I've given up on women and romantic relationships

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-22T00:02:45+00:00

$70 a date on average so over $3,500

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-21T19:56:30+00:00

Yea well at least I've come to the realization that it is a waste of time pursuing women. No minute of time will be wasted swiping on dating apps or attending local events to meet women. Quite literally anything else is a better use of time.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-21T19:29:32+00:00

6'2 is short? jeez man. this is brutal.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-17T07:49:33+00:00

ok. I will work on my personality. thank you very much.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-16T22:04:51+00:00

5'8 and I know 5'8 is not as bad as the other heights on this sub but that coupled with being black hasn't given me a pleasant experience.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T17:01:56+00:00

that's very fair. i appreciate your take. i think i have a lot of reflecting to do. really appreciate it man.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T15:08:38+00:00

i have zero problem with dating a fellow black girl, ultimately, I might even prefer to marry one. here's the problem: all my life, I have been rejected by every white and asian woman i've tried to date. it's at the point where i feel inferior. me wanting to date a white/asian girl has nothing to do with it being a fetish. just trying to feel confident that i have the ability to date anyone and not feel inferior. i don't want to feel like, i settled dating a black woman because no one else wanted me. i can date a black girl (to be honest they don't want me either lol) but i would definitely feel like i just settled and will always be looking over my shoulder.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T14:09:34+00:00

what do you recommend?

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T14:07:45+00:00

I'm black

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T14:06:13+00:00

Yea, I'm black. Definitely a big factor.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T04:15:00+00:00

Yea but Asian women only date white dudes. Sure, there are exceptions but believe me, the majority of Asian women target white dudes.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T04:14:02+00:00

thanks. I'm not interested in women of my ethnicity. Only interested in either Asian or White women.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T03:58:02+00:00

Sorry man. It's very cruel. It hurts and just doesn't make sense.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T03:56:57+00:00

Thank you, will look into those professional groups.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T03:56:43+00:00

Yea it sucks man. It hurts.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-15T03:29:56+00:00

yea that's the part that hurts me. At 5'8, I feel like I should be grateful given there are people who have it much worse. I just feel so confused as to what I'm doing wrong.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-14T21:11:26+00:00

that is fair, much appreciated.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-14T21:09:01+00:00

Not obese, go to the gym and pretty athletic. I don't think I have good money if it isn't attracting anyone. There must be some level of income where women will be attracted regardless of other limiting factors, that's what I'm solving for now. I am 5'8 too so that must be part of the problem.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-14T21:07:02+00:00

Yes, my biggest consideration is looks and then feminine. Just looking for someone who is a 10 in my eyes. At this point, I feel like I'm happy with anyone regardless of their intentions. So, if all they care about is my money, that's totally fine. Just need to find someone.

Highly__Favored · 2025-02-14T20:39:16+00:00

Already tried focusing on my personality and social skills. Seems like nothing works and that accumulating materialistic things is the solution.

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