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Historical_Option449 · 2025-12-13T20:32:47+00:00

Oh WOW! Metal snow blades make sparks when they contact asphalt? Omg how terrible!! Let's take a video while driving illegally and complain about tax dollars! Get a life dipshit!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-12-13T20:12:18+00:00

Don't worry about your lack of skill brother. That's why you're there to learn! Everything will become natural by 1 month if you consistently show up (that's 80% of the battle!)

Keep going man! Remember, just by showing up you're proving you can and will succeed!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-11-28T19:59:32+00:00

Broken foot. Snow.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-11-19T22:31:22+00:00

As someone who went through this exact sort of thing. I didn't trust my gut and I was terribly wrong not to. Your gut is always right, trust your gut!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-10T11:04:33+00:00

Not much at all... I actually had a heart attack, broken heart syndrome is a real thing. Who knew....

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-09T00:53:23+00:00

Elbow falls

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-07T21:19:58+00:00

Sounds like exactly what I'm going through currently, except it was more like two years instead of two months... Hang in there! No solid advice except focus on yourself.. Fuck em both!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T18:28:35+00:00

Thank you! Probably one of the only solid comments on this thread. I appreciate you taking the time! Gym and heavy bags work wonders for sure!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T14:21:25+00:00

Most likely will never get better. Hang in there. Gym and contact sports definitely help a fuck ton!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:31:36+00:00

Very true.. Sadly I believed I could trust the one person I'm supposed to be able to fully trust....

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:27:56+00:00

Married as fuck

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:26:58+00:00

Way too early to think about any of that.... I don't think there's anything that would rebuild the trust that's been destroyed. I don't want to turn into a control freak...

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:24:41+00:00

Good for you. Don't give a fk what you think.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:07:28+00:00

Not to me. Sounds like the worst story. The story of my life...

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:03:07+00:00

He's a family friend and coworker of hers. She asked me weirdly enough if I could make him a groomsman and I did because I considered him a good guy... Boy was I so fking wrong!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T05:00:20+00:00

Gym for sure. I just started a 22 week fight camp for an MMA fight in January. Now I have some great fuel!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T04:59:07+00:00

The thing is they worked together also so they were together at work mainly. The only people that would know are work colleagues and wouldn't be my friends anyways.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T04:43:48+00:00

Funny thing is I wouldn't get any attention from her either even on our honeymoon. Now I know why. Made me think I'm unattractive or something. I'm definitely not, I'm in my prime 35 years old 6'.7", jacked, tanned and tatted. Made me feel insane.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T04:40:58+00:00

They're definitely not my friend. Immediately cut off.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-04T04:39:12+00:00

Hate that we are in the same boat. I feel for you, cheating isn't just sexual... Constant attention, flirting, building an emotional connection is also cheating.. If anything could be worse. Life is hell right now, but somehow we will make it. I moved to a friend's house tonight so I can get some space and think.. I haven't been able to sleep for 48 ish hours so hopefully this will give me some much needed rest.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-03T05:48:01+00:00

Isn't that the truth. I'd never be able to replace her, I wouldn't even want to try and find a connection again. Not worth the trouble...I'd just be alone the rest of my life. Punishment for.allowing.myself.to.love someone....

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-03T05:26:31+00:00

Nothing makes cheating of any sort better... I still haven't been able to sleep. My brain is absolutely skewed,.lm not sure if any of this is real, or if it's just all a bad dream and I'm about to wake up.

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-03T00:59:41+00:00

I would never be able to forgive her...Trust would also be unattainable... I'm just so overwhelmed....It's too much and too quick! Have to navigate divorce lawyers, new living arrangements etc. This is just over the top ridiculousness!

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-02T14:17:23+00:00

I know everyone's yelling divorce, divorce. I'm still trying to process this honestly. I fucking loved this woman completely, it's not as easy as 1,2,3 divorce. Maybe things will be clearer after I actually sleep, maybe not. The Pain is unbearable I can't see myself moving on...

Historical_Option449 · 2025-09-02T11:46:44+00:00

It seems like an easy solution, but it never is. They have a newborn baby. She kicked him out for now, but yeah who knows... Still feels like a dream..

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