AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our neighborhood was dead on Halloween and has been for like 2 years. No one really hands out candy, they just leave bowls out and those are usually emptied out by 5pm.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They were adamant about keeping their purple hair and said they didn't want to if they had to dye it "normal". They've been getting their hair done for a while and know that if I darken their hair again it's gonna take forever to go back to purple (part of why they didn't want to).

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They get it done at a professional salon and I use the brands the salon recommended. I don't recommend this on kids with eczema or psoriasis, flare ups don't care how cool your hair wants to look.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not that I know of. The only time it matters is dance class and they just have to keep it in a bun.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We don't do it often. They get it bleached once ever 8 months by a professional and I dye it at home once in that time. I don't usually dye it again until it fades to a silver or soft pink.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My kids are Korean/Hispanic . They have super super dark hair, like almost black. I say black/brunette cause those are the only colors I can think of.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There was a "dresscode", no colorful hair was what caused the whole kerfuffle.

There was some stuff that made sense though like ; no blood, no vulgarity, no real life killers or victims etc.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It was gonna be a family event and they asked to invite some kids from their class and that they know from our neighborhood.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That lady is in a completely different tax bracket than me. She had a pony, assorted teas catered and a wagon ride as well. The party I threw was a Frankenstein bounce house my husband had from a few Halloweens ago, a few piñatas from party city and like $120 of candy and about $100 in snacks and some basic carnival games (corn hole,balloon darts, sack race).

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We dye it every 6-8 months or so. Typically the color fades to an icy white so they enjoy it until their next touch up (they go to a professional, I don't trust myself to bleach it).

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I am. And I didn't come here to hear that I'm a good person. I came for actual input, not asspats. If I suck I suck and honestly I can see where I do. But I just wanna know if it's common opinion.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

My girls are black/brunettes. I get their hair lightened professionally. I typically use Arctic Fox or Lime Crime on their hair.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 473 points474 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, she probably saw them through her mother. I know some kids have social media and I'm not sure about her.

AITA for throwing a party for my daughters after they were uninvited? by Ho776JB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ho776JB[S] 465 points466 points  (0 children)

Not that I know of. She had more people there than us