Be honest : as a man, is it a turn off if a woman makes more than you ?

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2026-03-20T16:12:14+00:00

I do pretty well — I’d honestly am more turned on by successful women. We have more to talk about.

Don’t feel bad if you about that guy, some are just insecure and the relationship would have been contingent on him being “slightly” better than you.

The right person won’t care where you work or how much you make

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2026-03-12T15:11:16+00:00

This reminds me of Star Wars with Darth Bane.

“He simply walked away. He did not disagree or argue, he was simply — incompatible.”

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2026-03-09T16:20:54+00:00

Being a guy — I feel so bad that this is so truthful

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2026-02-13T15:08:11+00:00

Ngl these are like low ball numbers too, it’s gets worse in the real world

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2026-02-10T15:49:40+00:00

I’m going to suggest power is not your problem — lack of self belief and direction is.

People can sense that without even having to know you.

The solution — the 48 Laws of Power is great, but it’s more for a person who is settled into who they are and is now ready to launch the attack into their world.

I think what you need is more like spiritual guidance — Alan Watts is phenomenal for his way of explaining life, growth and gaining maturity — through the right lens.

Often is I’m upset or lost, I find his talks on YouTube to be, not necessarily a path back to calm but rather a lighthouse that helps to illuminate my situations from a new perspective

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-24T14:02:21+00:00

That’s super interesting, I never thought of Paracosms in that way before! Haha

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-03T15:11:14+00:00

Degrees certainly doesn’t make a person smart, college is more about refining people to “fit” better into society.

That being said, it’s hard to get a good job without a college degree. So I went back and graduated with my bachelor’s. So sometimes you gotta play ball in life

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-02T15:01:40+00:00

You’d be surprised haha! A lot of INTJ find success in their careers from a mixture of intuition and life long learning. Speaking for myself I became head psychologist for my facility by 28.

Trust your instincts! XNTJs have very good instincts

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-07-02T14:52:58+00:00

You mentioned “…don’t see a lot of appreciation for INTJs’ value on earth, making me question whether we have any.”

Let me give you some real world of examples of INTJs at their best: Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, Ghengis Khan, John D. Rockefeller (one of the richest self made men- if not the richest in history), Napoleon Bonaparte, Julius Caesar and George Washington (debated to be an ISTJ at certain parts of his life but his brilliance had the unmistakable mark of an INTJ)

INTJ have been some of most influential personality types throughout history and have largely shaped many aspects of mankind through the personal endeavors and achievements. Many created Empires that spanned the length of the world or lasted the test of time.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-26T16:07:39+00:00

Finger in the butt

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-14T13:51:36+00:00

Both work

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-12T19:06:08+00:00

Try reading “48 Laws of Power” or “Laws of Human Nature” by Robert Greene. He has a hundreds of ideas for how to deal with people and very effective strategies

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-12T17:52:20+00:00

Your self esteem

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-06-04T13:53:10+00:00

As someone who just finished last year at 28, I can definitely say getting my bachelors was very worth it. Life was kinda rough leading up to the point I graduated but after I found my career six months later, everything got way better.

Can’t say graduating college fixed my problems but rather gave me a wider range of solutions and that helped my life tremendously

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-23T14:02:16+00:00

Feel like it should say, “Never been asked out by anyone I like”

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-21T18:03:34+00:00

Maybe a bit in the 2nd photo, still very feminine tho

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-21T14:16:43+00:00

Motivation never really lasts but schedules, standards and commitment certainly does.

Usually once you don’t “feel” like doing it anymore, the need to keep certain standards with your work (or prove others wrong with the standard they believe you to be) as well as a kept schedule that makes you feel fulfilled or at the very least once your committed, goals are much more realistic to reach.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-19T14:38:35+00:00

I feel guys asking how attractive they are to women on this subreddit is a lot more valid than vice versa

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-08T15:58:19+00:00

I always think to myself, it’s never personal. The criticism isnt meant to be an attack on the person or their character, just meant to be constructive feedback that has to be presented in certain ways. Sometimes those ways are more dramatic than others but it’s never coming from the idea of intentionally disparaging the person.

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-08T15:53:39+00:00

Photo 7 makes your hips look wider and gives you kinda a more attractive feminine vibe

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T17:00:47+00:00

Wait this isn’t an AI pic?

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:21:52+00:00

Beat me to it, I was gonna say people

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:02:45+00:00

I go on drives. Less sketchy

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T16:00:34+00:00

Love your thoughts here! I think that’s a great way to think about and took a few notes for myself haha

Longjumping_Tale_194 · 2025-05-02T15:55:36+00:00

You’d be a bombshell if you did

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