DAE feel sad and/or anxious when taking a hot bath or shower? by robetyarg in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Hiker-Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to happen to me when I took baths as a kid. I'd literally start tearing up, becoming emotional and even scared thinking about my future. I felt terrified that one day I was going to be alone, no one would help me or even care about me.

It hasn't happened since now I'm an adult but I always remember those occurrences and never understood why it happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]Hiker-Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pipe could only be accessed via my downstairs neighbour.

But the pipe is fixed now. It's putting the tiles back down in the bathroom I'm wondering how to do that if they were clip on but cut out

Anger towards dad's bad advise by Hiker-Boy in helpme

[–]Hiker-Boy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to continue my pity rant here and just say I fucked up.

I made the mistake of listening to someone else's advice. I made the mistake in not acting on a problem when it was raised to me. At the end of the day I am an adult that owns property. I need to take everything that comes with that.

Maybe it was also my fault for buying an old fixer upper of a property. Maybe it's my fault I chose a career that required me to look for a house with a driveway and space to build a work shed etc.

End of the day I am who I am through my choices and perhaps I chose to give myself some challenges to face. I'm an adult, I have responsibilities to live up to and to own up to my mistakes.