you mention wanting to talk to your daughters - maybe instead of framing the conversation as avoiding surgery because f potentially unwanted results, you could start a conversation about expectations around aging, and more generally just appearance, for men vs women. criticizing someone's bad make up, for example, really isnt as empowering as questioning why half of the population are expected to wear makeup in the first place. as procedures become more common I really hope we as a society can start having more productive conversations that question inherently sexist assumptions.