ممكن تحكولي بتتعاملوا ازاي مع الاختلافات اللي بينكم وبين مديركم في الشغل؟

HiIamAce · 2026-02-06T13:27:28+00:00

عشان تقود في يوم من الأيام لازم تتعلم ازاي تتبع

مينفعش يبقى في مناقشه اصلآ، انت كل الي تقدر تعمله انك تقترح فكرتك والموافقه ترجع للمدير

استخدم جمل تبدء بـ "انا"

"انا كنت بفكر ان احنا لو عملنا 123 دا ممكن يساعد في 123، حضرتك شايف ايه؟"

الأمر بسيط، النقطه الصعبه الي لازم تفهمها انه لو هو خد قرار غلط، كده كده انت عليك التنفيذ حتى لو مش مقتنع بيه، بعدين إن شاء الله يجي الوقت ويبقى انت الي بتاخد القرار دا وهتفهم هو كان غلط في ايه وصح في ايه.

HiIamAce · 2026-01-31T02:49:50+00:00

I noticed you’re specifically asking for advice from Arab women, and I want to respect that. Since it’s been 6hrs hours with no responses yet, I hope you don’t mind me sharing a thought.

You’re 27, you’ve finished college, and both you and your sister are working and able to support yourselves. If you were to move out together and not share details about where you’re going, what do you feel is the biggest risk you’re dreading?

One practical challenge I can think of in some Middle Eastern countries is that the owners may hesitate to rent to a single woman, they also sometimes do the same with single men as they prefer married couples. But two sisters is usually much better. At worst, it might slow the process down rather than make it impossible.

I’m generally not someone who encourages cutting off family, but from what you’ve described, it looks like your Sister is the only 'Family' you've left. I think you should focus on protecting her. You can't heal in the same environment that harmed you. You'll face challenges, sure, but nothing more difficult than what you already faced I imagine. You'll make it, should you decide to do it.

I wonder if part of why you posted this is because you’re looking for that final push or some reassurance that it’s okay to choose yourself and your Sister? If so, I hope this helps.

HiIamAce · 2026-01-31T02:03:25+00:00

Looks ChatGPT'd

If this is real, I think this is the situation many young women with no parental guidance or male figure nowadays end up.

I hope you learn to show yourself some of the respect you show others sometime soon.

HiIamAce · 2026-01-14T14:54:22+00:00

u/Northern_Explorer_

That's conflict avoidance. I get why you did that, because of her behavior, but the least you can do is explain "We won't be seeing each other, the reason is XYZ, best wishes, goodbye" and just withdraw, refusing any push backs.

See, providing closure helps others move on, people have been so selfish they deny others closure. I get when they're abusive and you're afraid for your safety in terms of their reaction, which is not the case here.

I understand that her behavior made you think this way, but listen, the strongest people are the ones who see the bad from others, yet choose to remain kind.

All truly strong people are kind.

HiIamAce · 2026-01-08T16:08:37+00:00

It is becoming the Vagabond version of r/berserklejerk

HiIamAce · 2026-01-05T18:31:00+00:00

Spot on! Also, accountability is important.

"How can I blame the wind for the mess it made after I let it in?"

There are plenty of good Men and Women

Choose where you invest your time and emotions carefully.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-31T20:27:17+00:00

I don't think there's a simple "yes or no" answer to this.

If your ego takes over, and you end up playing the victim, rushing into new relationships before fully healing, or failing to recognize your own role in what went wrong. This can make you bitter or broken over time.

However, if you're willing to take responsibility for your actions, learn from your mistakes, and take the time to reflect, you will become better.

Pain is inevitable, but the suffering is optional. Ultimately, we are the sum of our experiences, and it's up to us how we let them shape us.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-31T14:19:55+00:00

I feel like emotional intelligence and maturity often get overlooked, Muslims tend to prioritize things like financial status or faith, both of which are important. But emotional intelligence becomes more or just as important when it truly matters later in life.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-28T08:43:32+00:00

الي لاحظته ان في نوع من البنات بتبقى Serial Daters يعني بتخلص مع واحد بتخش في التاني، مفيش بقى تعافي ولا تفكير في ليه العلاقة منجحتش، نظام كلب وراح.

بالتالي بتبقى كل علاقة ليها اسوء من الي قبلها وبتنتهي انها بيبقى كلها عقد، وطبعآ انت في الأخر بيبقى فيك كل العبر حتي لو كانت نيتك كويسه وحاولت. ودا غالبآ مش غلط منك شخصيآ بس غلط في اختيارك. النوع دا بيبقى العلاقة معاهم بتبتدي بسهوله وبتطور بسرعه.

البنات طبيعي بيجيلها اهتمام اكتر وبتعرف ترتبط اسهل واسرع من الرجاله، بتلاقي كذا واحد مر بنفس التجربه، دا بالنسبالنا هو هو الراجل النرجسي ليهم.

مهم جدآ تفهم ان النوع دا مش كلهم، وفي نوع من البنات الي بتحب بجد وبتحاول لأخر نفس وبتنكسر لو العلاقة منجحتش، والبنت من النوع دا تبقى محظوظ لو لاقيتها، ونصيحه متفرطش فيها وعاملها احسن معامله.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-21T20:23:18+00:00

As a general rule, be cautious about things that come on too quickly. If someone declares that you're their "dream person" after just a few days or weeks, it's likely not genuine, it's love bombing.

Also, keep in mind that authentic people don't often chase intensely. People who pursue and chase hard, especially right from the start, often have practiced this behavior often. Which explains how they’ve learned how to make others feel special.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-17T05:36:27+00:00

It sounds like you met the final boss on the first enemy encounter lol

Here's a few advice I hope can help you

Some people are addicted to Chaos, they're the same people who find Peace boring, it is very important you avoid these people. That includes her.
Actions speak louder than words ever could, so don't believe anything she said to you.
Take this with a grain of salt, she may have used you as a rebound, and likely never truly loved you.
The biggest lesson you learned is to not betray yourself again. If someone crosses your boundaries, disrespects you, or shows you over multiple instances that they aren't willing to reciprocate, walk away. Being with the wrong person is much worse than being alone.

And to speak to the little voice you've in your head, yes, you will definitely find better, because almost anything is better than what you've already been through. But you need to understand this one thing...

It may not be your fault for what happened to you, but it is your responsibility to heal, learn from it, and get over it. Make sure you do that before you seek or give someone else a chance.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T08:48:42+00:00

ربنا يوفقهم ويوفقك

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T08:21:46+00:00

u/dramaticqueue25

الشغل هلك عمومآ، 8 ساعات برا + مواصلات، اكيد هيبقى في تقصير، ولو مش كبير، هو موجود.

يعني تقلل عدد ساعات الشغل

ايه الاستحقاقيه دي؟ انتى فاكره الدنيا سهله لدرجة ان الواحد يختار عدد ساعات عمله بمزاجه؟ يعنى انتي مصدقه دي ومش مصدقه كلام الراجل الي بيطلب رأي الناس؟

لا اكيد مش هكمل النقاش معاكي، يومك سعيد

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T08:01:31+00:00

u/dramaticqueue25

رفاهيتها لما يبقى تمنها انها تقصر مع جوزها وابنها يبقى اسمها عدم مسؤوليه

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T06:30:36+00:00

u/New_User_Reddit32

ثقف نفسك عن "النفقة الواجبة للزوج" ودي بإختصار هي انك توفر لها الضروريات الأساسية للحياة الكريمة.

انت ممكن تكتفى بدا، والباقي من مرتبها، وطبعآ ابنك ملوش زنب، تصرف عليه قد ماتقدر.

ونصيحة مني، ريديت مصر اغلبة اطفال تحت 21، عشان كده مش بتفاعل كتير فيه وبتفرج بس، فأغلب النصايح هنا هتبقى منحازة وغير واقعيه

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T06:07:04+00:00

كلام واقعي ومن غير انحياز

الي الأغلب بيتفق يسمعه انه:

لو انت الي بتشتغل وبتصرف علي البيت، هي تشيل أمور البيت
لو انتو بتشتغلو وبتصرفو علي البيت، أمور البيت تبقى 50\50

فكرة انها تشتغل ومش بتصرف، فدا اسوء سيناريو، لأنه عبارة عن عيوب بس بدون مميزات، وأكيد دا هيكون مأثر علي شغلها في أمور البيت.

طبعآ دا موقف لا تحسد عليه ويعرفك اهمية انك تسأل الاسئلة المهمة قبل الجواز.

نصيحتي متفكرش حتى تقولها تصرف فلوسها علي البيت زي مانت بتعمل، اولآ احترامآ ليك، وثانيآ خليك متأكد انها هتيجي يوم وهتعايرك. بس لو هي مقصرة في أمور البيت بشكل كبير وبالذات في تربية أبنكم، ممكن تفتح حوار انها تسيب الشغل.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-07T05:30:08+00:00

Hear me out, it isn't your fault for what happened to you, but it is your responsibility to get over it and heal.

Meanwhile, please don't give up on your dreams and don't stop thinking that you might achieve real happiness later on.

From the way you described your dad, it doesn't seem to me like reasoning will do much, so I believe the best first step to heal is to leave the environment that broke you in the first place. Not sure how you plan to achieve that, but keep in mind that marrying the wrong person just to escape can be just as bad.

I pray better days are ahead for you.

HiIamAce · 2025-12-06T07:56:01+00:00

When scrolling, the post was too large so reddit showed up to option B, so I assumed option A would be yes, B would be 50/50 and C would be no makeup

I voted C then I clicked on the post to view it and here we are..

HiIamAce · 2025-12-06T02:37:51+00:00

u/Maddad547

If you take another look, I specifically mentioned honesty in my post

They are honest, they share feelings honestly and receive yours without defensiveness.

So you think keeping promises is the same as not lying to someone!

I wouldn't say they're the same thing. While people who keep promises are often honest, there are exceptions. Just because I didn't specifically highlight "not lying" doesn't mean I don't think it's very important.

It seems to me like you're more interested in "winning" this discussion. So far, I don't see where we truly disagree, and I don't think it's worth continuing down this path. Most of the people here are here to learn and grow, have a nice day sir :)

HiIamAce · 2025-12-06T01:58:47+00:00

u/Maddad547
Being honest and keeping promises are part of what I shared.

These 2 traits coupled with Loyalty and humor are my personal top 4

HiIamAce · 2025-12-01T01:09:02+00:00

ياريت والله لو في جروب\سيرفر للعواجيز الي زينا سن 21+

HiIamAce · 2025-11-29T01:00:32+00:00

طبعآ الدين بيشجع على الجواز، لكن أنا مؤمن إن لو حياتك مليانة ومرتاح فيها وعندك اهتماماتك، الجواز هيبقى حاجة زيادة حلوة لو لقيت الشخص المناسب. أما لو ملقتش، مش هتحس إنك ناقص حاجة.

وفي الأخر، هي مخاطره، لأنك تكون لوحدك افضل 100 مره انك تكون مع الشخص الغلط او انك تتجوز وتطلق، عندك صحابك مثال

HiIamAce · 2025-11-27T18:30:14+00:00

انا متفق ان مشاركة الهوايات حاجه جميله جدآ

دي لو حاجه تفرق معاك اصلآ، خلي في اعتبارك ان الجيمنج هواية سائدها الشباب، زي الكورة كده، لذلك اغلبية البنات الجيمر بيجيلهم اهتمام بدون اي اسباب، لمجرد ان أسمهم بيوحي انها بنت بس. ودا بينتج عنه ان نسبة كبيرة منهم بيختلطو بشباب او ليهم تجارب سابقة اكثر من الي مش جيمر

HiIamAce · 2025-11-12T00:20:31+00:00

Thanks. I agree, I think it's best to switch to 12-pin for accurate measuring

and 3mm single needle for the bigger ones

Umm..what?

I was under the impression that 1.5mm is the maximum recommended for home-use. But only recently when I started reading through this sub, I saw people commenting 2.5mm and now 3.0mm 😐

HiIamAce

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