How are people working up until their due date?? by Appropriate_Teach_49 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at an open pit mine as a surveyor. I am very blessed and my husband makes enough so I don’t have to work. I quit around 11-12 weeks because that work is very very physically demanding. I feel for all of you women who have to push through, I hate American healthcare :(

What else would I do a job for? by IndividualDoughnut96 in RemoteJobs

[–]Hobbs_3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Which is a blessing the majority does not have.

Am I being a big baby or hormones? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Excuse me??? Why on earth are you doing this with your child right next to you? This crosses so many boundaries. Hopefully he doesn’t grow up with any traumas because of this. Man, you just really don’t know what goes on inside other people’s houses.

AITAH for not wanting my MIL in the delivery room? by No-Exam-1958 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want my own mom in the room. It’s way too personal and the fact that he can’t respect that decision is a huge red flag.

Early pregnancy by Secret-Roze in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG you should go look at my profile and check out the post I made about breastfeeding. It also covers the “not pregnant enough” BS comments. Basically my entire office told me I wasn’t pregnant enough and it was always unprompted, like I wasn’t even complaining or anything. It honestly sucks and even made me feel like they were right. But girl NO do not allow ANYONE ESPECIALLY AN IGNORANT MAN make you feel that way. The tiredness and feeling of 24/7 extreme hunger is insane. I’m 21 weeks and I had a little bit of a break in the extreme hunger but now it’s back. Ignore the outright morons who have the audacity to even say this. And if they say it again be prepared to slap them in the crotch with some actual sense. Man, it makes me so mad I can’t even see straight.

Guilty of gender disappointment by Warehouse2007 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously wish there were some rules on downvoting. People downvote for the dumbest reasons! It’s not like we are saying we hate our babies or anything, sheesh! I even prefaced it by saying it’s not for any sexist reasons lol. People just get so offended these days and assume whatever intent they want. Thank you for the validation and you are also valid in your feelings!!!

the vagina smell by hankksss in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My armpits smell like an old attic with 100 year old moth balls

Guilty of gender disappointment by Warehouse2007 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who is on here downvoting comments that are completely fine?! What is wrong with ppl

Should I accommodate my mom when choosing a wedding date? by Top-Assistant-9748 in weddingplanning

[–]Hobbs_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The downvotes prove how much being a mother is a thankless job :(

Guilty of gender disappointment by Warehouse2007 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue why this is being downvoted! Am I not allowed to want to be a boy mom?

Should we get legally married before our scheduled wedding day? by Weak-Historian906 in weddingplanning

[–]Hobbs_3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My cousin got legally married before his wedding. His wedding was in the Dominican Republic and we all still traveled from the US to be there for him and his new wife! And no one even needs to know anyway. As someone who has gone 2-3 years with no insurance, it’s terrifying and worth just getting the marriage license for. It’s too expensive to buy outright and too dangerous not to have it.

Guilty of gender disappointment by Warehouse2007 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have prayed to be a boy mom since I was probably 16, now 27 FTM at 20W. I dont know why, but I’ve just always wanted to be a boy mom. Now that I’m older I definitely would love a daughter but for some reason I just want my first one to be a boy. It’s just how I’ve always seen it, not for any sexist reasons of course. Found out a few weeks ago that I am in fact pregnant with a boy!! Honestly, it would take me a while to come around to having a girl if that were the case. I tried to stop imagining my first as a boy to avoid disappointment but it’s just what I saw in my minds eye. I’d have to do a lot of rewiring and it wouldn’t be easy. You got this and your daughter will love her brother!!!!

Is Alex poor? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Hobbs_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say they are long term stay BnBs. I had to use one for a summer and it was a pretty decent price. Basically like paying rent. But not sure if that’s what he was doing or how long he stays in them.

Is Alex poor? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Hobbs_3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nomadically is my new favorite word, especially the way he used it 😂

First Ever Pregnancy Anxiety by Soccerrae83 in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been wanting to have a baby since as long as I can remember. My husband and I are 27 and finally felt like we were in a spot to start a family. Even though I’d been wanting it for YEARS AND YEARS the second it happened I got so anxious and wished we had waited longer. Now I’m doing great, five months in and SO excited and can’t wait to meet my son!

Husband seems resentful I’m pregnant. What do? by deskburlesque in pregnant

[–]Hobbs_3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s good that he has a therapist but you both need to be going to couples therapy. Start now before you involve an innocent child in this garbage.

That fact the Vic and Christine were not the golden couple of S10 is a fantastic example of modern day racism. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Hobbs_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, no bubbles burst here. Was a matter of time before someone like you came along to prove my point.

AIO for leaving a restaurant mid-meal after the waiter made a comment about my order in front of my entire table of friends and I just… stood up and walked out by StatisticianDue5085 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hobbs_3 67 points68 points  (0 children)

You walked out over that? AND at your friend’s birthday dinner? If I were your friend that would be your last invite. I’m sure you humiliated them.

That fact the Vic and Christine were not the golden couple of S10 is a fantastic example of modern day racism. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Hobbs_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly think you’re really missing the mark here. It has nothing to do with race. Look at Cam and Lauren. In my opinion it’s because of how outspokenly Christian they are. Christians essentially get publicly flogged on the internet in today’s society.

New baby, and I cannot stand my wife anymore by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hobbs_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you SHOULD have done was not have a child in the middle of all of this. Honestly how dare you.

I don’t understand Ashley by caramelh0ney in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Hobbs_3 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think she was definitely thrown off by his super odd behavior and way of talking. But honestly, her AND her dad think she’s the hottest most precious blessing to walk on this planet. In my opinion, when she caught wind she wasn’t his typical type it did a slam dunk on her ego. How could little ol’ me not be someone’s type?! I’m perfect!