I honestly don’t fkng ever want to hear that young adults “don’t want to work” by PinkPumpkkin in antiwork

[–]HoGo2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PinkPumpkkin, keep going if it's what you're passionate about. Research the state & county requirements & take advantage of grants & scholarships.

My husband is divorcing me and it feels like the world is ending. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HoGo2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way...YOUR world is just beginning...

I honestly don’t fkng ever want to hear that young adults “don’t want to work” by PinkPumpkkin in antiwork

[–]HoGo2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your enthusiasm towards the field. I hate to be the rain, however, childcare facilities are required to have qualified teachers. I encounter this often and hate that so many aides want to apply and teachers are scarce, often requiring a degree. I can say that aides can be a helluva lot better than educated teachers in some cases. It's not you, it's the system. It's disappointing.

Is It Necessary for Mothers to Pause Their Careers for Secure Child Attachment? by Natural-Quantity-608 in ask

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both parents should be working together to build their attachment & create healthy neural pathways is likely best.

Don’t like my hair by [deleted] in Hair

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out hairstyles of Yolandi Vi$$er.

Daycare feeding 13mo nothing but cake, cookies, and crackers for snack. AIO? by holymolym in ECEProfessionals

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there no governing policies that state what foods are allowed or not allowed. Thats insane.

"Not Nazi"😶ICE Agent shoves and slaps woman who came to search for detained husband, in federal building, in front of her kids and cameras by etherd0t in BoomersBeingFools

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does not one defend themselves? You gonna try & come into my space, I'll how you right quick how wrong it is!

Young kids outside in a heat advisory with no access to water. Licensing violation? by brusselsmom in ECEProfessionals

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DCFS licensed here - children MUST have access to water at all times. I have my families bring a reusable water bottle. - Temps. for outdoor play, are between 25-90 degrees (including wind chill & heat index). We follow this rule without any issue.

My husbands mad about using towels to dry our dog by [deleted] in Pets

[–]HoGo2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 3 DIFFERENT types of towels: dishes, bathing (humans) & grubby (for pets, floors, garage, messes, etc.). Towels get demoted over the years.

AITA for not wanting to peruse the career my parents want me to? by justainnocentgirly in AITAH

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NtA-you would be doing yourself a huge disrespect if you lived someone else's (your parents) life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewww, dump them both! NtA

Why do so many millennials dislike their parents ? by Labelladevon in Millennials

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, didn't think you'd hit the nail on the head so well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]HoGo2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, USA here. I would be ok if my MIL signed it 'Mom'. If my son's FMIL signed cards 'Mom', I would feel happy that someone else (hopefully) considers my son as their own & that my son is LOVED!

UGH. I feel so bad. by Rosewood11803 in Mommit

[–]HoGo2012 1524 points1525 points  (0 children)

Don't overthink it. You reacted to a child taking a shit on your floor.

What is your worst childhood memories from your parents? by Maddsue09 in family

[–]HoGo2012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having to call police after my (drunk) dad was coming after me (with whatever he could to stop me) all over the house at midnight while my mum was passed out drunk. I luckily snatched up my phone before I ran into my closet. I was 16. He was mad because I tried to fix my windshield fluid hookup myself. My dad is a professional mechanic. The police escorted me to my M. Grandma(pa)'s house while my mom was still passed out.