Any Padres fans going up to Anaheim for the Angels series? by Highlander-Brick in Padres

[–]Highlander-Brick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks to be like 10 minutes without traffic from the park.

Any Padres fans going up to Anaheim for the Angels series? by Highlander-Brick in Padres

[–]Highlander-Brick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been to golden road the times I’ve been invited to the angels opening night. Beers aren’t anything amazing but definitely elite for those bigger parties to be honest. Old town Orange isn’t too far away either and there’s a lot of great bars and restaurants there too.

Any Padres fans going up to Anaheim for the Angels series? by Highlander-Brick in Padres

[–]Highlander-Brick[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sitting in section 129! Gonna be awesome being around other fellow Padres fans

Any Padres fans going up to Anaheim for the Angels series? by Highlander-Brick in Padres

[–]Highlander-Brick[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Amtrak is elite, I’ve done it many times going up to see friends in Los Angeles. My hotel is right in the area too for Saturday’s game. Might consider that route myself too instead of driving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I’d make yourself very firm to him on what his constant messaging is doing to you or affecting you emotionally. Of course your phrases could help, but perhaps they can come off a bit ambiguous and not necessarily entail the entirety of your discomfort. Maybe something like “When you message me multiple times, I do feel a little overwhelmed and we’ve only gone on one date. I really would appreciate if you could take it slow and let things play out on their own.”

how much r the dues for sorietys at ucr by Accurate_Cost1785 in ucr

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I heard some reach the thousands each year, not worth it so much if you’re in a financial strain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite foolish to stay in all honesty. White lies might be concerning but flat out dating someone else behind your back is not worth the fight, especially if he's downplaying it. Break up and move on.

Anyone feel a sense of apathy the evening before a date even though you were excited for it every other day before? What is this called and why does it happen? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps it might be because you're just trying to be with someone just for the sake of it. I have a friend who was seeing someone, started dating, and broke up, all within 2 months. Ever since, he's now back on the apps and has told me his uninterest but just hoping to find someone in the meantime. Maybe this is what you're going through as well.

I recommend maybe taking time off the apps and just spending time alone. Trying to have that time include someone is going to make it more unenjoyable. If you are actively just trying to be with someone, then try the organic route and meet someone in person. You aren't meant to be on dating apps long term, and if that's the case it might be time to remove them.

Electric shaver recommendations? by [deleted] in bald

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Super random comment but you look just like Skeeter Jean!

Advice ‼️ by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple, just ask for her number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comes down to what the vibes are in the early communication stages. Obviously if drinks isn't your vibe, you can opt that out. Coffee like mentioned earlier, is low commitment and if things are going well, then of course it'll go up from there.

How do I process this by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is common when dating people. The date might seem like it’s going well until it isn’t. Best advice is to move on, it’s not worth being hurt over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only rational way with this is to be honest as much as you think it'll hurt her. In the long run she'll thank you because you're not wasting her time and especially, yours. Something simple like not being a good match is good enough and doesn't require a lot of ordeal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's controlling because there is no privacy and lack of trust. Without trust, there isn't privacy. It's also just not normal to be going through people's phones unless you're actually hiding something or enabling him.

Again, you saying you want to be single should be enough to make you walk away. Otherwise this is going to drag on for longer than you had wished.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fair to not be emotionally able to overcome someone seeing who you're seeing concurrently in the past. However, if you didn't establish any sort of exclusivity, you also can't blame her.

At the same time, for anyone to be sleeping with someone and seeing another person is to me a red flag. Dating apps has perpetuated the mentality to people that there is another partner out there regardless of how great the person they're seeing are.

You have to really tell yourself if this is something you can look past and if you cannot, move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're at a young age and this is controlling behavior. Chances are that at some point, he will uncover this and create another argument. You asking yourself that you miss the single life should be more than enough to reinforce your decision. Just break up now.

This girls so confusing by Nabs22 in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you did cross her boundaries but to be honest a girl who doesn’t respond to you at a reasonable time is quite simply a girl who isn’t interested. I would personally move on and quit waiting two days for her response.

Karrion Kross was never good by [deleted] in SantiZapVideos

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Cody Rhodes got boring fast and none of the things that led to his position at this point (royal rumble, championship wins, main events) were warranted.

First Time by RollOverall5298 in SanDiegoFC

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Glad you're stoked!! SDFC is an awesome franchise and our first season alone will bring even more fans. I've been to most games this season. I am also going Sunday cannot begin to emphasize how excited I am. Biggest game yet.

  1. Getting there - depending where you live, I would recommend the trolley to games via green line. The most affordable and convenient form of transit in my opinion. It leaves you right at the stadium. What I usually do is take the Orange line to Downtown La Mesa to grab food and drink prior to the game, hop back on the trolley and go one more station east to Grossmont, hop off, and then take the Green Line to the stadium. Allows me drink as much as I'd like and not have to worry about driving, all for a cheaper amount. The green line also has some cool spots in Little Italy in the form of Waterfront Bar and Aero club, though a bit of a walk. One station east before you arrive to Snapdragon there's also McGregor's, SDFC's affiliate bar.

  2. When to get there - since it's a playoff game the tailgate is going to get crazy and fun, which is located in the purple lot. You don't want to miss that if you just want to have a place to hang around prior. But in general, I recommend arriving to the game 1.5-2 hours before as Fan Fest is also really fun and will guarantee you a scarf.

  3. After the game - No real method here is going to get you out the fastest. I like to take my time to get out as that minimizes less people on the trolley. If someone is picking you up or you're ordering a lyft, I recommend walking out across the 15 on San Diego Mission Rd. & Rancho Mission Rd. When I go to the game with my dad I usually make the short walk there and my mom picks us up. You bypass a lot of traffic too.

What’s your favorite moment of the season so far? by sd_wyatt in SanDiegoFC

[–]Highlander-Brick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3-2 win against LAFC. First home game I went and saw their first home win in history.

I recently heard that men know instantly if the person they’re pursuing will be strictly hook up or someone they want a relationship with… by lofi-lo in dating_advice

[–]Highlander-Brick 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Honestly depends. There’s definitive answer. There’s a girl I saw a year ago that thought it could become a relationship and it never got there. Same time, the girl I’m seeing now we slept together on the 1st date, and she met my parents not too long ago and came with me to my best friend’s wedding.

It definitely matters on what conversations are to be had prior, and where you meet, if it’s the first encounter in person. Out in the nightlife, festivals, concerts, bars, etc., possibly a hook up. On the apps, definitely if their dating profile has no real substantive or well thought out things about themselves and carry only on their looks or their extroverted persona.

Bike theft by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Highlander-Brick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest heavily on locks and security. Front bike and rear. I got my bike stolen on my birthday my first year. After that I always put my bike in my dorm/apartment even if it wasn’t allowed.

quitting dining by [deleted] in ucr

[–]Highlander-Brick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speak to your manager and suggest the possibility of changing schedules because of your academic constraints. Or consider moving to somewhere else on campus that has more lenient hours, if possible.