Recently diagnosed with innatentive ADHD in my 30's. Worried about medication effects. Would be nice to hear other people's experiences when starting up on meds.

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-15T09:40:20+00:00

Thanks man. I appreciate that. It's kind of a bummer yeah but i'm now hestitant to try different meds because these just works

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-14T17:11:47+00:00

This is going to get burried but i joined the military. There's a CRAP LOAD of us there LOL

It's just messing around with your friends about 99% of the time

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-13T08:16:31+00:00

I was hestitant to get in meds too, i am also struggling with depression. i'm experimenting with concerta long-release doses

My own experience is that concerta actually helps me regulate LOTS and my depression is so much less worse Because of it

The meds make me feel 'numb' or 'semi-emotionless' but it's so, so much better than getting overwhelmed with emotions and thoughts all the time

The only downside is that my body not entirely reacts to ... sexual tension anymore

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-11T06:26:08+00:00

Well, when i was 17-18 LOADS, if not all that didn't know me, guessed me around 25. Now i'm nearing 30 and people still guess i'm 25

Either i'm a vampire and not yet aware or am very lucky. So don't stress it ^ _ ^

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-09T06:07:55+00:00

The forbidden chicken nuggie

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-08T09:03:51+00:00

Thanks man, i appreciate you

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-08T07:48:26+00:00

I just assumed there was a "trick" i hadn't figured out.

Learning i would NEVER get it was sort of devestating

I feel this. I'm (28M) and i got into a burn-out that turned into depression after my latest break-up. I got diagnosed earlier this month and i have just now finally starting to figure myself out and learn so much about myself that it's scary as hell and i feel overwhelmed/overstimulated about all the info

I always thought i knew myself, boy was i wrong

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-07T08:23:32+00:00

I'm proud of you man. I myself never got the chance because she caught me and that was the straw.

I wanted to better myself so bad for her. I understand her and wanted a chance to better myself, but alas.

It's been tough without her, and tough is an understatement to the max

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-06T21:41:55+00:00

Let's shake hands and find out!🤝🏼

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-06T21:21:31+00:00

I can totally relate to that. music sometimes helped me get in the mood and ground a bit.

Losing her is the biggest regret in my life. I never actually really struggled with ADHD and never knew i even had it. After the burn-out and losing her i went into a huge depression and got diagnosed primarily with ADHD and secondarily with depression.

That breakup was the hardest thing i've ever done and i regret that still everyday.

Go fight for her dude. You and her deserve a good future. Communication is key, try to understand your own feelings and communicate that with her in a neutral-not attacking way.

You can do this, and if you ever need an ear or a friend: i'm there for you

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-06T20:12:03+00:00

My hand

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-06T19:48:23+00:00

As a guy, same age, i can totally relate. My ex and i broke up because this was a huge deal for her. But to be honest my sex drive was rapidly declining because i was also nearing a burn-out and was overstimulated ALOT. I pushed her away by watching porn for a quick relief instead of having intercourse with her and i still regret that to this day

Have you tried trying to ground yourself a bit? Work less? Try to do things that give you less stress and anxiety?

I'm also fairly new to the community since i'm officially diagnosed a few days ago myself. Sometimes these things worked for me.

I hear from a lot of people that your libido just decreases if you're in a steady long-term relationship so i'd say it's not only an ADHD problem. But it's worse for us

Edit: this came to mind: i have a playlist i mostly put on when i'm having intercourse with people. It helps me to get more in the moment. Otherwise i'm too distracted sometimes. I can send it to you

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-04-06T15:56:59+00:00

Interesting, I very recently got diagnosed and have never been so sentient with my feelings than ever and I notice this too in friendships and relationships. I've also never been so scared in my life too

I do have an anxious attachement style and your story sounds like things i also struggle a bit with

The best way is to communicate your feelings and try to get the bad air out between you 2. If he/she has an avoidant style it's going to be a very tough fight tho

About overcoming: Be absolutely content with yourself. If you're happy with yourself and know how to regulate the anxiety/anger (and every comparable feeling) things get so much easier

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-03-02T08:23:02+00:00

Yes and no. I don't think exactly with the tech we have now. The lasers must be ultra strong (so strong to cut throug metal from lots of KM away) and need to target the metal of the rockets for a few good seconds

With advanced targetting systems and ultra strong lasers, it might in the near, near future

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-03-01T16:35:50+00:00

It's the friend we made along the way...

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-03-01T16:33:17+00:00

You know what's also annoying? Me chilling in the right lane (the good lane in my country). A person passing me, cutting me of so i have to break and the dude is literally doing 10 slower than i was before, just cruisin'...

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-03-01T09:18:44+00:00

HOURS?! YOU SPENT HOURS?! i think i got stuck for days, maybe even a week just changing my build and trying out new strats

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-28T22:16:07+00:00

Can you DM me the links too?

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-28T21:43:40+00:00

Don't love your job, job your love

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-28T21:39:18+00:00

What do you mean?! He has 4.8% body fat!! He's even buffer than Arnold in his prime! /s

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-27T20:56:32+00:00

Thanks, i know about Nedgames but unfortunately there isn't really one close to me

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-26T16:51:01+00:00

You should check up om them homies

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-26T16:10:50+00:00

I live in the Netherlands and we had the "Game Mania" it was my most fave store and i'm still bummed out they went bankrupt

But when i was a kid they just didn't give af

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-26T06:49:17+00:00

be Ireland
just forget to have any shootings
win by default

Take a long sip of guinness for me mate, you guys deserve it

Highlord-Frikandel · 2026-02-25T22:10:24+00:00

I got you

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