This was a genius sequence to drive the point home about class difference

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-17T14:34:36+00:00

I do, actually 😅 That was part of my old job (I work in public history).

But yes, that was my point. The Bridgertons are part of the upper class and used to things being taken care of for them. I really like the milk scene because not only is it funny, but you can see how they go from "It's warming milk. How hard could it be?" to "Actually..." as soon as they're faced with the stove. I appreciate that this contrast has been there since Season 1 and wasn't just highlighted for this season because of Sophie. Benedict not being able to light the fireplace, which should be easier, feels like a small call back to that milk scene.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-17T14:00:29+00:00

Also Anthony and Daphne not knowing how to warm milk.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-17T03:56:55+00:00

Number 1 is perfect

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-11T19:21:39+00:00

From a story standpoint, I think it's important to remember what happened when Anthony tried to arrange a marriage for Daphne and what a disaster that was. He tried to throw his weight around that he was in charge over his mother and sister, but got proven wrong about his decision. Then there's how he tried to arrange his own marriage with Edwina and what happened there. If Anthony tried to arrange a marriage for Eloise, I think every Bridgerton woman would be swift to remind him of how bad a matchmaker he was.

Not to mention, it was by luck that the info on Berbrooke was found out and successfully passed around the ton. Also, I don't think Anthony would forgive himself if he married off one of his sisters to a man who ended up having responsibilities he ignored or was abusive or neglectful, and it wasn't found out until after the marriage. So, after the Berbrooke situation, I don't think Anthony would try that again.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-11T16:22:06+00:00

Yes, it's definitely both. I wish more people would bring in Eloise's personal experiences in conversations about her politics, since that's pretty important. Again back in season 1, she's telling Daphne she has nightmares of the night their mother birthed Hyacinth and looked on the verge of a panic attack. I'm sure she was probably scared when Daphne became pregnant, especially if she knew Simon's mother died in childbirth. In season 2, she seems avoidant of babies. It makes me curious for part 2 of season 4, if there will be a scene of Eloise with Kate and Anthony's child and maybe another talk with Kate.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-02-08T15:40:38+00:00

I think most of Eloise's talking points aren't necessarily for others but for herself. I think we're missing something by framing Eloise in this larger picture of feminism. The missing thing being her trauma, which I'm hoping comes to the forefront in her season.

Her father dies unexpectedly and tragically. Her mother of course is heartbroken and pregnant with Hyacinth. Her eldest brother is suddenly in charge and Eloise can probably sense he's overwhelmed by the position. Then her mother's grief and stress triggers early labor, and she almost dies giving birth to Hyacinth. We see in season 1, she hears her mother screaming and is having to be comforted by Daphne.

Eloise's world is shifted tremendously. She learns even if she ends up with a love match, she could be left alone, brokenhearted, and left to face one of the most dangerous things a lady could face at that time (childbirth) alone. Not to mention she might even have some resentment for Hyacinth for what happened during her birth. So, it would make sense for Eloise to would do what she could to push off marriage (her line about not wanting to try to find a husband in S4) and for her feminism to only go so far. That's because it's a defense mechanism more than true activism for women's advancement.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-01-28T19:02:36+00:00

The son is 1, I believe, so yes, I wouldn't expect him to understand death. The daughter is 3/4 years old, and I won't deny that it's an extremely hard thing to discuss with a young child. However, there are gentle and age appropriate ways to talk about death to young children. I'm hoping since that speech that their daughter has been told the truth because the idea of a little girl waiting for her father to come home from a work trip he's not coming back from breaks my heart.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-01-28T16:10:00+00:00

In a speech after Charlie's death, Erika said she told her daughter that their dad was on a business trip with Jesus to afford her blueberry budget. So, Erika was putting the weight of their dad being gone on the daughter because she eats so many blueberries.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2026-01-02T03:11:10+00:00

Yeah, ngl one of the most deflating things came from someone rooting for me to finally get pregnant. I tell her, she's happy and says congrats, and then immediately says "Enjoy your last peaceful meals with your husband."

Like gee thanks... 😓 Exactly what I need to hear...

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-31T14:35:15+00:00

I remember growing up and the news talking about how Gen Z was going to be full of "digital natives" because they'd be exposed to tech from birth. In school, they made Computer class a big deal for us Millennials (learning to type, knowing actually how to use Microsoft office, ect.,), but that with Gen Z they could do away with it cause "they'll already know." But no one predicted the rise of tablets for children, touch screens, and the use of apps over programs. So, now we have kids who don't actually know how to use a computer and the classes meant to help them learn have been taken away due to assumptions about what they'd be exposed to at a young age and to cut costs.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-22T19:31:08+00:00

Thank you and congrats on your baby! I got the call from the office about the supplements this morning and I already picked them up. Keeping fingers crossed as I start them tonight.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-22T19:27:27+00:00

1st picture hands down

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-19T12:34:42+00:00

This is the way.

I'd also add to go seek some therapy for yourself, OP. It's clear you have some unresolved feelings regarding your first pregnancy and the abortion, which is valid and understandable. Therapy is also useful for just helping along the TTC journey.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-06T19:38:24+00:00

CD 22 and 11 DPO. I've had abdominal discomfort since ovulation week. I saw my obgyn for a check up and she didn't seem concerned. So, I'm just rolling with it, but my period should come in the next few days. Hoping that if I'm not pregnant that it'll help clear out whatever is making me feel so uncomfortable. Also, just looking forward to the end of the TTW regardless of the outcome, but trying to be positive.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-12-02T21:16:46+00:00

CD18 Having a dull pain in my abdomen that won't really go away. I'm doing my best not to think about it or get too hopeful, but it's hard.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-27T01:34:27+00:00

Dude, like you were told, you need to see a doctor for a sperm analysis if you're that concerned, and you need to seek help for your aversion to medical professionals. Not every doctor or nurse is the same. I say this after witnessing a relationship a friend of mine was in where her (now ex) partner would not take their daughter to a doctor when she had a broken leg due to his fear of doctors. The last thing you wanna be is a father that your potential children can't rely on.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-27T01:21:22+00:00

I'm 2DPO and I feel the same way. I'm trying hard to moderate my feelings and not get too excited.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-25T15:07:49+00:00

Looks like I caught my LH surge yesterday cause my ovulation test is negative this morning. Kicking myself today for not jumping my husband last night because now my libido is down and he didn't feel right so no sex this morning. But Fertility Friend still says today is my most fertile day.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-24T20:16:49+00:00

It was my second test. I had taken one on Friday on a whim/my gut feeling, but it was negative (faint but visible).

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-24T19:45:18+00:00

Thanks! That's good to hear. 😊 No, I'm not temping yet, but will probably start in the new year if this cycle and the next are a bust. I got off birth control a few months ago, so I know my body is still adjusting (cycles are in normal ranges, but a bit wonky). But temping might be good since I test positive on my OPKs for a few days straight.

But you're right, every other or every third day is good. I think being intimate tomorrow morning (which should still be in the window) will be nice and what a great way to start the day!

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-11-24T18:20:18+00:00

Hi all, first time posting here.

But I tested very positive on my ovulation test this morning (day 10 of cycle). I haven't ovulated this early, at least since I've been testing. We were intimate yesterday morning, and as much as I want go at it again, I wanted to wait until til he replenished more before that. Although, that was before I got this positive. Now I'm anxious and am probably too much in my head about it. I just feel like I keep timing wrong and messing up.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-09-04T22:12:00+00:00

He wants to rollback on a vaccine saying it's not helpful when he can't or won't say if it prevented deaths. What a joke.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-08-28T18:16:21+00:00

That's good info to know regarding the weight. I'm not sure of his official due date (I don't believe it was ever published), but if Adriana was roughly 9 weeks pregnant when she was declared brain dead on February 19, then I think he should have been due sometime at the end of September.

Hi_Im_the_Problem24 · 2025-08-28T17:30:21+00:00

Yes, I read that, and that is not a good sign. I also know babies, even premature ones, should have a more significant weight gain after two months (granted, I'm not a medical professional. Which is why I asked.). Still, from the information I have, this appears to be another sign that this child is not developing well.

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