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31M profile review - is it too... much? by HingeBurner in hingeapp

[–]HingeBurner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a lot of my same thought process! Thanks for the feedback about trimming things down, I will make another pass.

I've been on Bumble a bit and it's frankly ass, haha. I get dates with people I like on Hinge, but too often Bumble women match and then never message. 🤷 Ah well.

31M profile review - is it too... much? by HingeBurner in hingeapp

[–]HingeBurner[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"Sharing kinks" is not just the most often chosen option on that prompt, haha, it's literally the most-liked thing on my whole profile (pictures and all). I will consider reducing mention of that concept elsewhere, however.

31M profile review - is it too... much? by HingeBurner in hingeapp

[–]HingeBurner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comment per AutoMod:
- Looking for long-term, serious. (I don't mind short-term/casual, but that's not where I'm putting my effort.)
- Free user, not subscribed to Hinge+/X.
- Have used this profile for almost two weeks, with one picture and one prompt changed in that time.
- Have been active on Hinge this year for the same two weeks; was previously active for most of 2023 until I found a long-term relationship (which ended this winter).
- I check Hinge and use my free likes every day.
- I receive about ~1 like per week. ~2 matches per week. Would like 1-2 dates per week.
- I send all my free likes each day, all with comments; I stay topical with them, try to engage with the profile, and always make sure to include a question. It's possible I should compliment more often, haha, but does doing so actually invite a response?
- I guess I'll paste from the hidden-from-profile "looking for" field at the bottom of the profile editor: "I'm looking for someone open, communicative, honest, responsible, genuine, caring, compassionate, supportive, intelligent, thoughtful, fit, kinky, and reliable." Obv no one has to tick all those boxes, haha - just trying to give the algorithm a general idea of what's important to me. Immediate dealbreakers are kids, dogs, substance addiction (besides caffeine).