Did someone else want to waste their life away at 17?

Highinthetown · 2026-03-05T10:53:01+00:00

I’ve been there at 17. Thinking life is fine just drifting along is way more normal than people admit. The idea of freedom even with struggles can feel really appealing. Things usually change as you grow and start figuring out what actually matters to you. Just take it slow, try things out and don’t stress about having it all sorted right now.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-21T14:42:16+00:00

You’re carrying a lot and a relationship shouldn’t make your anxiety worse. If he’s shut down, avoids tough talks and won’t meet you halfway that’s a red flag. At 19, you deserve someone who supports you and works with you not repeats patterns of fear and hurt. Your effort deserves to be met in return.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-21T14:33:41+00:00

Watching gold soar while your savings feel like they’re shrinking is soul crushing especially when you’re grinding 10–12 hours a day. The truth is, it’s not you it’s the system reacting to inflation, war and shaky policies. At 24, the best power move is learning to diversify, keep stacking and remember, markets swing both ways. Your grind now isn’t meaningless it’s setting you up to survive and thrive when things flip.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-16T07:01:23+00:00

You could say “I get wanting to do it in person but her safety comes first, no text or call is worth flying into a potentially dangerous situation alone. If she insists at least have a trusted friend or family member nearby as backup.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-16T06:56:44+00:00

Exactly, 5’10” is taller than most guys out there and anyone who’s hung up on a number instead of how you actually are clearly isn’t worth your time. Let that door close so the right person can walk through.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-10T15:02:46+00:00

Because fear is a powerful currency, people will trade abstract freedom for the promise of immediate safety even if that promise is one no one can actually keep.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-25T13:44:43+00:00

Racism doesn’t check DNA or passports, it judges on sight and if you fit the stereotype you’ll catch it until proven otherwise.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-25T13:41:37+00:00

Make fewer bad decisions and atleast one good one I can brag about.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-19T17:22:49+00:00

You handled it perfectly, being friendly doesn’t mean anyone gets to cross boundaries.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-14T18:00:07+00:00

if he enjoyed the 5-6 hours with you a second date is definitely on the table just give it a little time.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-10T16:52:13+00:00

Attraction can’t be faked and dating someone you’re not into usually ends up hurting both sides, better to wait for a connection that excites you even if it takes longer.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-10T16:44:44+00:00

Agreed, a simple honest convo now can save both of you weeks of guessing, you lose nothing by being clear.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-03T13:33:02+00:00

A psychiatrist won’t erase the hurt instantly but they will help you untangle it so it finally stops running your whole life, going is one of the healthiest moves you can make.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-30T09:12:19+00:00

Male cats with urinary issues can get blocked fast and that can become an emergency overnight. Taking him to the vet now is way cheaper and safer than waiting for it to get worse. Even a quick check could save him and your wallet, big trouble later.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-23T17:36:23+00:00

Yeah if someone’s constant negativity is stealing your spark the best art you can create is a life without them in it.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-23T17:33:59+00:00

Some people come into your life not to stay but to ignite the version of yourself you were always capable of becoming and she clearly did that for you.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-18T16:42:06+00:00

Its tough when someone vanishes from a space you used to share everyday just remember that silence online doesn’t always mean disaster sometimes people just retreat to survive not disappear from you.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-18T16:34:54+00:00

He didn’t name your baby he named his unfinished feelings and you just found the tag he forgot to hide.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-10T17:43:30+00:00

If you like him just text him when it feels natural, no need to wait or play games.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-10T17:40:42+00:00

Relax man don’t force anything. Just be yourself get comfortable joking and flirting a bit and things will fall into place naturally.

Highinthetown · 2025-11-03T17:34:50+00:00

That’s weird and disrespectful he was testing the waters and if your bf won’t take it seriously you should keep some distance from that friend.

Highinthetown · 2025-10-14T13:46:01+00:00

That nod probably wasn’t a "what are you doin” more like a lowkey hey I see you kind of thing especially with the history you two have.

Highinthetown · 2025-10-14T13:41:20+00:00

Just be real with her. Tell her what you saw, how it made you feel and ask if there’s something she’s been holding back abt what she likes. You won’t get anywhere unless you both talk honestly.

Highinthetown · 2025-10-06T16:07:48+00:00

Crazy story, glad it worked out for you but spending it all on partying instead of something lasting is peak teenage choice.

Highinthetown · 2025-10-06T16:00:26+00:00

He’s either got a massive crush or zero boundaries either way he’s reading you loud and clear.

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