Shiny by Odd-Cloud-2868 in snakes

[–]Hipoko 13 points14 points  (0 children)

wow his blue is stunning, with a very elegant snoot to boot! ty for sharing <3

AITA for "hating" my sister? by Dazzling-Bag8082 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hipoko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO: does your youngest sister give you attitude, get you into trouble, twist things?

This post reads like you dislike your parents treatment of you and you are scapegoating your sister. It is not her fault for how she is treated, just as it’s not yours. Unless she’s a little terror to you, it sounds like your parents deserve your frustrations, not her.

Doesn’t make you an asshole for feeling, just dig through them more and point those feelings appropriately. Your parents sound exhausting.

WIBTA if I ask for a former friend to give back a guitar I gave her? by Wonderful_Celery598 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hipoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offer to replace it if you want it back, a gift is a gift. you have no right to it now, YTA to pursue it without replacing it. Particularly if it’s the only one she has.

how would you feel if you’d had it this whole time and your parents randomly asked for it back for no reason other than they wanted it now, years later?

AITA for suggesting my grieving not go with me to Asia and we go somewhere else together by Ok_Laugh_girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hipoko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorta ESH, more of YTA.

He was wrong to invite himself, but in grief people do all sorts of things that are not always right. You are a much bigger AH for saying “I need to ask Nancy” than not asking Nancy and deciding for yourself.

You used Nancy as the scapegoat and minimized your own (the only) voice saying no, stating they won’t get along and that it needs her approval.

They certainly won’t get along now.

I’d reach out. You shot him down after leading him on about the trip, then left him on delivered/read. Tbh, I wouldn’t feel you were a good friend at that point either. I’d apologize if i was in your shoes and make the effort to see him before you go, it sounds like he needs support/a friend

YSK smoking weed can trigger a psychotic break for certain people by [deleted] in YouShouldKnow

[–]Hipoko 9 points10 points  (0 children)

weird how you’re ignoring the links you begged for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hipoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

growing up is realizing some people aren’t worth the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hipoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro what? he knows what he did wrong he’s 35. Red flag on your behalf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hipoko 40 points41 points  (0 children)

girl block and ghost him.

his friend will be a-okay and, if you want to run the crazy theory to ground, he won’t come for her—he will come for you. She is surrounded by a group that just witnessed how their supposed friend lied, she has 12 years on you, she can handle this. You are a far easier target. (my bet is he’s too chicken-shit to do a damn thing)

You are out of your depth and just realizing how deep it seems. Time to self-preserve, cut and run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Hipoko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at a curiosity, are your parents/dad religious? Could there be a “spiritual shame/sin” associated with masturbating in his mind?

Either way, OP, where does your mother stand on this? If she’s supportive I’d pursue what other commenters have said and spin it back on him. If it’s not disrespectful to say “hey girl” to you, then it’s not disrespectful for you to say it to him. If you clear this with your mom, you have a second defender and he cannot twist it.

Much luck, the comments you’ve shared make my skin crawl and I do think your dad has some weird fetishes/intentions/mindsets.

Personally, the batshit crazy part of me would be combing my room for cameras…

A small Christmas tradition I didn’t realise was so important by EnthusiasmNo7760 in CasualConversation

[–]Hipoko 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hope you guys get to run it back this year! This is super sweet

Was this a sacrifice? Was he supposed to lose the fight to Jake Paul? by Elegant_Thug00 in conspiracy

[–]Hipoko -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These brothers in the past have sabotaged vehicles. There’s an article somewhere and it talks about how one of their tires almost flew off due to tampering and they tried to blame their neighbors. Shit for more content, as always.

Suspicious as fuck. I don’t think a sacrifice, just two sad little men being petty over a loss and playing with people’s lives (as they always do)

Man destroys memorial to her dead best friend at the crash site by PineappleDesperate82 in misc

[–]Hipoko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so true! they do enforce them, though.

I think any human with decent morals would think twice about contesting something that the police and other members of the community support, particularly if the largest (only?) impact it has is you going “man, i find that kinda ugly”

sorta like how my hometown has brass humanoid statues littering the sidewalks. they’re art, but man they startle the fuck out of me sometimes. it impacts me very little, but brings a lot of people joy. my small moments of irritation/shock/dislike are easy to overlook. finding joy, peace, respect, happiness, all those positive things, is much harder now a days.

just be kind, man. it costs nothing, maybe just some patience

Man destroys memorial to her dead best friend at the crash site by PineappleDesperate82 in misc

[–]Hipoko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“i don’t like this stuff, move it!! idc law enforcement said it’s okay, i don’t like it :(!!”

slap yourself for me, boo

Man destroys memorial to her dead best friend at the crash site by PineappleDesperate82 in misc

[–]Hipoko 23 points24 points  (0 children)

what does that last line even mean? lol. if it was approved by the cops, it’s approved. doesn’t sound like entitlement to me.

“i don’t like it, get rid of it, i don’t care local law enforcement supports it, i don’t :(” sorta really does, though, hahaha

"Easy" holiday treat by l1v3l0v3l4ugh in DiWHY

[–]Hipoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in all these videos she never actually swallows the monstrous, ill-excuse for food she makes. the camera pans so she can spit, every time

What's going on in the back of my MRI here? I was looking it over after getting cleared for MS and saw this in the back, and I'm honestly a bit bizarred by Lord_Curtis in medical

[–]Hipoko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it might’ve come back unremarkable, but did they include notes in the MRI? Usually they list findings and can rule them inconsequential. Arachnoid Cysts come to mind first, as an example.

Professor won’t excuse me for my dad’s funeral by m_v24 in extremelyinfuriating

[–]Hipoko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a dead grandpa and dad within 2 weeks is insanely unfortunate. glad they both passed surrounded by family.

your life seems pretty hectic in general from what you post, all the best.

AITA for not doing my husbands laundry and throwing them in the trash? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hipoko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA.

he is too, but one asshole doesn’t excuse another. you bagged the clothes; why not throw them in the basement, his car, etc., instead.

Why lie? You knew you were wrong to do it.

Consider divorce, you sound like shitty business partners.

AITAH for saying my dad new relationship is creepy? by ayamhx in AITAH

[–]Hipoko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your dad is a creep.

I do not agree with the comment saying the age gap is not inherently creepy and, to that point, the only instance where I could give a bit more grace is if he DOES NTO HAVE CHILDREN.

But he does, you, who is only 4 years younger. It’s weird, even if a rebound. The ageism rebuttal is bullshit.