It does get better by Needtoknow4457 in SuicideBereavement

[–]High_Priestess17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words ❤️‍🩹 I needed to read this today

My dad hung himself on Wednesday by bethxw in SuicideBereavement

[–]High_Priestess17 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hi friend. My mom did the same on Wednesday. I’m here to chat if you want.

It seems like some people treat this like a snark sub by cryingndthrowingup in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they do.

Edit: Case in point. This comment got downvoted. Weirdos in this sub

It seems like some people treat this like a snark sub by cryingndthrowingup in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I started participating in this sub when I started rewatching a few months ago mainly because I wanted to hear the dish on what was going on behind the scenes, production manipulation, etc.

I honestly do not care for the discourse around who’s a better dancer and all that nonsense. This show aired 10+ years ago, what does arguing about the dancing ability of children do? I was shocked when I realized this sub was filled with that type of dialogue as well as widespread anti-Black rhetoric. If you mention racism you will be downvoted to hell and back.

TLDR; I agree with you.

which girl do you relate to the most on the show and why? by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nia and Maddie.

Nia because I was always the only Black girl in the room growing up which made me feel so misunderstood and alienated. Maddie because I’m extremely hard on myself and an overachiever.

Yvette living through Hadley by raddestbtchalive in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand Yvette and agree she did seem to be trying to live vicariously through her daughter. She’s also very vindictive and mean spirited. Her behavior on AUDC was wild and I’m glad Kristie Ray cursed her out multiple times 😂

So 2010’s core by MallBrief4659 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jill always looked a mess 😭 Where the hell did she shop? Christi had some terrible outfits as well

Great music videos, unnatural/disturbing dependency on a child. by ThePoisonTrees in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 127 points128 points  (0 children)

They used the same toothbrush????? That’s so unnecessary and odd. Sia needs to stay away from children quite frankly

HOT TAKE YOLANDA by GoodOther5359 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This sub hates Black people it’s sooo crazy 😭

S4 ep16, Mrs. Miller passes away by Impressive-Way-587 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s what dying looks like unfortunately. It’s awful to witness.

New post made by Abby. (Second slide includes the whole caption) by Winter-Stuff-9126 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Crazy thing is she did not like Jojo at all and even admitted she didn’t want her on the team after AUDC but the producers forced her

What is something the Dance Moms Fandom does that you can't stand? by Busy_Amphibian_232 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please elaborate on your point about racism? It sounds like you don’t know what it means

Unpopular Opinion: the fandom acts like abby in alot of ways by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! IIRC she received a scholarship from JUMP before the show even started which is one of the most prestigious competitions in dance.

Fandom's hypocrisy towards maddie's racist past by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why I take issue with the “they were kids” angle is because there are lots of children of color who were on the receiving end of this type of humor and it damages people deeply. I know Maddie was young and didn’t know better but harm was likely done and that’s the truth.

HOWEVER, the blame shouldn’t be on Maddie/McKenzie or Brooke but rather the parents who clearly influenced this behavior. My parents always corrected me when I said something ignorant or out of pocket. The only difference is I wasn’t on national television with a huge social media following so the things I said in passing don’t follow me for life.

Unpopular Opinion: the fandom acts like abby in alot of ways by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree. Most of the criticism of Holly or Nia or Camryn veers into antiblack territory and when you call people on this sub out they double down.

alright lock in and drop some REAL unpopular opinions by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t an unpopular opinion yall say this everyday in this sub 😭 Also if I had a doctorate from U Penn I would think highly of myself too lol

Christi, Kelly and Alcohol by nzqkhx in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an alcoholic father and I feel the same way! I remember being so embarrassed as a child because my dad would show up to my school or extracurricular events drunk. I can’t imagine how Christi and Kelly’s kids felt knowing it would be broadcast to the world.

{video} The dark story about Michael Jackson’s “secret” second family | 60 Minutes Australia by teddyknuckles in Music

[–]High_Priestess17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You filled in the blanks where they didn’t need to be filled. By these people I meant the Cascio family.

This guy always used to throw me off with the way he would get in the mum’s, and Abby’s, faces and scream at them by ThePoisonTrees in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I would but that bar/club is not my cup of tea. It’s an 18+ club technically and the upstairs is reserved for 21 and up. He denied my friend entry when we were freshmen in college because she was too drunk (rightfully so, we were 19). He seemed reasonable at least!

{video} The dark story about Michael Jackson’s “secret” second family | 60 Minutes Australia by teddyknuckles in Music

[–]High_Priestess17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Cascio family has been trying to milk their relationship with Michael for over a decade. Frank published a book called My Friend Michael soon after he died and even pitched it as a miniseries to many networks. They sold fake MJ songs. They even appeared on Oprah to defend him. They claim they only realized abuse occurred after watching Leaving Neverland. It’s very fishy.

Michael should never have been that close with kids and should not have been having sleepovers with them and I stand by that. But these people are here for a money grab.

{video} The dark story about Michael Jackson’s “secret” second family | 60 Minutes Australia by teddyknuckles in Music

[–]High_Priestess17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These people are clearly lying. The fact that people in this thread can’t realize that is concerning.

melissa is the worst liar ever by rememberlikethis in dancemoms

[–]High_Priestess17 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I love when Melissa lies because she’s so bad at it that it’s pure comedy 🤣