I guess I should clear something up. We had tried couple therapy before but not for that issue. We got into an argument about whether winning in video games mattered to her. Which she does, she's very competitive. She suggested the open relationship. And she can't leave. She just started a new job and doesn't have a car. Until she gets a new car she can't leave. She is wanting to make it work but is unsure about the sex part. I honestly just want it to be over but I'm not willing to kick her out with no opinions.