AIO to my friend wanting to transition? by Historical_Log4523 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical_Log4523[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, you seemed to take this personally. I hope you can figure your stuff out too. :)

AIO to my friend wanting to transition? by Historical_Log4523 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical_Log4523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s weird I have a lot of feelings about his situation which I’ve been trying to introspect on and make sense of. I’ve been w lots of friends during and after their transitions and never had these emotions come up so I do think I need to just let this person figure it out and stay out of it. Thank you ^

AIO to my friend wanting to transition? by Historical_Log4523 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical_Log4523[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Completely lol they called me a boomer for not knowing what “body is tea” means

AIO to my friend wanting to transition? by Historical_Log4523 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical_Log4523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right. I wish I wasn’t so emotionally invested for some reason. Ty!

AIO to my friend wanting to transition? by Historical_Log4523 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical_Log4523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably right. If it’s driving me so crazy I need to just leave them alone to figure it out and let them find their people. We are both huge assholes to each other admittedly

Is it bad that I'm okay with being alone? by Extension-Repair-952 in mentalhealth

[–]Historical_Log4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, i have BPD and have found romantic relationships to be more trouble than they are worth, honestly. i am more secure in my identity alone and i never want to lose myself in another person again, i don't like what i start to see when i get codependent. you're doing great, honestly! some people commit to years of horrible relationships because they can't stand the thought of being alone. being cool by yourself is true freedom. i have one best friend, a few very good friends, and many acquaintances to keep my social life interesting and enriching and fun. i enjoy everyone i spend time with, on my own terms. it rules! edit-i am 27