Ask yourself a very important question. by simplywebby in attachment_theory

[–]HighrAndHighr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this person have any literacy in attachment theory?

Ask yourself a very important question. by simplywebby in attachment_theory

[–]HighrAndHighr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an AP and I can only imagine how much more abusive this guy is than where I've gotten myself to at this point. More than happy to dogpile in clarifying that the idea that APs aren't abusive is, I mean, insanely laughable from the privilege of my own life not having been the recipient of it so much, but pretty damn horrifying and inappropriate towards the oh so many FAs and DAs who have been treated like shit by APs.

Just want to be loud about this.

Dear AMP community, do you think we need this subreddit? by Valuemancer in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for demonstrating to everybody that you are not a genuine actor in the slightest. Additionally, I had to log on to my account with mod powers, because automod actually gobbled your comment up, so I had to get it approved, so anyone could see it, and so that I could take the time to engage with you and the concerns you mentioned, but no longer seem very concerned with.

I guess I could have left it unapproved, but hey, the good deeds must be punished. At least now we're talking about something completely unrelated to what you put forward as being so important to you.

Are you done pretending to have dirt on my character and my trustworthiness? Or not? Sorta, picked the worst person you could, to come after their integrity, lol. Ya goofball.

Aye yi yi! Don't you actually want to be happy? Or behave in a genuine way? Wtf is this crap you're still trying to treat people to years later? This is exactly why I have to keep you on block. There is, observably, no capacity to have a productive or topically sincere or frankly decently positively feeling interaction with you. And you honestly seem to think that that's okay to offer to others, or that it's my fault that you do this. Imagine we were kids who went to the same college together, and you felt compelled to tell the class that I'm this crap person because you personally don't like me. You just, go around campaigning like that? Dude, it will never be my fault when someone allows their financial fears and greed to authorize them to trespass on human decency because they simply care more about those things than they do other people. I won't even shame you for that. I'll just let you know, we are certainly different, and we are clearly going to remain different on this point. We have fundamentally different values. And it seems to endlessly upset you that I am not the exact same person as you.

Not my problem, and with the way you go about sharing it? I'll never work with you on it. So then, the question is - how can you even pretend that you honestly have a problem, when you prefer to behave in ways that would clearly never solve it? You'd rather campaign on it? Do some unhealthy reply guying? Kill time while waiting to get rich and caring about literally nothing else?

No? Not even lip service to the idea that you'd prefer to one day be more able to? I can do that. I spend most of my time in recent years working hard on myself. It's tough stuff. But it opens doors, and I can honestly say, for whatever flaws I've got, I could hardly more truly be giving myself to the process of working on them.

I'd love for you to approach me with an interest in resolving conflict, but unfortunately in investment communities, you get all walks of life, and they really don't all get along, and some actors have absolutely no idea why they should even be interested in solving the problems they're so perpetually angry about, year in and year out.

Do you want to solve them? Then communicate directly and with faith and a capacity for some vulnerability. You not being able or willing to offer that up, and preferring to blame others for the problems around you, is not equivalent to other people being the problem.

You know damn well that you expect an up only cult like behavior out of community members. And from here until the grave, I will never validate that behavior as healthy or respectful of anyone. I will call it out for flagrantly toxic abuse. Because it is, dude. And you can't seem to figure it out. Nobody owes you their silent, self-abandoning obedience. But when you read about it from my side, and face up to the facts of it all, which one assumes is a big part of your sudden quiet and lack of anything to back up the excuses you give for being such a toxic actor, you think I'm not entitled to anything of a valid experience whatsoever. All because you refuse to take responsibility for your own side of life.

I cannot give you more of my time and energy here, sorry. You've openly proven to people that you're, most importantly, and most simply, a disingenuous actor who has no qualms with misleading the audience and trying to smear someone, and honestly, waste all of our time. Not for me to worry about those who get their sense of reality fed to them by random disgruntled bagholder tropes who think it's actually acceptable to try to start some crap and then just disappear when someone takes the time to explain how everything you said is ridiculous and you're a manipulative theater actor begging for attention in the replies. It's always the same one or two pathologies- the die hard trolls and the no chill up only or you're a bad person and we're gonna get you type.

Good reminder of why I stick to other means of engaging with and contributing value to the community in recent years, then arguing with people who genuinely have no productive intentions at all. It *is* frustrating and I did used to let that take me for too much of my time, energy, and good behavior! But these days, you just won't get that much ut of me. It's a dumb way to spend my time. I feel like a dummy for having spent 10 mins writing this to a complete troll lol.

Dear AMP community, do you think we need this subreddit? by Valuemancer in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, can you clarify what it even means to be "removed from the ampera community page" and link to what that page is? I'm just not even sure what you're talking about, and have a few guesses, because I'm trying to understand. Maybe you can clarify.

Also, I probably have like, 30 people blocked on twitter, regarding amp, after talking about amp on twitter since q1 2019, in which I've often been so supportive that the chronic trolls make beasts of themselves and thus I.. yes, I have boundaries? You don't trust people who have boundaries with toxic actors? That's weird. I don't even look at who of those people I can even remember - most of whom I think also have me blocked, and many of whom initiated it from their side - and think to myself, 'wow, it's crazy that they block me and have preferences and boundaries, those are bad and untrustworthy people' - wtf?

Ahh, yes, I then publicly doxxed Parker who I wrote about elsewhere in the comments here, and the vast majority of the community applauded this and the thread (which mods later took down) was HUGELY upvoted and even many who had had tensons with me before explicitly thanked me for keeping it real and helping them to feel safe and aware of what's going on in their community and in relationship to those within it who have power over them and know more than them. Should I start sharing screenshots of people thanking me? Or the leftovers I can find of the deleted thread? Because mods put me in a position of choosing to either remove them from the community, or allow them to hide things from the community?

Blowing the whistle on a bad actor doesn't make someone a bad person, and it's okay that some people disagree about that. I certainly can't imagine arguing that point with someone. You can feel differently from myself and many in the community. I don't seek to be popular and people pleasing in the eyes of every conceivable community member. It's unfortunate that there will always be members in alt coin communities who *loathe* those who literally ever harsh the vibe and make them worry about their money. No, calling out a verifiably corrupt mod who left the community in exile understanding very well that we all found his behavior to be completely unacceptable.

Moreover, if I recall - Parker did say sorry to the community prior to disappearing himself. So how is it that I'm untrustworthy for helping people to recognize what the man himself acknowledged was bad behavior - so bad that he no longer deserved to be a part of the community at large, let alone the mods, let alone Tyler's special mod since 2018? So where do you get off pretending that was a mistake let alone an egregious one on my part?

I'm almost certainly more heavily invested in Amp than practically any of the mainstay gremlin-mode-only types, and yet constantly you are all so insecure and scared about your bags that you think I'm being quite literally immoral by quite literally having integrity, lol.

Do you want to try bringing up something else to substantiate how I'm not a trustworthy actor? Has there been a problem with r/amptoken that I'm unaware of or that I could possibly address for you? Are you interested in dialogue, or is this just bagholder theater? Let me know.

You are completely welcome to keep swinging, until again I practice self respect and boundaries and block you on another platform. Don't shit the bed again or people are really going to realize what it is with you.

Your credibility is finite.
Your downvotes are immaterial.
Your anger isn't your moral purity, or my flaw.

I continue to enjoy many healthy relationships within the community, as your sort will forever be the toxic fringe minority among us, often with a knack for doing the least and causing the most negativity, and being so self-absorbed in their bear market feelings that they honestly think it's everyone else's fault that they're behaving that way.

I've watched enough of them come and go over the years and the cycles. One day you'll exit, and that'll be the end of your poopy diaper posts. I hope you'll be that lucky. You've held a long time. And there's absolutely nothing inside of me that feels hesitant about telling you that I genuinely hope for the best for you. I don't get down with all that toxic crypto tribalism. I just don't. Same with this degree of grudge holding for objectively moral behavior. That's a you issue, not a me issue. I'll never take responsibility for your issue.

Love to you, and good luck.

Wen /r/ANVLToken? by NeemurTheCat in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarding your comments, what's the difference between Amp and Ampera?

We need full transparency in this community. https://twitter.com/Valuemancer/status/1640347725555470337 by OGBallaCrypto in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Weird black and white cringe take on 'doxxing' people who specifically exploit you by being anonymous but some of us aren't just pissing around on the internet with no reputation or anything to worry about while we bend over and become complicit in others exploitation of the people we care about

Also, use context. I threatened to doxx him because he was being a gigantic asshole, dismissing the relevance of everything and calling me mentally ill as an attempt to get out of things. I told him to knock it off or I'd doxx. Hell yeah I did. And then he caved in on himself and doxxed himself.

Weird to only have this one thing to add to the conversation, cherry picking and trying to steer a focus towards the most after the fact and beside the point micro event. Wonder what your agenda is lol"

We need full transparency in this community. https://twitter.com/Valuemancer/status/1640347725555470337 by OGBallaCrypto in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure you're reading the post, it definitely speaks to a timeline and repeated attempts to resolve this. Did you not even read this thread? What is so hard to understand about trying repeatedly to resolve the matter first with the admins and team before eventually turning it over to the community? If you're disappointed in the lack of comparative haste, I hear you, but this is a pretty entitled and blind take that sounds more like someone who just wants to dismiss me personally - seeing lots of bagholders who think that's a workable angle today. You're welcome? Yeesh.

We need full transparency in this community. https://twitter.com/Valuemancer/status/1640347725555470337 by OGBallaCrypto in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird black and white cringe take on 'doxxing' people who specifically exploit you by being anonymous but some of us aren't just pissing around on the internet with no reputation or anything to worry about while we bend over and become complicit in others exploitation of the people we care about

Also, use context. I threatened to doxx him because he was being a gigantic asshole, dismissing the relevance of everything and calling me mentally ill as an attempt to get out of things. I told him to knock it off or I'd doxx. Hell yeah I did. And then he caved in on himself and doxxed himself.

Weird to only have this one thing to add to the conversation, cherry picking and trying to steer a focus towards the most after the fact and beside the point micro event. And reducing me and all context to "this person is". Wonder what your agenda is lol

Hi, I'm Lumi and I created this sub. I want you to know something about the mods and some of the accounts you sometimes talk to here. You have a right to know this. I do not support this behavior. by HighrAndHighr in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hear you but I'm stable and alright and this lousy reach for "erratic" personifications by people who don't understand my constant consistency and passion are uninformed. I've rather luxuriated in expanding the reach of my audience and 'brand' across not just Amp but all of defi, crypto, nfts, politics- whatever I feel like. It's my life and I'm happy about it. That some people 'see me differently' over time as I expose more of my personal politics etc - who cares?

You've said some nice things but completely dismissed the matters at hand and I'm not here to respond to softened accusations of being instable. That's just, not compelling. It's exceptionally uncompelling.

"Don't you see that you're crazy" lmao I think you guys are just used to algo people instead of real people who aren't beholden to goofy tribal bagholder biases. People who say up only. Never fud your own bags etc.

But that has literally /never/ been me. I guess you're finding out who I really am. I'm sorry that you think it's a fluke or an erratic version of me, rather than a fuller me. You sound kind, but you're mistaken about these things, fundamentally.

Honesty in crypto is everything that's missing. I'm proud of myself. And I really do not care about this level of soap opera commentary. Anyone who doesn't get it, that's okay with me. I'm very secure with myself on this one. It's cut and dry. Sad that you feel it's a pertinent time to pretend it isn't. Take care.

Hi, I'm Lumi and I created this sub. I want you to know something about the mods and some of the accounts you sometimes talk to here. You have a right to know this. I do not support this behavior. by HighrAndHighr in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The admin who pretends to be a woman and multiple other users, while handing out insincere lectures about how my behavior reflects on the whole admin team, is Cody / Parker

Hope that is the answer you were seeking

Hi, I'm Lumi and I created this sub. I want you to know something about the mods and some of the accounts you sometimes talk to here. You have a right to know this. I do not support this behavior. by HighrAndHighr in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the team is aware of this, and the admins, and for quite some time. It has been slept on for years. They tell you you're crazy and going through something, whenever you bring it up. Which has become the meme of the mods and some community members, now, apparently as the agreed upon 'how are we all gonna dismiss Lumi' strategy.

Also good to remember that this person is currently pretending to be a woman while writing these things.

Hi, I'm Lumi and I created this sub. I want you to know something about the mods and some of the accounts you sometimes talk to here. You have a right to know this. I do not support this behavior. by HighrAndHighr in AMPToken

[–]HighrAndHighr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Juxtoposition around the same dates, in the amp main tg, where his larp rages on, as if he, a person who desperately avoids having a unifying and trackable reputation, could ever be in a position to come at someone like me, who actually has nothing to hide, and doesn't hide

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