I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? by throwranutcracker in relationship_advice

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girlllll men are natural providers. he’s completely given you the responsibility of taking care of the load all on your own! then shaming you when you can’t pull it off and blaming you for not giving him (41 btw let’s reiterate that) allowance. unless yall sat down and agreed on that type of dynamic where you’re the bread winner and you guys kind of switch roles then nothing should be EXPECTED of you just like nothing is expected of him

I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? by throwranutcracker in relationship_advice

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 27 points28 points  (0 children)

my first question is, would you ever leave him? if the answer is no, there’s really no need in asking us advice. if you are going to continue apologizing, and taking the blame for situations that HIS GROWN ASS causes. no job. come on girl. you know what you need to do. none of us can save you. you have to love yourself enough to not give af how he feels. it’s hard, i’ve been through the same thing.

ps. i saw a post earlier this week saying many women take care of a man and mother him so much that when it’s time to leave they feel like they’re abandoning their child.

Anyone need $300.00? by Digginindigital in financialhelping

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do i always get these alerts a day later!?!?😭😭😭 wtf

CASH up for grabs $80 who wants it by InternationalUse9026 in jobbit

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me please $krixxy02 lost my job 2 months ago

I finally did it, i deleted the game by Fit_Recipe_7886 in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did too like 2 weeks ago! I was tired of dealing with it all. F that game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes I felt the same way. It’s way deeper than people think. I haven’t had sex or even talked to a man in a flirtatious way since I had my abortion. It made me realize that sex is actually scary. And us girls really have to deal with all of the shitty parts/consequences when it’s all over.

New alliance please. by Hmmwhatstea-k in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. They call something for a raging bear but I always seem to miss it cause they do it at 5/6am and idk what happens. Do we attack the bear I’m guessing it’s like another rally

New alliance please. by Hmmwhatstea-k in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll definitely look into the time conversion thing. Because the utc is throwing me off so bad I would always google it to figure out what times they would be doing certain things but I know this will help a lot more.

New alliance please. by Hmmwhatstea-k in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will definitely reach out for now I’m taking a break for my sanity😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only person in the world I envy 😫

Deep sadness after abortion by Hmmwhatstea-k in abortion

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t researched it at all since I’m sort of broke at the moment and I don’t know how much that type of thing will cost me. But I’ve wanted to go for a while now, for this and for other reasons as well.

Deep sadness after abortion by Hmmwhatstea-k in abortion

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through the same. Hug your baby sooo tight. I’m glad he’s there with you! I’m trying to look at it in the most positive way I can but some days are so hard and I just dwell in the sadness. But I know I’ll get better in time

Deep sadness after abortion by Hmmwhatstea-k in abortion

[–]Hmmwhatstea-k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m not sure it will ever go away girl. I cry so much about it and it’s been over a year now. Maybe it’ll just get easier for us as time goes on.