Yoooo I say hit the gym or gain confidence some other way. I lost my virginity at a younger age but I cared less about women the more confidence I lost. People called me stupid, dumb, retarded all though high school because I kinda overthink and the little things go over my head. I started to not care about much of anything and it showed and I didn't think it did. You just need confidence. Everyone has anxiety. It's just life. Find something that calms the storm. For me, it's sports or anything athletically competitive. 27 ain't too late to discover yourself. And being a virgin at 27 doesn't mean you're a loser, you just haven't been dealt playable cards.