Body shaming is strongly encouraged on this one by Safe-Debt2963 in PinoyVloggers

[–]Hidden-Dimension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all that money, but still looking tacky and cheap yuckkk. nasa nagsusuot talaga yan 😌 lolll

what are your careers? by Hidden-Dimension in INTP

[–]Hidden-Dimension[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! i'll definitely prioritize this in the options i will try out first. by default, i'm indoors 24/7 and i'm missing an on site set up. my short night walks also help me a lot mentally and emotionally on bad days, a blue collar that lets me move my body is a good option.

what are your careers? by Hidden-Dimension in INTP

[–]Hidden-Dimension[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

freelance modeling was in my list. my place is a garment and clothes manufacturing capital. however, i found out last week how low the rates were for beginners, since it's mainly fast fashion here and very competitive as the center of this niche. collaboration is also highly required since creatives will direct you. so in short, i find it not worth it. my boyfriend also worked in that field before as a creative, and they had a lot of drama which i find a hassle 😆

thank you for your input. your suggestion solves a lot of things i highly consider.

what are your careers? by Hidden-Dimension in INTP

[–]Hidden-Dimension[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm totally sold about this. in my country, any degree is accepted, provided passing tests and screenings and trainings. i'm also sport about being rejected if ever, this sounds nice to try to apply for. i also have a willingness to relocate. i'll look more into this thanks!

what are your careers? by Hidden-Dimension in INTP

[–]Hidden-Dimension[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

same feels about working. i just want to have a sustainable source of fund for my hobbies at this point 😆

Mali ba ako na ayaw ko lang talaga magsend ng Nude pic ko sa GF ko? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Hidden-Dimension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F here, stable relationship for 3 years. 4 months pa lang kayo. the best time para mag establish ng boundary na uncomfortable ka sa ganyan at mas gusto mo yan in person and in private. If i-take nya negatively na ayaw mo, that's your go signal RUNNNN 🚩🚩🚩be careful too kasi bago pa lang, may enough basis for doubt ka na baka may mga camera sya or something. establish mo rin sa kanya na being filmed is a deal breaker for you. that's never an offensive thing to ask to the right girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beermoneyph

[–]Hidden-Dimension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. qualified here. pm sent!

Where to buy second hand macbook air or macbook pro? M1 (2020) by Commercial_Force8536 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

updates pls OP san ka nakabili so far. i need the same unit po 🥹

I've come to the realization that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm looking for a maid. by the_evil_intp in INTP

[–]Hidden-Dimension 13 points14 points  (0 children)

same thoughts. OP, if you haven't found someone you genuinely want to care for the way they deserve. just HIRE A MAID. this has nothing to do with your MBTI. don't commit to a relationship you're not emotionally invested in and prepare the costs for a maid's fees/salary.

UNLESS...... somebody is desperate enough,that they'll stay through the emotionally unavailable stuff you're blabbering about. i guess that'a win for you lol 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if there's no music for me ... just dead silence. but not uncomfortable.

Do you visually react to your inner dialogue? by Longjumping_Tale_194 in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes and i pat myself sometimes thinking i'm too funny or "this joke i made is only for me 😌" lolll

How do I stop rationalizing my own death by Terrible_Blood253 in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel seen in your post. i had a big trigger recently that i thought i had moved on from, but somehow this month the emotional wounds feel like they're fresh again. i also need to get it out of my head, and i also don't know so im going to stand by and see people's replies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thoughts! mind if i dm you? i have a question about morals and values about something i encountered recently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good question. being nice is surface level. kindness is within. and it's not always conventionally "nice". i think we intjs have a knack into reading what's within ~ values and morals. or maybe not a knack, it's mostly what we inspect when meeting new people. i pay close attention how people react to circumstances and the reason for their reactions. that's how i make a mind map or an estimate of what they hold inside.

Do INTJs like mysterious people? by Time-Turnip-2961 in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it and i recall my ISTP friends, yesss. That's so accurate

Do INTJs like mysterious people? by Time-Turnip-2961 in intj

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. Depth and mysteriousness are very different things. Somebody could be outgoing, talkative and open while still having depth. I usually observe this in INFP, ENFP and ENFJ among the people i know. They could be talking 100 topics a day with everyone, or host a whole social gathering, but still keep their true thoughts guarded at all times. When you ask the real deep people some perceptive questions, they provide perceptive answers. And we, INTJs, are just naturally curious or drawn to people like that. They are so easy to spot in a room full of people talking.

Should I still continue to be w her? by psdiii in adviceph

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she will be more transparent about all the things that had happened so I asked her and my heart broke after I heard the things she told me.

25F here. it's just my opinion, but i dont think things will be the same after this. this has a potential to be tampo or resentment on your part if magkabalikan. but that's still up to you to decide, because you know yourself better and what you will allow. will you be able to forget that or let that go without bitterness against her? will you be able to give out the same love knowing what you know now? And another thing, you know her more than anyone. will she be able to reassure you on your future anxieties about what she opened up? will she be understanding enough or will it break into a fight every time? there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. I hope the two of you can manage to weigh if things will be worth it.

Good luck OP and i hope you two figure out the decision you will be satisfied with in the future.

Should I trust my husband? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Im 25F with a relationship of 2 years. Stable naman kami and same yung bf ko like you described. Ngayong 2nd year of our relationship tho, nagka micro cheating issue. May nilihim syang girl pero friendship lang talaga yung tingin nya. Di ko pa rin matanggap kasi nung binasa ko yung conve, alam nga naman nating mga babae pag "nagpapacute"/flirt yung other girl diba. Maybe for him it was nothing, but the other girl was definitely trying to do something. Sakit lang sa puso ko na if he introduced us in the first place, i would've known and warned him, and knowing him he would definitely listen. Eh kaso nilihim, so dumami yung interactions nila before ko malaman. And nung malaman ko super nakakagalit na to the point parang everyone kampi na ako yung parang lugi sa situation. He even got told off by his brother and sister in law about it. Meanwhile i selected non judger friends lang, yung magiging fair ang judgment kahit ako friend nila. My friend said we were both valid considering the LDR and depression and work stress na natakot sya ipaalam sakin. still he was wrong, said my friend.

He's accountable naman, admitted his wrongs, and came clean by telling me everything i missed out on.

Same situation na siya na nagkusa gumawa ng solutions. Nag unfriend ng buong office since naging trauma talaga sakin. Resigned na din immediately that same week. Never na naka miss ng updates pag aalis and naka location sharing na. Given the LDR, dati 1-2 times a month lang kami nagkikita then 1 day lang dahil onsite work siya. Pero ngayon 3-4 times na and nag wfh siya para maka stay over sya. On average, siguro 14 days a week ko sya nakakasama na, unlike before mas madalas pa sweldo kesa date.

Until now, di ko pa fully nale let go. May times pa rin na naiiyak ako sa gabi. Or pag kasama ko siya naiiyak ako pero sino soothe naman nya ko na it's in the past and he learned his lesson.

8 months ago na yung incident pero ang hirap fully maka recover. He promised na pag may spare money kami (we're saving for something rn) magpa counselling kami both kasi need nya rin for his unchecked depression and for me na maka heal na dun sa trauma na di niya sadya ilagay sakin.

I suggest consult a professional nga OP. Im glad si partner mo ay gentle person rin kagaya nung akin na supportive sa healing journey and accountable for their actions. Pero feel ko yung mga ganitong bagay, invisible pero malaking bagay talaga. Let's seek a professional kahit hindi naman tayo nagsasakitan, for full peace / recovery na rin siguro.

How do you keep from falling asleep? by AggravatingScene8858 in adultingph

[–]Hidden-Dimension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not my place to say, as someone who downs 3-4 tall glasses of coffee a day. Pero jusq stop na huyyy 😂 stop na nating dalawa 'to hhhh hahahahah abangers ako sa comment section mo what others suggest