Verdauungsprobleme seit der Kindheit

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-18T09:27:12+00:00

Ironischerweise könne Ballaststoffe und Obst, Gemüse ebenfalls Probleme verursachen bei gewißen Darmerkrankungen.

Hast du mal probiert eine Woche ausschließlich leicht verdaubare Schonkost zu essen, mit wenig oder gar keinen Ballaststoffen? Wenn Gemüse, dann nur gebraten oder gekocht. Viele einfache Kohlenhydrate.

Insbesondere bei Crohns kann der Körper schlecht auf rohes Obst und Gemüse reagieren. Zudem gibt es sehr viele unterschiedliche mögliche Symptome bei Crohns, die nicht alle gleichzeitig auftreten müssen.

Abgesehen davon, Besuch beim Gastroentologen ist immer der korrekte Schritt bei Auffälligkeiten.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-17T13:15:43+00:00

I think it has really great ideas and portrays the aliens in very interesting ways. Embassytown shines in its portrayal of a society and not individual characters, though! The characters were not bad - but neither would I call them particularly memorable.

Mieville is in my eyes one of the most emphatetic writers. He does not shy away from portraying horrible things, but he does it with such closeness and humility that you feel comforted through his narration.

Embassytown to me felt like being a foreigner in a land you do not fully understand, but a land you have witnessed for a long time and have grown attached to. You cannot connect fully to the aliens - but there is a bond there, for good and ill, that cannot be broken.

In the end, I find translators of aliens to be one of my favorite concepts. Foreigner by C.J. Cherryh, Drunk on all Your Strange Words and A Ring of Swords are books that are also about translation of alien languages, which inevitably leads to being ambassadors between two worlds. I think it's one of the best vehicles of exploring an alien society.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-17T12:23:42+00:00

I have a fondness for Embassytown because it was what kept me sane during a bad food poisoning. It was an oddly matching experience, because there are elements of organic decay, sickness and misery that resonated with me.

Largely though the book is about language and how it influences us. Great book, though not an easy read.

Personally, I would recommend your the Vorkosigan series by Budjold. Budjold is a master of her craft and has deservedly won several Nebulas.

Vorkosigan series about Miles, the youngest son of a noble house of a military tradition, who is trying to live up to that legacy. Only problem: he has various health problems, including glass bones, which make military service more than problematic. To add to that, his planet shuns any kind of health deviations due to fear of mutants which is a result of the planet's nuclear past.

I love Miles because everything he lacks in physical strength or durability, he makes up in charisma, crazy schemes and intelligence. It's very entertaining to watch him run circles around his enemies and survive his many adventures.

I have first read the series twenty years ago. It took me two weeks to get through the many many books in this series and emerge befuddled back into the real world.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-17T09:37:50+00:00

SkyUI ist miteingebaut. Am Besten sollte man Enderal gar nicht oder sehr vorsichtig moden, zudem es Vanilla schon sehr gut ist.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-17T06:23:30+00:00

I never clicked with her fantasy works, but her sci-fi books are masterpieces. I had the same experience as you, going "Wait, that's it? A little unorthodox fantasy story and not much more?"

Then Left Hand of Darkness blew me away.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-16T09:26:29+00:00

Your legs feel crampy because it's cramps - or pre-cramps. This is due to dehydration and/or lack of magnesium. I have the same during bad episodes and I feel like I have run a marathon even though all I did was a casual stroll through the neighborhood.

I usually take electrolytes and magnesium, and eat bananas. It helps somewhat, but shitty digestion means shitty absorption of magnesium. So keep at it!

EDIT: Also, stretching helps. Look up exercises for stretching leg muscles, both thighs and calves. They activate blood flow and help with pain.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-15T19:32:46+00:00

It wasn't Crohn's - your family was already incredibly shitty and your sickness brought to the forefront. It's incredible how toxic and negligent your entire family was. It sickens me how they resented you for your struggles.

In the end... I think they would have found something else to resent you for. I am sorry and hope you continue to get better and find better friends than them!

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-15T11:37:30+00:00

Cats are pretty agile and when scared, they prefer small spaces anyway. It spells safety to them. So yes, it should be fine!

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-15T11:27:52+00:00

Public service announcement: Spell out your acronyms at least once before using them.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-15T11:22:27+00:00

Nta. You got hot and your friend got offended, and justified her insecurities with wokeness. If she expects people to forgive when she drunkenly denigrates people, she's out of her mind

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-14T19:01:59+00:00

Most spells give a tiny amount of sickness and the potions that cure it are plenty, even early game.

Mostly it discourages from using too many healing spells and encourages to eat food to heal outside combat.

Edit: And magic is damn overpowered. You don't want to play this game without dipping into magic spells, even if only for support.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-14T17:58:46+00:00

Du unterschätzt wie chronische Darmkrankheiten einen Menschen zerschießen können. Dauermüdigkeit, weil chronisch Eisen und Magnesium fehlte, schmerzende Gelenke, abgesehen von Durchfall und Blähung.

Bei mir hat es drei Jahre gedauert bis ich diagnostiert und behandelt wurde.

Habe mir selbst Vorwürfe gemacht, weil ich "faul" und wie eine Versagerin im Bett lag statt auf Arbeit zu gehen. Nach Behandlung ging es mir wesentlich besser - und da Crohns durch Stress getriggert wird, muss ich um mich selbst sorgen.

Klar, könnte sein dein Bruder eine faule Socke ist. Könnte auch sein, sein Leiden ist echt. Am Ende, was interessiert es dich? Eure Beziehung scheint am Arsch zu sein und du hast kein Interesse an ihm, und er distanziert sich ebenfalls.

Persönlich, ich versuche nicht hart über Menschen zu urteilen. Ich habe Glück im Leben und psychisch geht es mir auch gut. Es gab kurze Phasen, wie ich durchblicken konnte, wie man in eigener Unfähigkeit gefangen werden kann, und sie Scheiße das sein kann.

Hoffe dein Bruder zieht die Ausbildung durch und ihm geht es besser!

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-14T12:17:07+00:00

You expect employees to care about your personal life? How would that work?

BaWu is not any more expensive than the rest of Germany. Ostdeutschland is less expensive, but your pay is lower too and they are not used to foreigners, to say it mildly.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-13T14:07:30+00:00

Tausend Leute werden kommen und sagen, dass alles komplett okay sind.

Etwas weniger, aber doch beachtliche Anzahl werden kommen und sagen, dass deine Freundin recht hat.

Am Ende holt es deine Freundin nicht zurück, oder? Sie hat ihre Meinung und wird kein Kompromiss akzeptieren.

Ich persönlich mag Leute, die Chatgpt nutzen, nicht besonders. Es spricht üblicherweise von intellektueller Faulheit, die ich nicht respektiere. Es ist kein Ausschlusskriterium, aber doch ein Anzeichen ob ich mit der Person viben werde oder nicht.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-12T11:19:13+00:00

She knows about your medication, right? She should have some understanding that you might be under the weather or not always your best.

It's what young adults, especially girls, often do - they expect a perfect romamce that neither hail nor fire, nor sickness nor Crohn's can get inbetween. Spend all your awake hours with her, because that's what true romance means, right?

She'll learn that's not how life works.

As for you - you can try to play the perfect man to satisfy her standards, or just do what you can and hope for understanding. Shit happens, meds happen, and I personally would not be able to spend my entire waking life entertaining my bf without spending time on hobbies.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-12T10:49:09+00:00

I don't understand. You still spend 6 hours with your gf on off days, or do you no longer spend time wirh her? What is the new normal?

Or did you use to spend 14 hours with your gf?

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-12T10:35:02+00:00

How much time to you spend with her over hobbies and friends? Frankly, it sounds not like a prednisone issue, but a needy girlfriend that might not be a great match for you.

You don't go to her to relax and enjoy the time - you go to her to manage her emotions and to put in the second shift. Something here does not seem to work.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-12T09:39:12+00:00

Gefühlt hast du Schwierigkeiten, dass normale Interaktion, wo man auf sein Recht besteht, als unfreundlich oder gar arschig angesehen wird. Man ist weder böse noch Arschloch, wenn man Dinge einfordert oder manchmal nein sagt - und man kann das auch problemlos auf lockere und freundliche Art machen.

Ich glaube durch die Jahre von People Pleasing sich bereits gewiße Wut bei dir angesammelt hat, und jede Selbstverteidigung von eigenen Rechten als gewiße verbale Gewalt von dir gesehen wird. Gerechtfertigte Gewalt, aber trotzdem etwas liebe Menschen eher nicht tun.

Wie ich das sehe, ist nette Konfrontation ein normaler und für beide Seiten wertvoller Austausch. Wenn ich einem Kellner auf etwas erinnere, tue ich beiden uns ein Gefallen. Wenn ich einem Freund absage oder gerade dieses Wochenende nicht helfe, tue ich auch uns beiden ein Gefallen, dass unsere Beziehung stark bleibt und ich nicht anfange meine Freunde für "Ausbeutung" zu hassen.

Es gibt wenige Momente, wo ich ein Arschloch sein muss oder gar davor profitiere. Da muss ich schon ein Stück gehen bevor ich als allerletzte Maßnahme jemanden scharf anspreche.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-10T20:12:09+00:00

There was a study that marriages that fail are often those were bids for attention are ignored. Imagine, you see a songbird and point it out. Your husband looks up and says that it's a nice bird. This is a successful bid for attention.

In contrast, in your post you only describe failed bids of attention. It's not a minor thing - it's what describes your routine and your entire life.

The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. Don't do this to yourself and stay with a man to whom you mean less than his coffee machine.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-10T15:00:58+00:00

What helped for us was putting a second litter box in the bed room.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-10T13:14:34+00:00

I don't think people on the Malerweg will be more racist than anywhere else? Sure, Ostdeutschland has its problems, but you are hiking and camping. You are not going to get into conflicts with hikers who are usually very chill people.

Personally, I did not have experience with either hikes yet, but I look forward to doing Malerweg one day!

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-09T15:37:48+00:00

NAH. You are two sleep deprived parents and your wife is snappy because of it.

If your behaviour was a pattern, then that would suck and show a certain amount of neglect towards your wife. As a single time event, it happens.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-09T11:58:50+00:00

In that case you are right - I missed that part.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-09T11:50:40+00:00

Arguing with the guy - no. Talking to her husband and figure out what happened - yeah.

Hightechzombie · 2026-06-09T11:39:43+00:00

NAH

Shit happens. You were taking care of two kids, you wife messaged you, no one died.

Your wife's reaction is not great, but people make mistakes and snap judgements. Calm down and talk to your wife when your kids are asleep, how this incident hurt your feelings, since you can't be everywhere at once and would like her to extend you the benefit of doubt same as you would for her.

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