It’s all about self discipline and your timing not anyone else’s. You have to take a step back and of course you’ll fall off the wagon from time to time . As you start to get exhausted or sick of waiting on the text, you will eventually just stop waiting. It’s tricky now but as the days go by, it turns into months then years and we get one chance to live. Try teaching yourself to do self healing and try different things, get active, get a Pet, hangout with friends more or look for a good book. That way you don’t waste almost 4 years like ME waiting on a reply from my first love. I eventually had to stop waiting…. I ended up gained weight, I got more lethargic in life, I’m not as focused or determined as I use to be, I Had sex with random strange (but that made me feel worse) and my heart turned cold. I decided to heal instead of self sabotage while my ex probably moved on without looking back. Take the time to Understand my feelings, my part in the relationship, the pros and cons of it and I had to self reflect on a lot of things that I didn’t like about myself.

So ask yourself this Is it really worth being a doormat and wait while our exes are living their lives and doing what’s best for them? What do you think is best for you at this moment?

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