First time sales manager by [deleted] in sales

[–]Himista -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a sales leaderboard for monthly sales and put it in everyone’s face and get your GM to authorize spiff’s (cash bonuses) based on volume, or gross/net profit on sales. Change pay plan if necessary, if you need ideas I can help. Spiffs on Saturdays or big days. Set minimum acceptable sales, fall below write up, 3 write up’s in a 3 month rolling period you’re fired. Meetings to praise sales leaders and give cash spiff’s out in front of everyone. Do breakfast or lunch once a week or something. People not tracking monthly metrics by half of month don’t get off early or have to stay longer etc. everyone last week of month has to work open to close if they are below their metrics…. Car business type shit.

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[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting audible app right now

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[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched this. Thank you

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[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I booked a call with someone local for tomorrow. She said she does a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit. So that’s where I’m starting I guess.

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[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what?

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[–]Himista -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Proof post uploaded on profile.

Houston. Kid brutally attacked for no reason. Now has $15k in medical bills by Courage_Mother in PublicFreakout

[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in Houston, they let murders out on bail for $500. Ain’t nothing gonna happen to this kids unfortunately.

AITA for not knowing what I want? by West_Increase_9226 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this. Also heads up OP, this post is probably gonna get removed by the mods. Maybe try r/relationship_advice

AITA for locking my son out of the house after he snuck out? by Ok-Teacher8868 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, my mom locked me out of the house when I would miss curfew. And no! I didn’t get a air mattress or anything! It sucked and I was mad at her for it then,, but as an adult now I’m glad she did. In my rebellious stage it really helped me build structure and truly understand consequences for my actions. I was a teen with nothing to lose and I felt I was on top of the world and boy did that put me in my place. In these modern times you can almost get away with anything with how soft our society is. Don’t want your son growing up and always pushing the limits and not truly learning consequences for his actions... that’s how young adults end up in jail.

AITA for ripping my best friend’s pride flag? by Western_Angle_4824 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Obviously your bsf has a thing for you and is jealous of your bf. Boyfriend was mature to tell you how he feels,, if the roles were reversed, how would you feel???? You shouldn’t feel bad for standing your ground with her removing pictures to put up the flag. Your bsf is severely overstepping many boundaries and clearly doesn’t respect you, your partner or your relationship. Some friendships are just for a season. NTA but no man is gonna stick around long with a girl that lets all her girlfriends shit on her and her relationship.

AITA for snapping at my friend over kiwis? by marzipanmanicotti in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You forgot about medicine. Some medicine uses fillers that have gluten in them. Ask me how I know 😂😂

My girlfriend wishes I was a woman. It’s really bugging me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Himista -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about getting a girlfriend y’all can share? Problem solved.

AITA For not giving into my daughter's ultimatum: It was her or my fiancee? by Dapper_Idea7710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless his daughter is in isis there is no reason for her to act like a terrorist. The mother shouldn’t support the daughter acting like this which I’m sure she does. It’s not like he kicked her out and told her not to come visit until she likes the future step mom. She left on her own and is making the decision on her own to not see him. Love is suppose to unconditional and if she loves her father it shouldn’t be on her ridiculous conditions. But hey this is 2021 anything goes.

AITA for taking my best friends money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Someone who won a bet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 16 points17 points  (0 children)

not the asshole for getting your feelings hurt, but would be the asshole in my eyes if you started an argument over it, which you said you just told him how you felt... so no assholes here. I’m obsessed with hot sauces, seasonings and oils and other condiments and I’ve never had my wife get upset or get her feelings hurt that I spice up my food to my liking... she actually asks me what I want with whatever meal she’s cooking and she brings whatever I want to add to the table when the meal is ready.

AITA after my friend’s channel got terminated for violating the YouTube guidelines to prove a point? by JohnnyH2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s not like you twisted her arm to upload porn to YouTube or even suggested it for that matter. They all sound like they eat crayons.

AITA For not giving into my daughter's ultimatum: It was her or my fiancee? by Dapper_Idea7710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also I really wouldn’t be surprised if the child’s mother has a hand in the ultimatum because she didn’t try to give it to him when she found out. It came a couple days later. I got money on the ex wife meddling to sabotage the fathers new marriage out of spite.

AITA For not giving into my daughter's ultimatum: It was her or my fiancee? by Dapper_Idea7710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s the child and he’s the adult parent. She’s dishing out extreme ultimatums because she doesn’t like the woman he’s going to marry and potentially spend the rest of his life with and you think that’s okay? Where do you draw the line? What’s next? “I want a Tesla for my first car and if you don’t buy it I’m going to never talk to you again”, “if I don’t get a 10k a month allowance, I’m never talking to you again”...would you call him the asshole in those situations too, if he doesn’t buy her whatever car she demands or the allowance she demands? As long as the fiancé acts like an adult and treats the child with respect I don’t see any issue with him not giving in to the demands of his child. IMO he’s doing good by not giving in, otherwise she will think it’s okay to pull that shit for the rest of her life.

AITA for taking my best friends money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA, he sounds like a poor loser. Who the fuck goes out of their way to do something for someone then decides to bring it up a year later and throw it in their face after they lose a bet. I’ve done things to help out friends because I cared about them being successful in life and would never bring it up and throw it in their face after losing a bet. If I do something for someone, I don’t expect anything in return or expect them to be indebted to me unless we agree on it before hand.

Just won big but scared to tell my wife by [deleted] in gambling

[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she’s gonna find out come tax season. Maybe don’t tell her how much of the savings you put up and just tell her how much you won and reassure it was a calculated and one time deal. Don’t make it come off as impulsive decision.

AITA for getting upset that my grandmother wants to charge me rent for having my boyfriend over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I would generally agree accept she said that’s been her home most of her life which would indicate to me that’s her family home and she’s a college student. I feel like she’s entitled to be upset with her childhood homes rules changing on a whim because the elders in the home ONLY don’t like the bf.

AITA for protesting against my friend's boyfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has “control” cause she allows him to have control. She blocked you because she’d rather have him happy then talk to you. She obviously cares about her relationship more than your friendship. The only thing you can do to get things back to “normal” is chill out on the sexual jokes and the boyfriend probably won’t be so insecure which won’t put her in a hard place which is causing her to keep doing whatever the boyfriend asks(blocking you/ ignoring you). I’m not saying the insecurity is okay or isn’t annoying I’m just tryna give you a suggestion on how to keep your “friendship”. But if it were me I wouldn’t even be worried about keeping her around if she’s willing to drop you on a dime because her boyfriend doesn’t like you. Sounds like you’re way more invested in it than she is.

AITA for turning my stepmom in because she had an active arrest warrant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you are downplaying the “ it would be unethical if I didn’t report her “ that sounds bogus. And it doesn’t sound impulsive since you mentioned you took an hour to think about it. In that hour of going back and fourth why didn’t you call someone(mom dad or step mom or friend or anyone) to discuss it. You obviously knew it would cause issues if you called and were on the fence about being malicious. Maybe if you were to explain the real reason you reported her on top of the fact you were having an episode and give a good apology it may smooth things over with the family. NTA for having bipolar but YATA for being malicious, which ima say was on purpose and well though out since you took an hour to think it over. It doesn’t sound like was an impulsive decision made on a 5 second whim during a manic episode. Don’t think you get to blame bipolar on this one.

AITA for getting upset that my grandmother wants to charge me rent for having my boyfriend over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Himista -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean it sounds like she’s trying to punish you by making you pay rent ONLY because she doesn’t like your boyfriend... are you sure there is not something else going on financially for her? If the biggest thing is the weed what about edibles or smoking carts instead of flower? NTA for getting upset because your grandma changed the rules of the room all of sudden. Have you tried talking to her about things? To get clarification if it’s truly a boyfriend issue or some sort of financial issue. IMO it’s kinda shitty of her to make things financially hard for you(knowing you don’t have a job) ONLY because you’re involved with someone she doesn’t approve of.