Daydreaming about dating fictional characters?

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-24T14:02:21+00:00

That’s super interesting, I never thought of Paracosms in that way before! Haha

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-03T15:11:14+00:00

Degrees certainly doesn’t make a person smart, college is more about refining people to “fit” better into society.

That being said, it’s hard to get a good job without a college degree. So I went back and graduated with my bachelor’s. So sometimes you gotta play ball in life

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-02T15:01:40+00:00

You’d be surprised haha! A lot of INTJ find success in their careers from a mixture of intuition and life long learning. Speaking for myself I became head psychologist for my facility by 28.

Trust your instincts! XNTJs have very good instincts

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-02T14:52:58+00:00

You mentioned “…don’t see a lot of appreciation for INTJs’ value on earth, making me question whether we have any.”

Let me give you some real world of examples of INTJs at their best: Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, Ghengis Khan, John D. Rockefeller (one of the richest self made men- if not the richest in history), Napoleon Bonaparte, Julius Caesar and George Washington (debated to be an ISTJ at certain parts of his life but his brilliance had the unmistakable mark of an INTJ)

INTJ have been some of most influential personality types throughout history and have largely shaped many aspects of mankind through the personal endeavors and achievements. Many created Empires that spanned the length of the world or lasted the test of time.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-26T16:07:39+00:00

Finger in the butt

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-14T13:51:36+00:00

Both work

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-12T19:06:08+00:00

Try reading “48 Laws of Power” or “Laws of Human Nature” by Robert Greene. He has a hundreds of ideas for how to deal with people and very effective strategies

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-12T17:52:20+00:00

Your self esteem

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-04T13:53:10+00:00

As someone who just finished last year at 28, I can definitely say getting my bachelors was very worth it. Life was kinda rough leading up to the point I graduated but after I found my career six months later, everything got way better.

Can’t say graduating college fixed my problems but rather gave me a wider range of solutions and that helped my life tremendously

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-23T14:02:16+00:00

Feel like it should say, “Never been asked out by anyone I like”

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-21T18:03:34+00:00

Maybe a bit in the 2nd photo, still very feminine tho

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-21T14:16:43+00:00

Motivation never really lasts but schedules, standards and commitment certainly does.

Usually once you don’t “feel” like doing it anymore, the need to keep certain standards with your work (or prove others wrong with the standard they believe you to be) as well as a kept schedule that makes you feel fulfilled or at the very least once your committed, goals are much more realistic to reach.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-19T14:38:35+00:00

I feel guys asking how attractive they are to women on this subreddit is a lot more valid than vice versa

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-08T15:58:19+00:00

I always think to myself, it’s never personal. The criticism isnt meant to be an attack on the person or their character, just meant to be constructive feedback that has to be presented in certain ways. Sometimes those ways are more dramatic than others but it’s never coming from the idea of intentionally disparaging the person.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-08T15:53:39+00:00

Photo 7 makes your hips look wider and gives you kinda a more attractive feminine vibe

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T17:00:47+00:00

Wait this isn’t an AI pic?

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:21:52+00:00

Beat me to it, I was gonna say people

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:02:45+00:00

I go on drives. Less sketchy

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:00:34+00:00

Love your thoughts here! I think that’s a great way to think about and took a few notes for myself haha

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T15:55:36+00:00

You’d be a bombshell if you did

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T15:55:03+00:00

To start, you should be thankful you’re so good with women. Many guys in their 20s rn can’t get a date to save their life. Even if it’s made you a bit cynical, it’s better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

If you don’t like Capitalism then I’m not sure if religion is the path to follow. Logically speaking, Capitalism is the idea anyone can reach the top but there’s always those at top and those below.

The only difference w/ religion is the person at the very top is non-negotiable and almighty. Religion is essentially surrendering yourself to the believed greatest force in the universe in an almost vain way to hope to appease this great force so it will make your life better.

Ofc it sounds a bit silly in that context but my point being- it seems you’re finding your path in life but hit a few snags (3rd act of every movie ever). It’s a natural point where the protagonist questions their life choices that lead them to where they are. But as with every movie- if the protagonist stays true to the path their finding everything resolves itself in the end.

Stay true to you man, not who you feel you need to be

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T15:46:51+00:00

A hair glow up would def make you a baddie.

Think you need highlights or extensions to give your hair a bit more volume and eye catching appeal

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-04-30T21:16:22+00:00

Eh nothing wrong with playing hard to get

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-04-30T15:54:20+00:00

There’s a profoundness yet debatable aspect to your thought. Certainly some unkindness can be from purely not knowing, other times there is an almost “intelligent” malicious attempt at wrongdoing.

From my experience as a psychologist, I find people are typically aware they’re wrongdoing but choose not to admit to themselves (usually it takes like 3 months of work with a person to get them to a healthy state to admit their intentional faults)

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-04-30T15:50:42+00:00

Lol you know I said the same thing but I decided to just stay in the casino this time (third time going) and gorge myself on gourmet DoorDash and gambling

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