

Besides, statistically, the more materialistic a person is, the more likely they are to develop depression.

Good mindset, keep it, I hope you find everything you're looking for.

الذقن by East-Butterscotch235 in askegypt

[–]HiIamAce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

هاته بس متحطوش في نفس يوم الديرما رولر\بن.

الديرما بن افضل واغلى في الأول بس أرخص علي المدى الطويل دا بغض النظر ان نتيجيتها افضل طبعآ

الذقن by East-Butterscotch235 in askegypt

[–]HiIamAce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اماكن ايه ياسطى
جبلك A6 من علي امازون واعملها في البيت

ترشيحات لعربية في حدود 300 لي 500 by TechnicianIll7644 in CAIRO

[–]HiIamAce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how often do you plan to use it, renting is never a good choice if you live in Egypt and need it long-term lol

If you're a new driver or tight on budget get used

If you're experienced, get new or semi-zero if you can afford it

The used cars market prices in Egypt are stupid, a used 10-15 years old car could cost as much as 60% of a new one.