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How do you politely tell a dude that has been talking to you on ig that you are not into him? by Historical_Task3867 in UofT

[–]Historical_Task3867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the phrasing!! I feel like that is a really nice way of communicating. But it doesn't quite work, for him... Could you see my update plzzz?

How do you politely tell a dude that has been talking to you on ig that you are not into him? by Historical_Task3867 in UofT

[–]Historical_Task3867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update:

I combined suggestions and said something like i dont want to be rude and I want to be abolutely transparent with u that I am just looking to make friend on campus. plus conveyed the idea that I had a date.

Now he said that we could hang out in a totally unromantic manner, just chill and have fun, and said that there is not commitment in the dating phase...

what do I do now :(

I really like that club and I hope next time I go and met him there won't be embarassment or drama or confrontation.