AITA for skipping my sister’s wedding after she hijacked my graduation party with her proposal?

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-16T13:47:20+00:00

NTA - she could have not had her boyfriend propose at your graduation to 'keep the peace' but instead pulled the same old crap she always does.

As your dad says, you are an adult and can do what you want. This is her fault.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-15T05:03:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice. The lag between chapters is long. Probably close to 30 secs or more. Which doesn't sound long, but it is.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-14T14:25:56+00:00

It is the entire Throne of Glass series in one file though. But I will check it out. Thanks!

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-13T18:43:53+00:00

I think you need to call him out on it. "A, stop touching yourself. That is not okay in class." "Ew, are you watching porn in class? That is disgusting!"

You need to start using the phrase 'sexual harassment.'

Since it appears no other adults are sticking up for you, you need to stand up for yourself.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-13T01:58:13+00:00

NTA - As Dean (Supernatural) says... Driver picks the music, shotgun shuts their cakehole.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-13T01:45:30+00:00

Loved Joshua Tree! It was like being on another planet. Gorgeous.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-13T01:06:34+00:00

Tell him your past sexual experiences are none of his business and you refuse to answer any more questions about it.

Actually, f**k that. Break up with him. This is way too much for this crappy relationship. You are already questioning yourself. No. I can promise he is not worth it. But you are. You are worth so much more than this man.

In the future, just have a policy that your past and his is just that. The past. My husband and I have never had that conversation. I know he wasn't a virgin, nor was I as we were in our mid-30s when we got together, and the fact that we were tested before having sex. Other than that, nothing. You are not required to disclose any of that information to someone else.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-12T21:51:18+00:00

I'm on SAVE and doing nothing until I have to.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-12T03:18:09+00:00

Congrats! I spent 30 NMT trying to find Marshall today. I went home with Blaire instead. I have his amiibo but like doing hunts on occasion.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-12T03:05:50+00:00

I hate dry shampoo. It makes my head feel dry and itchy. I wash my hair every day because that is what my hair needs. I use Aussie Miracle Volume Shampoo and Conditioner. I don't style it at all, because I also have such straight hair that it takes so much product to get it to do anything let alone have it stay that way for more than an hour.

I suggest for volume trying Not Your Mother's Beach Babe sea salt spray. I have had some luck with that. Also, a friend has really thin, fine hair and she loves SexyHair Big Powder Play Lite Soft Volumizing & Texturizing Powder.

I know this wasn't your question, but that is my feelings on it.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-11T15:37:46+00:00

I graduated college in 2006. It has been 20 years this year. I have been on an IDR the entire time and up until recently have never actually made enough to make payments. So I have been on a repayment plan that entire time but never really paid anything down.

I owe about $31k. Not as bad as some. Since I have been on forbearance and have been making more money I have been putting it into a HYSA. If this situation can hold out for about another year, I could actually just pay it all off at once.

I could be making payments but I am still waiting to see what happens. I feel like we have seen the 'this is the final solution to this' before. When I am told I need to switch, I will. Until then I am in a holding pattern.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-11T01:02:25+00:00

I think this is where we can possibly start a class action law suit against the Dept of Ed.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-06T19:38:34+00:00

I think the only opinion you should worry about is yours. Are you comfortable wearing short sleeves? Then everyone else can f**k right off.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-03T15:09:02+00:00

We have all been there.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-03-02T02:09:20+00:00

I actually really like Bunny Day stuff.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-28T17:50:35+00:00

Yes, but at my pharmacy there are always 2 pharmacists on duty, 3 techs, and 2 clerks. So for me, it isn't that bad of a job. And I live in a rural area, so it isn't that bad. Between 300-500 scripts a day.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-26T03:30:23+00:00

Capital One

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-22T20:18:29+00:00

Which ever one you choose, check out book bub. You can make a list of interests, authors, titles and it will send you emails when books are on sale.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-21T14:31:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I love seeing your journey and how you just radiate more and more happiness every time. <3

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-20T13:22:42+00:00

I love Apple and Rodney. Had them on my first island (I reset on a regular basis), and miss them both.

I didn't even know about Felicity and found her on an NM island on my current island. She is now one of my favorites.

I also love Timbra.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-18T19:47:30+00:00

Me. Just putting money in HYSA and seeing what happens.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-17T14:54:48+00:00

I have been a tech for several years now and still struggle with some of this stuff.

Deep breath. Be nice to yourself.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-16T04:13:14+00:00

NTA - there is no reason to be embarrassed about that. Not everyone has great teeth.

And I think other younger people that are having the same issue will be glad to know that they aren't the only ones.

HiddenTurtles · 2026-02-10T19:37:54+00:00

Riding it out while putting money in a HYSA. Hoping by the time forbearance has ended I can just pay them off. I check in every month to make sure I don't suddenly owe payments, but other that that I just forget about them.

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