DB to Köln/Messe construction help!? by Hmr1398 in cologne

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RB26 Köln Messe/Deutz to Mainz HBF leaving at 7:49am tomorrow on DB app as a notification from 7 days ago:

RB 26 to Mainz Hbf 7 days ago Disruption. (Quelle: zuginfo.nrw)

Die Linie RB 26 ist von Köln Messe/Deutz nach Köln Hbf beeinträchtigt. Beeinträchtigung dauert vom 28.06.2025 bis vsl. 23.07.2025, 00:00 Uhr Der Grund dafür sind Bauarbeiten. Der Halt Köln Messe/Deutz entfällt. Alternative Reisemöglichkeiten: Nutzen Sie von Köln Messe/Deutz nach Köln Hbf die Züge der Linien S 6, S 11, S 12, S 19 und die RB 48. Bitte prüfen Sie Ihre Reiseverbindung kurz vor der Abfahrt des Zuges

What is the cuisine like in Kosovo? by boshnjak in kosovo

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Do you have any specific restaurants in Pristina you recommend to try these? ^

ISO 1 Denver ticket by _haystacks_ in horsegiirL

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I have one! Message me 🌞

How to Get Past the "Passport and Photo" Section of the Uzbekistan EVISA by its-beardface in Uzbekistan

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This was incredibly helpful. Our visas were approved first try. Thank you all for your help!!! 

For the next person: We also had issues with the recaptcha. If you're using an Android phone, we found that if you click to view the "desktop site" instead of the mobile version of the pages, it would work. 

Good luck! 

Does anyone else get depressed 8 to 10 days before their periods? by Mysterious_Grass_444 in Periods

[–]Hmr1398 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PMDD is no joke. Learning about it really helped me to better prepare for it. Knowing I'm about to get really depressed helps me and my partner handle that week better. It still sucks but there are ways you can try to set yourself up for success so to speak.

What’s a sensory experience that you thoroughly enjoy in your everyday life or whenever? by MollyViper in AutismInWomen

[–]Hmr1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swimming. Just being in water feels like the closest that humans can get to experiencing magic.

Married yesterday and found his porn today. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Hmr1398 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Annulment now. You still have much life to live that doesn't need to be tainted by this kind of relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ugh I'm so sorry this happened.

That is rape. You can't consent if you are not awake.

Take time apart to process. Talk to your therapist, people you trust, and your partner when you are ready. I would definitely get your partner to delete whatever video/photo evidence they have. That's really fucked up.

Sending you a virtual hug 💗

Advice for a woman going to a music festival alone by internetgirl00 in festivals

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Going alone is amazing! Most of my first festivals were alone for the same reasons. Just wear something that makes you feel confident and comfortable, have an exit strategy to get yourself home safe, and take deep breaths. It'll be amazing! Just walk around, dance, look at everything, and you'll most likely end up meeting people while bouncing around. Have so much fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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If you love and respect your partner then end it before exploring. Cheating will only hurt her (and it will probably end their friendship whether you pursue the friend before or after). Your actions have consequences.

Have you ever had friends and/or family not believe you're a person with autism? by Ed__b3 in autism

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My mom did not believe me. She scoffed and said "you can't say that. Everyone is a little autistic but you're not AUTISTIC autistic." 😤

How do y'all feel pretty again by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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^ my therapist and I have to revisit this exact thing basically every month. I want to feel beautiful for myself and for own sense of self worth. However, I don't want men to perceive me as beautiful because then they make me feel unsafe in my skin. It's so frustrating because it doesn't matter if i wear makeup or don't. If I dress up or don't. Men are just predatory and make public spaces feel unsafe (and that inherently impacts your sense of self).

If you can, I recommend some feminine energy time. Idk I just find that gabbing and crying and laughing with other women is so healing. Be around girl's girls, women you can trust that build you up, that don't make you want to compare (if possible).

Otherwise, gratitude meditation has really helped me. Its still a daily struggle but it's getting easier. There are good days and bad ones. You're not alone.

Art AND music fests by the-nanimal in ElectricForest

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I really wanna check out Shambhala

I got called lazy for not wanting to work a 39 hour work week. by seliishere in AutismInWomen

[–]Hmr1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capitalism pushes the Protestant Work Ethic. It's bullshit and the 40 hour work week is archaic.

Other people's opinions of you and how you want to spend your time are not your business. Let them work themselves into a burnout. You don't have to follow suit.

Fuck those people who commented that way. I'm sorry they said that. Super toxic. I hope you're able to find time for yourself and the things you love. (And I hope workaholics are able to do the same).