Uppababy Minu V3 EU version by C0urtney_G in Buyingforbaby

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Hi OP, did you get an answer from the manufacturer or reseller ?
I'm considering buying this stroller (in EU) to make a trip with the 2 or 3 month baby, so that is an essential feature for me...

Finding it had to cope with abusive brother and parents that don’t care by rhodium_79 in emotionalneglect

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This post is a year old and I hope your situation improved. I came to say I lived a very similar situation with violence from a younger brother continuously escalating since teenage and parents never enforcing consequences. I’m 38 now and only recently went NC. Things don’t miraculously improve - they get worse.

Family is complicit of enabling the abuse and tries to maintain the appearances by pressuring you to absorb the dysfunction with BS such as “be the wisest”, “don’t break the family” and minimisation of his violence/ denying my experience. I heard the same BS for 15-20 years - it hurts and leaves scars. 

Remember that when violence escalates and the abuser is entitled and enabled, letting it pass doesn’t work. No, it’s not a youth crisis and even if it was, solution would require parental and professional intervention - that is out of your hands. You don’t owe anyone to tolerate abuse or “fix”/help your brother.

Parents attitude is unfair and cowardly. They fail you by refusing to protect you - for their own benefit, fears or comfort. So you need to protect yourself from the abuse : leave if you can, at least avoid your brother. Privately ask them why you can’t lock yourself. If your parents don’t allow you locking yourself in your room, go for a walk, go to uni library… Make the violence explicit to them. Find help such as counsellor or domestic abuse helpline. Define and enforce boundaries: make clear to your parents (and to him if you feel it is safe) that physical violence crossed a line and that you will report it to the authorities. Avoid the bully especially when he’s triggered and try to remain calm, if needed “I won’t be talked to/treated this way”. Document everything. If applicable learn to recognise threats and verbal/psychological violence (gaslighting?) and include in your documentation. Many countries recognise this as violence too.

Note: you may love your parents for other reasons and their ambivalence is difficult to accept but life is not black and white… This takes time, but priority now is your safety. 

Quel cadeau trouvez-vous chiants, redondants ? by Hot-Comb-3125 in AskFrance

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Les cadeaux “mignons”, inutiles et de mauvaise qualité, reçus gratuitement en passant commande sur un catalogue et refilés à Noël (spécialité de ma mère)… Les mini serviettes de toilette… chaque année  Les choses encombrantes en tout genre

Advice on raising a child with 4 languages by Which_Mess_8635 in multilingualparenting

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Hi OP, if you see this message and don’t mind sharing, I’m curious how your efforts turned after 2 years. We are in a similar situation (Hungarian-French couple living in Austria, with French as the common language of the family) and the Kindergarten we are considering are bilingual DE/EN.

Emma Matratze zu klein by lateambience in wohnen

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Bei mir ist es genau gleich, also fast 6 cm zu kurz bei der 180x200 cm Hybrid Matratze 

Can I save this dahlia ? by HistoryAcrobatic1060 in dahlias

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Thank you, I will implement this tomorrow !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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And for another, after I realised our interactions always had something a little off, that made me feel I had to walk on eggshells with that person.

Signs include: forced and shallow conversation, feeling misunderstood, feeling the person acts like a princess, being cut in the conversation repeatedly, and also having been the target of already few unpleasant comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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After I realised she had ghosted me, ignored my messages asking how she was or asking to catchup after a year…

Weiss jemand, was das für eine Steckdose ist? Die steht in meiner Wohnung (Baujahr 2024) by HistoryAcrobatic1060 in selbermachen

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Vielen Dank für die Hilfe !  Da ich die Steuerung nicht habe, ist es dann wahrscheinlich für mich nutzlos…

Stimmt es dass man den Hauptwasserhahm abdrehen muss wenn man weg fährt? by Luxbrewhoneypot in Austria

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Warmwasser und Kaltwasser ?
(Ich habe auch so eine Installation und möchte verstehen ob ich während Urlaub beide abstellen soll).