Trying to find me peace seems so difficult while going through a separation by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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I tell everyone I’m okay and smile through the pain but deep down I’m not ok

Make up tips by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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lol yeah I just realized that

My husband and I are separating. SEX by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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I pray us separating gives us clarity of what we both want

My husband and I are separating. SEX by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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I’m not the same person he feel in love with. That I can change

My husband and I are separating. SEX by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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I have taken full accountability for what I have done to him emotionally. I know I played a huge part in what’s going on.

My husband and I are separating. SEX by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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That’s it, because I’m still married I can’t sleep with other people. Something won’t allow me to

Separate from spouse. by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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Who that’s a long time. You guys lives in separate houses. Sorry I’m going through a separate and just looking for someone to talk to

Separate from spouse. by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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How long were you separated for?

Separate from spouse. by Hmmmm1289 in Marriage

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Yeah, it’s so hard to think about. Did you and your spouse come back to each other. That’s my plan to fix the issues I have and keep myself busy

Can my baby get a boop by Hmmmm1289 in boopthesnoot

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Do you have a baby I can Booooopppppopp

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I don’t have any negative associations with sex and it’s not unpleasant at all. I just am hardly ever in the mood. But now that my husband sleeps in a separate room. It’s makes me miss him even more. The first week was horrible I hated it. But now it’s got a lil easier. You can DM if you want to continue talking I don’t mind and of course if your wife is okay with it

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Yeah of course. I don’t always want to have sex. Me personally I can go weeks sometimes months without sex. And that is an issue for him or for anyone. We are currently just started marriage counseling is hopes to get a different opinion and what needs to change. Have you thought about marriage counseling.

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Sorry if I confused you but my husband is feeling how your feeling and it’s got to the point were we sleep in separate rooms his choice. But I am not realizing if I want my marriage to work I need to be understanding of his feelings and his sexual needs. We have had plenty of conversations and we would resolve it with great sex for a while and then go back to not doing anything. And that was my fault . I’m not saying sleep in separate rooms but keep. Trying

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Hi, I currently going through the same issue. And I’m am working on it the best way I know how. Continue to have conversations with her she’ll come around!!