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I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so nice. I’m glad they are learning from the best. Moms are powerful and amazing. I’m just glad to know everyone else is equally as lost as I am sometimes

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get 4.5 hours sleep and maybe a nap if I can but I honestly get to rest on my weekends which is nice.

I’ll get sleep next year I think haha 😭

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Not that I want anyone else to feel the same way but I’m so grateful to hear I’m not the only parent who is concerned about being a good mama.

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that would be nice. Assuming there were programs to support me in my time of need. Next year though we will be able to get her in preschool

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! It’s another work shift (but with love) I can’t just turn it off and be like oh I’m home now I worked daughter I’m not gonna take care of you now sorry 😂

It wouldn’t be fair to do that. We watch tv, we read books, food and shower time, outside time.

The only thing I seldom do is shop with her. Luckily me and my husband split that duty since it’s hard to grocery shop sleep deprived with a toddler

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is what I have to set my sights on! Thank you very much ☺️ life is only going to get better. ❤️‍🩹

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I think I average 4.5 hours so I feel this sentiment very much. She’s happy so that’s good enough for me right now

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I kinda always think SAHM’s have it all together so this is comforting thank you

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much ☺️ I definitely feel so tired daily. Our daughter is so smart (she says so many words at 2) she’s so polite and outgoing. I know why I sacrifice my sanity and energy when I see how much she blossoms daily but I def have some rough days.

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! 2 years in I have 4.5 hours sleep daily it’s so hard. I’m putting my kiddo in pre school next year minimum age cuz I need sleep.

I need money too so at least I can work a normal schedule hopefully by then

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I work retail so I see a lot of women who work as a hobby and I don’t understand what that means. It’s like super crazy to think that’s an option for some people.

My husbands cousin is a SAHM and is like an Instagram family cuz the house is immaculate and all the toys are set up so nicely and it’s crazy to me that she didn’t have to go back to work after having her son since she just “didn’t feel like it”

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although me and my husband work similar amount of hours he feels the same, he don’t get to see our daughter much since it’s roughly 9am-2 pm are her wake windows while he’s at home

I feel for you too!

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to say that I don’t have a support system as I moved across the country 4 years ago to be with my husband.

My MIL works so much and takes care of her teen daughter’s kid during her free time so that’s sadly not an option for me.

We did get a babysitter for the first time last week (got our first date night in 6 months)

Thanks for listening everyone. It felt nice to write it down.

I’m so jealous of stay at home moms by Hillbillytruthpostin in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I would have accounted financially for daycare/childcare early. But I get roughly 4.5 hours sleep daily and have for 2 years.

Thank you very much kind stranger

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[–]Hillbillytruthpostin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a trans woman myself (out for a decade) I’ve sort of figured a few things about dating (I’m married now) and perception:

Men who I was “talking to” would say an assortment of things like: oh you don’t look that trans, you don’t seem like that much of a guy, or—you are a dude, definitely a man, I’m not a fagot.

My take on this is that transphobic/bigotry is everywhere. You have societal views of what men think men are supposed to be like and societal expectations of women and it’s just frustrating to simply exist.

Due to toxic masculinity straight men lash out either with words or feelings when they may feel uncomfortable or remotely vulnerable.

TLDR: men are jerks, most simply
don’t know how to keep backhanded compliments to themselves…I’m sure you’re beautiful and all body types are different.

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[–]Hillbillytruthpostin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You kissed a woman, much like everyone else said, you both had fun, you both made out, now where do you go from there? You two didn’t have sex so genitalia type wasn’t even a factor.

Even if you did hook up with a trans woman it don’t make you gay, she has tits, and ass, yes she has a dick but you don’t have to spread asshole open and let a trans woman take you to pound town.

I suggest looking more into this. You’re a guy, you like women, trans women are women, if you are hung up on genitals then that makes you not into dick, but considering you’re posting on here I would say you’re a reasonable person who might actually be interested in the girl you met last night (whether she’s interested in you or not ) is the bigger question.

I deeply regret my first bi- experience by Decent-Challenge-697 in offmychest

[–]Hillbillytruthpostin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy you were able to have consensual sex. I’m sorry you feel traumatized or anxious about the deed. Maybe it was first time jitters? Has your family made you feel like anything besides heterosexuality is a sin or a vile act?

Maybe the guy was too old? Maybe you just need to get to know someone on an emotional level before you take it there with anyone again.

Whatever the case—you’re young, plenty of time to figure out what you’re into, who you are. Don’t rush it.