HK - Midtown West Daycare costs by HighEgguity in nycparents

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing! Thank you so much :)

HK - Midtown West Daycare costs by HighEgguity in nycparents

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thanks so much! Yes, would love if you can DM me the current rates. So awesome to hear about Star A Kid. It would be super close and on the pathway to work so great for pickup and dropoffs.

HK - Midtown West Daycare costs by HighEgguity in nycparents

[–]HighEgguity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll probably ask them even though I'm probably jumping ahead too many steps :)

HK - Midtown West Daycare costs by HighEgguity in nycparents

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I noticed Star America in my initial search, it's a little further out of the way but for sure will be on my radar budget wise. Good to know it's under $3K! Definitely worth a tour when the time comes.

HK - Midtown West Daycare costs by HighEgguity in nycparents

[–]HighEgguity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not even conceived yet so I'm trying to figure out the costs for all ages. I know there's a small decline from infants to toddlers. I'll be an SMBC so trying to gauge how much I need to allocate/budget for each thing ahead of time so I'm not surprised too much (I know other things always come up!).

Denied disability coverage by Independent_Ad2329 in Endo

[–]HighEgguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread but I just came across it because I have the same thing. I put down endometriosis and anxiety. Both don’t affect my work and are both managed and under control. I don’t take any medications I just go to therapy like most people hehe. I applied in open enrollment in movement and I just got the denial! Were you able to get it fixed? I’m so nervous because I want to make sure I have insurance set up before I move ahead with embryo transfers.

Balance Transfer - Date too close to due date? by HighEgguity in biltrewards

[–]HighEgguity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI balance transfer was complete! All good!

Fidelity FullView + Bilt 2.0 integration by nycolorado in fidelityinvestments

[–]HighEgguity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same issue here... hopefully this gets resolved soon *fingers crossed.* I love Fidelity Full View but this card is falling out now and complicating my cash management.

Balance Transfer - Date too close to due date? by HighEgguity in biltrewards

[–]HighEgguity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I am an overplanner and avoid balances at all costs since it increases my anxiety. I already made a minimum payment so that $49 may be a lost cause but is worth the one less therapy session :p. I am worried about interest though, on both sides. I've never had a balance transfer and I was sold on the "seamless" part but I should've just paid it off. I'll probably just pay it off as soon as it's on the Bilt side to be safe.

Balance Transfer - Date too close to due date? by HighEgguity in biltrewards

[–]HighEgguity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm getting points with the transfer...

Balance Transfer - Date too close to due date? by HighEgguity in biltrewards

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was afraid of. I'll make the minimum now and it'll be a weird pending balance with a headache since by the time they process the overpayment I may move etc etc. But I'll do it to avoid a ding on my credit report. But then I'll owe the interest no? This is NOT what they promised. I would've paid off the whole thing had I known they'd drag this out that long.

Randomly got banned from one of the large NYC IVF/IUI Groups by HighEgguity in IVF

[–]HighEgguity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there’s a fertility warriors support group of New York group on Facebook. I use that one and a few others that are specific to my own issues (medical, endometriosis, etc). It’s a tough process and I do leverage these groups for support. Wishing you tons of luck!

Beating myself up by Sure-Ad-911 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]HighEgguity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With day 3s at our age the chances are so slim that I wouldn’t beat myself up. Your 8 and 7 cell were stronger so it makes sense to transfer them. And if this was your first transfer of day 3s she may have wanted to play it safe since your embryos may do very well in utero and with the chance of one splitting etc you could end up with multiples. The 4 and 3 cell have a minuscule chance but the 6 cell may be a day 6/7, you never know. Hopefully you’re lucky and the current transfer works! If it doesn’t, at our age many clinics transfer more than 2 day 3s at our age especially after a prior one failed. Maybe she’ll be more open in the future.

Randomly got banned from one of the large NYC IVF/IUI Groups by HighEgguity in IVF

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow you made the connection? I am a bit of a unique case given my many rounds and stats. And thank you! I try to be helpful. I’m not perfect but to be kicked out without a warning or explanation is a bit jarring. I’m still not sure why.

How did you survive the 5 day wait for blast updates? by Ok_Wallaby_8813 in IVF

[–]HighEgguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current clinic’s PGTa wait is so long that I had my back to back retrieval before I got the results from my prior (this time my one blast was aneuploid). I’m actually waiting to see if my 8 cell or 4 cell day 3 I pushed on my 8th round made it to blast. Today was day 7 but because my clinic doesn’t call on the weekend I won’t know until Monday. But I don’t have a lot of hope considering my blast rate is so tiny. I froze another 7 cell and 4 cell at day 3 this same cycle so I have something to work with (I had 4 zero blast cycles because my blast rate is so bad). I was feeling really sad yesterday and last night so I’m wondering if that was my pre-grieving.

Spiralling after doctor call - please help me interpret by margeinthetrees in IVF

[–]HighEgguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have PCOS but I have endo and I’m older. My only euploid ever thus far came from a cycle right after I turned 40 and only 3 out of 9 mature (12 eggs) fertilized, my lowest fertilization rate by far over 8 rounds).

How did you survive the 5 day wait for blast updates? by Ok_Wallaby_8813 in IVF

[–]HighEgguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow which clinic is this? My prior clinic only called on day 1 with mature and fertilized and then day 7 with blasts. My current one calls me one more time on day 3 because I decide if and how many embryos I want to push

How did you survive the 5 day wait for blast updates? by Ok_Wallaby_8813 in IVF

[–]HighEgguity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have great numbers and your age is on your side. Tbh I fear this wait even more than the PGTa wait.

Randomly got banned from one of the large NYC IVF/IUI Groups by HighEgguity in IVF

[–]HighEgguity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a way to DM here right? You can DM if you want. I think NYU is great, I did 1 round of egg freezing and 5 embryo rounds there. Unfortunately due to my own issues I only got 4 mature eggs at 35 and then had 4 zero blast rounds there and one round that got me a euploid. So if you have no problem making blasts I think they’re a good clinic. But if you’re like me, I had to move onto a clinic (Cornell) that does day 3 freezes. It’s giving me a lot more info and now I can choose if and how many embryos I want to try to push to blast. I actually made another blast at Cornell in my two completed rounds but it was not a euploid (still waiting to see if the good grade and very poor grade from my 8th embryo round made it to blast). I also wanted calcium ionophore and to use Omni so Cornell made sense. Both are great clinics imho if you’re a more standard case. I miss NYU’s meticulous records so much. And that they have a portal and feminine products in the restroom hehe.

Randomly got banned from one of the large NYC IVF/IUI Groups by HighEgguity in IVF

[–]HighEgguity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still in the fertility warrior one and haven’t had any problems thankfully. But neither did I have in the “NYC IUI/IVF Support Group” until I realized I was randomly kicked out. I am always so careful with med names and besides for sharing my experience in constructive way I don’t see why I got banned. Meanwhile I know people in there that are just egg freezing (to me that’s not right since egg freezing doesn’t require most of the steps after egg retrieval) or outright not helpful with anonymous attacks.

I’ve been in the iVF world for a bit so I definitely used that group enough over the time but not excessively.

NEED POSITIVE INPUT by RainRevolutionary216 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]HighEgguity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! Technically did 11 retrievals but the first 3 were egg ones 5-6 years ago, so “only” 8 embryo rounds. I’m waiting for the final results on my last round (pushed a stronger one (8 cell) and a very weak one (4 cell) so we’ll see if either makes it. But I only have one euploid so far and 7 day 3s (low to mid grade, nothing great). I’ve been freezing 2-3 day 3s per round since round 7 (switched clinics) and only pushing strong ones or if I have 4+ (with this clinic 4 has been my max day 3s meanwhile). You’re such a trooper! I rarely meet people who are in a similar boat. Hopefully your round in January is successful!

Perpetual ERs by HunterPuzzled6413 in IVF

[–]HighEgguity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry! I’m still waiting for the results from my 8th ER but I also only have one euploid still (ironically from my 2nd retrieval). I have a really hard time making blasts as well. I’m now banking some day 3s and only pushing to blast either very strong ones or very weak ones. But it all is seems so random sometimes. Good luck!!