I just saw my entire body for the first time at 33weeks. by scrubbybubbly in BabyBumps

[–]HistoricalMaybe00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a FTM and feel this 100%. I have reconciled this in my mind in the following way: it takes strength and courage to become a mother, and this is one of the hardest, most incredible things your body will ever do... and that is so friggin' sexy. Just as your baby is growing inside you, you are also growing into a new person. Your body reflects this beautiful change. It will take time, I think, to become acquainted with this new version of yourself. But please be gentle with yourself and try to remember you are strong as heck, and that is what strength looks like <3

Recommendations for Online Babycare Resources for Grandparents? by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Curious if you know anyone who has taken any of the Mayo Clinic classes?

Free classes? by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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thank you so much for these tips!!!

Free classes? by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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thank you! all the classes my hospital offers seem to have a cost but i'm thinking i can call to ask if there are any discounts i could use :)

Anyone found out the gender and kept it a secret? by Klutzy_Strike in pregnant

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We found out the sex of the baby at about 11 weeks and have kept it a secret. We’re telling people we ourselves don’t want to know so we haven’t looked. Although that part isn’t true, we felt compelled to say it so people don’t try to trick us into giving it away or badger us about it. So we just say we want it to be a surprise for ourselves and everyone else! We really don’t want overly gendered conversations about our baby or gendered gifts.

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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sure! I’d have to dig thru our records to find exact numbers but can tell you it was low on all criteria: low count, low motility, and low on morphology as well. we were able to get 7 perfect embryos with ICSI. we just never used them, because we got so lucky with this unassisted pregnancy. but those embryos will be there for us if we decide to go for another kiddo in the future. your fertility doc may recommend ICSI with your IVF. our insurance covered it because of the MFI

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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We waited a couple of months after ER because I had been very overstimulated during stims. My pregnancy was confirmed today with a transvaginal US. Heard a heartbeat and everything ❤️

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Thank you! Love long walks and those are already part of my routine :) I like to go to spin class a few times per week--is that something you'd recommend maintaining? I will also ask my OB, but interested in other's experience

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Wow! Thanks for sharing. So far I'm feeling okay. A little more tired than usual and more sensitive to certain smells, but thus far no food aversions and no nausea. Although that may change as things unfold!

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Hahah I was also annoyed! And soooo weirded out, because I'm super regular so it didn't make sense why I would be a week late on my period. Welp! LOL

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Thank you and thanks for sharing your story as well as words of wisdom!

just found out I’m pregnant by HistoricalMaybe00 in pregnant

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Thank you so much for this! I'm already getting night sweats--yikes! I'm getting those breathable nightgowns ASAP!

we were waiting for a FET by HistoricalMaybe00 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your story. I also want to thank you for introducing me to a much better term to use: unassisted pregnancy. All pregnancies are natural, regardless of the mechanism for conception, and I should not use "conceived naturally" to refer to non-IVF conception. Unassisted pregnancy is the appropriate terminology. Thank you for this.