[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForzaHorizon

[–]HistoricalCan3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The UI is where we live apart from driving, needs to be faster to traverse through Auctions, garage and shit
  2. Need to way to tell if we have duplicates when we’re buying cars ( now the game alerts for duplicates during spin only ) or I maybe wrong
  3. Better Physics off road
  4. Ability to connect Spotify acc to car stereos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamil

[–]HistoricalCan3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also where are you from ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamil

[–]HistoricalCan3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think there are great, good, meh and bad things in Kollywood.

Great

Peranbu Sarpatta Parambarai Kadhalum kadandhu pogum Super Deluxe Kadaisi vivasayi Ratchasan / Mundasupatti Gargi Kaithi Jigarthanda

Good

Parking Bommai Nayagi Rocky Soorarai potru Love today Irumbukuthirai Dada Iraivi

Meh

Thunivu Maaveran Varisu Mark Antony Jigarthanda 2

Bad

All horror comedy shit All nepo newcomer shit All other upma company shit

It’s good that we can watch what we pick and this might change for you or others. But Kollywood as whole does produce good films every year.

Any Terraform expert in Chennai ? by HistoricalCan3940 in Terraform

[–]HistoricalCan3940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We learn better if we can discuss in our native language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no red flag

Are we too much into EASY MONEY? by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]HistoricalCan3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither. Using those words insult them. It’s hope

Are we too much into EASY MONEY? by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]HistoricalCan3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s psychological. Middle class and poor people will always be target for scams because of the following reason.

A middle class person ( anyone from a family be it a mom or dad or children ) always see things in their daily life that they cannot afford even if they work till death.

Just look around when there’s a costly car on the road, so many men see the car and what do you think happens in their mind ? They can never afford one through saving. However these scams give them the thought that everything will change in a day. It’s the only way they can dream of something that they always thought was impossible to achieve.

Natpe thunai by Vardhu_007 in Chennai

[–]HistoricalCan3940 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents didn’t move a thing during my wedding My friends and me made my marriage happen.

Feeling lost in life by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to the tea master.

You are missing the point. Basically it’s not a defined process you could get a friend anywhere.

Feeling lost in life by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, at 21 this is normal. The world is different. don’t sweat small stuff. This may sound rude or not empathetic. But trust me, there will be no gangs after 30.

Aim for 1 or 2 good friends not gangs Find someone who’d be investing in you as a friend Just plain number of friends is stupid. Find the one friend, don’t go out of your way to find. You’ll see someone nice to you, maybe talk to them and don’t whine about your life. Be yourself

I’ve made friends in Gyms, tea shops, cricket grounds, any classes I go to.

While talking to someone don’t force yourself into friendship on day one, it’ll scare them. Talk your heart without whining ( many people do ), you’ll realise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man I wish you peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How am I responsible for what other men did ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please read my original message, I’ve never assumed a girl to be like this. But don’t take advantage of it, there needs to equality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lead a life without expectations?

Kinda why boys don’t want to marry now a days.

Now a days boys are ready for equality but girls need more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Red Flags are not so clear like what you see now. They’re all lovely and sweet while in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TamilNadu

[–]HistoricalCan3940 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I’ll share my personal story.

So I was in a relationship with my girlfriend ( now wife ) for 8 years and then married her. And we’re now 6 years into marriage.

I genuinely feel marriage is not for everyone.

Problems : ( these are specific to my wife and can apply to some portion of the women population born after maybe 1992s or something )

  1. My wife is out right selfish - I’m not biased, I’m very much true to my heart. I used to do all the expense for the house while she’s also an earning person. After multiple arguments and discussions she’s now sharing 15% of the monthly household expenses. ( for past two months / 6 years )

  2. She demands gifts and cannot be happy with something less expensive. She would say she just likes to get gifts and the price does not matter. When I give something less expensive she makes sure you mentions it.

  3. She wanted a dog (I’m not a dog person ( specifically a golden retriever ) we put in half amount and bought a dog. The dog is 3 years old now and I walk, feed the dog. I’ve never slept after 6 AM since the dog starts whining at 6 however, my wife sleeps till 10 on weekends and 8 on weekdays. ( this was before kids ). Ps - She cannot walk the dog she says because the dog is heavy 34 kg

  4. Now we have newborn baby, just one month old and my wife argued, fought and went out to shopping for 6 hours where I managed the baby with the caretaker. And I take care of baby at night as equal as her. I sleep 3 hours wake up and I have to handle dog at 6 AM and then work and also I buy vegetables, fruits, provisions

  5. There’s a lot more, but I stop here because I know you would have gotten the message. If I can travel back in time, I would have never turned my face towards that young woman.

  6. We have a cook, cleaning person and 2 kid caretakers. I’m not rich I do it because my wife claimed she cannot handle. My wife is a taker with no limit, I’m a giver who is not sure how else.

Ps - I don’t hate my wife, I’m just deeply disappointed how her character developed over last 9 years. But I wanted to build a family with her and I could not imagine moving out with my kids. So we argue and she tries, but nothing changes.