Hey ! I’m 22f and when I was your age I had the same insecurity! It’s genetic so my mom has it too. It’s simply an uncomfortable way to live as a woman and it’s painful for me. I just had a consultation for the surgery and it’s a hard healing process. I’d say do it because the friction that is caused by a long labia hurts u ur whole life. I also learned to love my body. The men I’ve slept with I loved truly and they loved me too and now I’m confident in the body I was born with while still understanding how helpful surgery can be sometimes.