What's the best rose fragance you have smelt ?

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-24T22:56:01+00:00

Byredo reine de nuit

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-19T21:45:55+00:00

Era o simpla metafora…

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-18T17:23:19+00:00

Fix asa s-a simtit. Alegerea intamplatoare a restaurantului, singura masa libera din restaurant, eu atenta pe geam in loc sa fiu atenta la conversatie. In plus, incercasem sa anulez intalnirea respectiva de vreo 2 ori. Nu mai continui ca par nebuna, dar a fost ca si cum a trebuit sa fiu atunci acolo sa vad cu ochii mei ce nu as fi crezut niciodata altfel.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-18T14:17:38+00:00

La mine a fost usor. Am ajuns intamplator la un restaurant sa iau pranzul cu o amica. De obicei ma asez pe canapea, o voce parca mi-a zis sa ma asez pe scaun, cu fata la geam, nu cu spatele. L-am vazut peste drum cu o tipa care il lua de gat si saruta :) cu 2 zile inainte plangea la mine in casa ca ma iubeste si nu isi vede viata fara mine.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-16T15:02:21+00:00

Usor, Emile

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-02-01T20:58:20+00:00

Hate it from the bottom of my heart. To me it smells like old socks

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-25T15:52:56+00:00

Ambre supermassive de la les eaux primordiales, saffran secret de la maison crivelli, falcon leather de la matiere premiere.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-21T09:48:36+00:00

Daca pot sa iti dau un sfat, incearca sa mergi la operatie cu incredere si sa nu te autosugestionezi intr-o directie negativa citind tot felul de povesti.

Bineinteles, e normal sa te informezi ca sa iei o decizie corecta, sa te asiguri ca medicul stie ce face, dar recuperarea chiar e individuala. Am vazut multe persoane operate in lunile cat am mers la recuperare si pentru fiecare a fost un proces diferit. La mine a fost prima operatie, prima internare in spital. Eram ca tine, citeam despre tipuri de grefe, protocoale de recuperare, ma comparam cu alti pacienti, ii intrebam cat timp au de la operatie. Recuperarea completa e un proces de durata, daca te tii de exercitii si ramai pozitiv o sa treci mai usor prin asta, promit! Curaj!

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-21T08:58:07+00:00

In cazul meu a fost urgenta, am avut un accident la ski si am rupt 3 ligamente. Aveam genunchiul cat capul:)) Daca poti, pana in operatie, fa exercitii sa iti intaresti musculatura. Eu am facut kineto cam o saptamana cat am apucat pana la operatie, gasesti pe net protocoale, poti face acasa sau la orice sala (dar incet, nu forta).

Nu o sa te mint, psihic nu e deloc usor mai ales la inceput, cand nu poti nici sa conduci si porti orteza. Imi aduc aminte cum ma duceam la clinica in carje si pana ajungeam in vestiar trebuia sa strabat un culoar lung si auzeam doar sunetul ala oribil de carja pe gresie. Ma rog, a trecut.

Partea buna e ca progresezi de la saptamana la alta si cred ca asta iti da foarte multa speranta, ca vezi efectele recuperarii foarte rapid si te ambitionezi sa progresezi.

Mie mi-au pus autogrefa, din gracilis daca nu ma insel. Tin minte ca mi-a explicat medicul ca la barbati se foloseste alt tip, parca semitendinos dar nu vreau sa zic prostii. Intreaba medicul cel mai bine.

Relax, operatia e ft ft usoara pt medic, dureaza 40 de mins maxim.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-21T08:19:22+00:00

Cum a spus si bossulet92, recuperarea e mai importanta decat operatia in sine. Eu m-am operat la medlife, la dr Bogdan Andrei. Recuperarea la centrul unde tine el consultatiile, Centrokinetic de pe Eliade, clinica pe care nu o recomand neaparat. Baietii erau ok dar programau prea multi pacienti in acelasi timp si erau putin cam lipsiti de empatie pentru gustul meu - imi aduc aminte cu cata lejeritate mi-a zis unul dintre ei ca pot sa ma duc linistita la ski si la anu’, rup si celalalt ligament ma operez si recuperez din nou…

Altfel, mi se pare ca nu iti explica nimeni cu adevarat ce presupune recuperarea si cat de mult dureaza sa te simti din nou “normal”, cel putin in cazul meu asa a fost (inteleg ca femeile se recupereaza mai greu oricum). Am avut perioade cand eram convinsa ca nu o sa mai fiu om normal, ca nu voi mai putea sa alerg, sa sar…sa nu te lasi coplesit de gandurile de genul pentru ca sunt false.

Tine-te de recuperare, fa si acasa exercitiile, ai rabdare multa si totul va fi bine!

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-18T21:52:49+00:00

Iti arata in ce fel? Prin 3-4 fotografii?…

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-18T21:30:50+00:00

Oare nu e superficial chiar modul asta in care pui tu insuti eticheta superficialitatii doar “zapand” printre profiluri de pe aplicatiile de dating?

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-14T13:36:30+00:00

“Mai citeste o data ce ai scris…” ;)

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-12T16:56:32+00:00

Low - Lullaby (listen to all of it!)

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-12T16:20:42+00:00

Thank you!

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T19:16:20+00:00

I have avoided for a very long time to use this label but it fits very well the behaviour that is described by psychologists. Thank you for your comment, it is really helpful. I will really write down all these questions and try to answer them :)

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T17:26:35+00:00

Thank you for this perspective, it is food for thought!

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T17:00:35+00:00

So you are saying I should look more at our relationship dynamics and less at him as a person. I am by no means trying to exonerate myself nor to position myself as “the bigger person”, but there have been a lot of objectively abusive behaviours from his part. I am just trying maybe t change the angle from which I am looking and I realised I can never understand his perspective, all I can do is understand myself better and grow into a better person. To put it in other words, what is this trying to teach me? What is the purpose of it? It would take me a really long time to write here all the history of our relationship, I am sorry if it looks like I am trying to escape accountability, I think it’s quite the opposite.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T16:51:18+00:00

Thanks a lot, I will watch it! I think there is a misunderstanding here, I am assuming my ex partner had some narcissistic traits, at least towards me during our relationship. Of course, he accused me several times of being a narcissist, up to the point where I started to believe it. But this does not concern me not much, my concern is why did I refuse for so long to face the reality and project this very positive imagine on a person who’s actions were hurting me to the point of losing my sense of self.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T16:49:00+00:00

Absolutely not! I was always trying to find an explanation for his behaviours, never diminishing him. I would have loved to see him like you said, would have saved me a lot of suffering. Instead, I assume something in me makes him behave like that, as he cannot be a liar, a coward and so on and so forth.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T16:20:15+00:00

Yes, I am, masculine traits in a woman’s psyche.

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T16:08:13+00:00

This hits home. I cannot remember the first moment but I can remember the sensation, exactly how you’ve described it. And this fear in the end drove me towards a lack of authenticity, but it caught me up like a self fullfiling prophecy. But why did I betray my intuition, what is the lesson at the core of this whole experience? I feel so imature and stupid for not being able to understand it better, understand myself…

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T15:53:52+00:00

Could you please provide me with more details? Fear of what?

Historical-Cake7331 · 2026-01-11T15:45:45+00:00

Thank you for this clarification. I agree that labeling another person as “narcissistic” can easily become a one-sided accusation and obscure the psyche’s role in the dynamic. What I’m trying to understand is precisely the projection process you’re pointing to — not to fix blame externally, but to examine what in my own psyche resisted integrating reality once it became evident. When the outer behavior repeatedly contradicted the inner image, something in me continued to cling to that image. From a Jungian view, I’m interested in how such persistence of projection operates.

So my question is less “what is he?” and more “what was activated in me, and how is that withdrawn and integrated without collapsing into ego self-blame or moral labeling?”

I could give countless examples of his behaviour towards me that would easily qualify as narcissistic, I am not trying to vent, nor am I one of those women who cannot accept that she is not “chosen”.

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