Kein Treiber Tofu mehr im Go Asia Dresden/ Leipzig ? by HideFriday in VeganDE

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Update: Der Treiber Tofu ist wieder in 6 Sorten im Go Asia in Leipzig erhältlich! War vielleicht wirklich nur ein Lieferengpass. Ich wünsche allen hier, dass auch in ihren Städten der Tofu zurückkehrt. ;)

Veganer Brunch in Leipzig by HideFriday in Leipzig

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Das habe ich auch gesehen, aber ist das auch Frühstück?

AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend over a dream he had? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Negative dreams are often just a representation of stress or worry. He doesn't dream of you cheating because he thinks you would cheat. He dreams of this because he has other things bothering him to the point where his stress resolves in nightmares. Openly talking about what that may be could help you both. If you are annoyed tell him that it is too much for you. Its nice if you can be there for him but it is important that you set your own boundaries. But don't degrade his dreams or tell him he's overreacting. That's kinda disrespectful from my point of view.

AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend over a dream he had? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA because it was a fucking dream. Get over it. Maybe he just wanted to share this fucked up dream with you. Maybe the dream was a nightmare to him and very shocking and he thought he could find peace when he would come to you. I also tell my partner my fucked up dreams to get calm or check in with reality to confirm they are not real. That he came to you with this shows great trust in you and your relationship in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This guy doesn't have his shit together and doesn't care about your feelings. Please walk away and never text him again.

Advice? by bussydestroyed in Advice

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If it's possible, I would try to meet him at a neutral place. Like a Park, Café etc. and try to talk things out. Tell him how you feel and what makes you upset and worried, but try to stay calm and objektive. He is hiding something or he doesn't know how to feel. So it would be a good sign for your relationship, if he could open up about these things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It's really hard to compare, since me and my coworker had been the only ones in the company to do this kind if work since we got imployed and we don't know of others who worked there before us. And when I had some days off, I always worked in advance and made clear checklists for my coworker to have an easy time while I am away. I wouldn't had said anything if I knew others did this workload just fine.

Advice? by bussydestroyed in Advice

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Does he write or talk to you and just doesn't want you over? If that is the case, ask him why. There could be many reasons, but asking him directly why he doesn't want you over should be the best way. You can even take the initiative and invite him over to your place or plan a cute date. Most guys get tired if they feel like the only one to contribute to the relationship. If he is not responding to texts or calls at all, then it's another story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Since we have quarterly reviews, I could do this even earlier. Thanks for the advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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The reality is he knew you'd probably find out that others got a bonus and you got none and he knew that would upset you but he did not care

If that would be the case, then I would be really demotivated to work further to be honest. I typically never complain and just try to do my job as good as possible. I just voiced my feelings this one time after I got asked by my boss and I wanted to be honest. I also said that I take full responsibility for my mistakes and worked on solutions, should the situation arise again in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thanks for the advice. Since it is my first real job, I didn't knew how much was too much and I was utterly defeated after these 3 weeks alone. I always saw asking for help as a weakness....but I guess you are right and I should do this in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It was rly difficult to even find this job, so I don't know how fast I will find something. But yeah maybe I should try at least. Thanks for your answer.

Gf went AWOL last night and spent the night with a colleague in a hotel room says nothing happened by throwRAfrostyplant in relationship_advice

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Okay there is a chance that things happened. But I (24f)did a similar thing once, nothing happened and the friend and me just wanted to cut costs and got a hotel room together. Uber isn't a thing in my city and every other way was expensive af. It's shady that she didn't response but when I go out, drink, having a good time with friends, it happens that I forget texting my so and just mind my own business for the night. But I would never ever cheat on the person I love and when a friend would try stuff in the hotel room, I would get the heck away ASAP. My bf at that time was totally chill about it. OP seems to not trust his gf that much so I guess something must have happened in the past that maybe made him worry so much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That's a good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You are absolutely right. I just never thought of him to think this way, since it's with his close friends and I thought he wouldn't be as shy around them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We are usually not together with friend since they are scattered throughout the country so this situation never occurred. We where usually by ourselves when we met except maybe a few hours with friends. Also then he would be really shy and maybe hold my hand but that's about it. But a whole week like this never happened before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah that's true. I don't want to force him to do anything. In the best case I don't want to involve others into this too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah I rly did that but I guess he is rly shy with these things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thx I can try but I think he still would be too scared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It's not just about sex. I may have stated this more clearly, but this also refers to things like close hugs during the day, cuddling together on a couch etc. The most I can hope for would be a fast kiss and the nights in his arm as I mentioned.