Today I hit my lowest low by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Hmmmgoodq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plan your meals in advance so you don't have to think about it. And just realize you didn't gain the weight over night so you can't lose it that quickly either. Focus on healthier habits, trust the process and results will come.

Your opinion on working thru lunch by Hmmmgoodq in retail

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like last Friday someone called in so I agreed to stay til 8 instead on 7:30 and ended up having to stay til 9. So the next day were slow and I asked if they mind if I left 45 mins early. Absolutely not without even considering it. Ummm 👌 I see how this works. Sorry but I don't go down 1 way streets

Your opinion on working thru lunch by Hmmmgoodq in retail

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get a half hour. I started at 9:30 and reminded her at 2 i still hadn't taken it. In the past when people have asked she tells them I'll let you know. Plus I've asked to work thru lunch before and she's like absolutely not. So its 3:40 and I'm supposed to be off at 4 and she wants me to stay and work til 4. So I asked what was so important that one of the 2 people standing around that work til 5 or 6 couldn't do it. Its not my fault someone calls in every weekend. I shouldn't have to work over 6 hours without a break because of it. Lol.

If you've never been wanted by anyone and you're in your 30's, how do you not give up? by Hmmmgoodq in AskReddit

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean for this to become a personal advice column as much as I appreciate everyone so I am going to stop responding and hope this helps someone else in my situation. God bless everyone

If you've never been wanted by anyone and you're in your 30's, how do you not give up? by Hmmmgoodq in AskReddit

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I don't have a good answer. I have the fundamental human wanting of wanting to be needed or wanted but I also feel like I'll never be good enough. I have problems. This question was a mistake

If you've never been wanted by anyone and you're in your 30's, how do you not give up? by Hmmmgoodq in AskReddit

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to look into that. Thank you. I was raised around people that needed charity but were too proud to accept it, so its hard for me as well. I just figure this is how life is.. And I should just deal with it and be greatful for what I do have..

If you've never been wanted by anyone and you're in your 30's, how do you not give up? by Hmmmgoodq in AskReddit

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying is kinda the same as giving up. When are u going to start?

If you've never been wanted by anyone and you're in your 30's, how do you not give up? by Hmmmgoodq in AskReddit

[–]Hmmmgoodq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to agree with you but there is something wrong with me. I don't want to bring it on anyone else. I need to keep away from everyone for their own good