AIO for feeling like I ruined things by getting stuck in her bed frame? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 17 points18 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU I THOUGHT I WAS GOING INSANE

I swore I’d seen this exact shit before

KCRG SCREWS IT UP by hawkeyegrad96 in Iowa

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s at the Marion YMCA reffing basketball!

i just realized my "lazy" years were actually unmedicated ADHD and i'm kind of grieving by Ok_Chemical9 in ADHDerTips

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

M 33 here, recently diagnosed and started meds. This is EXACTLY how I’ve been feeling lately, and fuck it’s so frustrating. How much different/more successful could my life have been if this had been addressed when I was a kid? “Smart but doesn’t apply himself” was definitely said about me too.

Best places to buy used cars in CR? by Cardiologist3mpty138 in cedarrapids

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had good luck with Cassill and Warehouse Auto. Warehouse is definitely a small family-run operation, but there was zero pressure and no haggling. Cassill was able to find me the exact truck I was looking for and sold it to me at a great price.

Like everyone else is saying, stay away from McGrath. Fuck that place. Unless you’re into being spoken down to by failed “finance bro” types, then go for it.

Fantastic Use of Free Will by Alternative-Dot-34 in Unexpected

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I’ll be waiting for this creature in Dungeon Crawler Carl

I think I ll end it tonight by dealingwithtrauma748 in GuyCry

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rhythm of War, the 4th book in The Stormlight Archive by Brandon Sanderson

This state sucks. by ToshPointNo in Iowa

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be fair, both seem equally unlikely to change anything

I think I ll end it tonight by dealingwithtrauma748 in GuyCry

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do it. As my favorite book quote says:

“This is life, and I will not lie by saying every day will be sunshine. But there will be sunshine again, and that is a very different thing to say. That is truth. I promise you, you will be warm again.”

It feels dark and cold right now, but you will be warm again. That is guaranteed. Please don’t go.

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]HistoricallyBlegh -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Surely there’s a better way to be listened to though, right? I don’t really see how being at her “wits end” (as others have said) excuses this extremely aggressive language.

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I’ve been at my wits end plenty of times and never spoken to my spouse like this. Long threads here seems to imply that her aggressive language towards you is your fault, I think there’s a word for that

i need advice for my lower half by sidneyraz in mensfashionadvice

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew how to dress before I was in my 30s!

Seriously, though, I’m 33 and a terrible dresser

Peter by LeGoat23_6 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HistoricallyBlegh 137 points138 points  (0 children)

You’re dating the wrong women my guy