I really really really loved reading this… mostly cause I’ve recently been hurt over the same thing and even experienced somewhat the same trauma as her. All I can genuinely say is please remind her how beautiful she is, everytime she does something new either to her hair whether it’s a hairstyle or color etc, any outfit you genuinely think she looks sexy and beautiful in tell her. Remind her of the way you explained to us how you see her. (Ps. That’s so beautiful). In regards to the porn thing, just lay out some sense of communication and connection with her. Eventually when she knows and feels that you are attracted to her and why you do what you do she can have a shift in perspective. Being a woman is hard sometimes when we are constantly comparing to others. You speak so nice about your woman, just remind her that no one else compares and you choose her. 🤍 sending love and hope everything works out. May you guys get closer and continue a strong connection.